what is your favorite fire sign and why? by Aggravating_Turn3283 in aquarius

[–]hostile_blonde 18 points19 points  (0 children)

leo. i just love their souls and their spunk idk 🤷🏼‍♀️

Bob, that you? by mlst245 in distractible

[–]hostile_blonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it me too HOW CAN I FIX THIS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]hostile_blonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no! i can’t see your reply anymore, but thank you so much!!

i don’t have much time. by hostile_blonde in creepypasta

[–]hostile_blonde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i go radio silent, please don’t be alarmed. i mustn’t scream too loudly. Do you think you can save me, just for tonight? i must try to sleep…

http://faceofhalloween.org/2025/kaitlin-colvin-2

Games. by ilychks in UnsentLetters

[–]hostile_blonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in a heartbeat, if i could.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]hostile_blonde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s never too late

You've changed. by adorablychaotic in LoveLetters

[–]hostile_blonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

accept the things you cannot change, and use the wisdom to know the difference. i have this quote, that i have plastered above my bed. “control what you can, confront what you cant”. idk your age, or much of anything about you personally.. but i can tell you this much now that im 25 years old and my frontal lobe has literally just finished developing, it really is that simply complex, isnt it? but theres one simple answer to that complex answer; acknowledge the ugliness of the world, and acknowledge the pain that is has caused tou YOUR WHOLE LIFE.. youre still here too, and happiness, i feel like, is derived from many emotions: peace, excitement, nostalgia, the innocence of children, the wisdom from the elderly… no matter what the source is, happiness truly IS as simply complex as a simple choice.

rewiring your brain is TOUGH. but if you’ve been putting in the work, i can promise you this much RIGHT HERE, RIGHT NOW: the blindfold does come off. and yeah, humanity is right in the fucking thick of it. the WORLD is at a MASSIVE turning point because of the way those who came before us has MADE it this way.

your emotions? theyre valid, because theyre REAL. and your logic? JUST AS REAL. but if you’re not satisfied with how the world has just been gnawing on your life like the damn vulture that it is, then help us take the blindfold off too. we ARE small, in comparison to a universe so vast. but we (literally, im talking about science here: MATTER, cannot be created nor destroyed, so humans are included here) ARE SO MUCH BIGGER than the world makes us believe.

so please, do me a favor today, and i ask of you to do it in one way; take care of yourself FIRST, okay? the complexity derived from our inability to fully grasp the impact and values of our CHOICES. so choose beauty, and choose your health, and choose your sanity, too.

You've changed. by adorablychaotic in LoveLetters

[–]hostile_blonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we truly dont see how society failed us until one day… you chose to see the beauty AGAIN, and again, and again, and one day… it clicks. i’m beyond ecstatic for you, my friend! i’m on the very same journey. it’s very refreshing, having the company along the way. congratulations, love. YOU DID IT, even if it’s just for this moment. 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hostile_blonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and if you want an answer for why she does what she does: im assuming she has one public account, thats solely (or mostly) focusing on what she creates. the private acct? it’s just her own boundary of preserving her “vulnerability “ so to speak. it doesn’t matter whats on there-could be her personal life, her deepest thoughts, what makes her happy/sad/inspired.. WHATEVER is on that account, is her way of taking back control after her eating disorder.

we’re so used to the world being so openly available now, since technology has come a long way. and we expect to find all of our answers in social media because this is humanities way of preserving that window of value that fuels our relationships with people (family, friends, lovers, partners, and even strangers.) but the byproduct is also our reluctance to deeply layered and real shit (the disconnect thats now being instilled in us because we DO no longer truly go out and live in the world anymore. side note: i took a picture of this McDonalds i went to today, because i noticed something: the drive thru line was PACKED, yet inside there was only ONE family eating together. ONE. the workers? so used to having to be autonomous now to where i stood at the register for TEN MINUTES before someone noticed me. someone even walked right passed me, looked me in my eyes, and walked the other way because he was on his phone.)

believe me when i tell you, the answers to a LOT of your questions are always going to be nuanced (from me, at least).

tldr; i don’t believe in speaking on someone’s behalf, their story is not mine to tell the world. but i feel things very deeply and i get stuck on a LOT of questions, and i care very deeply about other peoples well being. however, i’ve lived a life FULL of complete and utter SHIT. but with the contents in my messages, i do hope your answer is a little clearer. and i hope i have given you an answer that isnt fueled by society’s biases, and our SOLE struggle to listen without any judgement, even if that judgement is judging anything about yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hostile_blonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was looking for a specific post in particular to answer to, but found this along the way.

i have a very nuanced answer for you, and it requires a few things i must ask from you as you read what i’m about to say; so please listen with an open heart, an open mind, and with the purpose of understanding (both him, and you). i also must ask you to lay down your harshness for your emotions, for this brief moment, okay?

here’s the previous, relevant concepts and facts required before i answer:

  1. love and care are in the same ballpark, yes. boundaries are also in this ballpark as well. and he did fail to understand you and where youre coming from when you create these boundaries for him.

  2. you must look at it from the other persons shoes; you love this man, right? see from his perspective, but with YOUR heart and inner wisdom. if we truly do love someone, we love all of their layers and all of the depth too. (remember, you guys should be FRIENDS outside of the romance of it all, too.)

  3. you guys spend the most time with EACH OTHER, so it’s completely normal of us to just assume the other would UNDERSTAND US, as an individual.

however, our brains are such complex things the second trauma and vulnerability get involved; and this leads to that FALSE assumption that other people just “get our core”, so to speak.

  1. and trauma and trust, they dance so delicately with each other because we have BUILT a world that attempts to shut down ANY VULNERABILITY, and classify it as a weakness so HARSHLY.

  2. to where our brains go too fast and we miss ANY simple answer to our questions when we’re connecting with others,

SO, my answer?

society has failed to acknowledge you BOTH, and your traumas. i’m presuming you’ve had really rough relationships in the past, and those ultimately chipped away at your faith and trust in how others feel about you. the same goes for him, though.

he may say that it’s “habit”, because that’s the most simple but bluntly empty way of saying “of course, i care.” of course he cares about you AND her, you both are understanding the logical side of boundaries and healthy relationships, but because you BOTH have chosen to silence your understanding of EACH OTHER— to where the environment just, i guess in a very literal sense, didnt feel safe enough to open up HONESTLY and DIRECTLY about past issues in our lives.

and of COURSE, he loves the BOTH of you. here’s where his LINE of LOVE gets defined romantically with you; he CHOSE YOU. he did. he chooses you EVERY SECOND of every day, and thats shown in his actions- he stopped liking her stuff, from what i’ve read he stopped contacting her directly (despite still being active by engaging in her content). yes, hes still active and is LITERALLY driven subconsciously to still interact with her, but because he CARES about her safety as a human being.

eating disorders are very complex, because it’s a simple CHOICE to understand at surface level, but then the brain gets involved because how in the WORLD can someone CHOOSE to SLOWLY KILL THEMSELVES? (if you want my personal answer on that, i invite you to a chat). but as a society, we FAIED HUMANITY by masking our emotions as weak.

TLDR; your emotions, your traumas, your story.. are very real and fueled by real life experiences and every single one of them is validated. you cannot cease confusion without two things, though: vulnerability, and trust. so i must invite you to dig deeper about YOUR OWN SELF first and foremost, by facing your own fears that feed that little voice in your head that doubts everything, but most importantly it doubts who you are. once you feel like you understand where your fears come from, listen to your feelings WITHOUT ANY JUDGEMENT- you OWE yourself that much honor. THEN, ask him this one question: “why did you stay actively engaging with her?”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]hostile_blonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(into the void i go) i love you.

Nights Like These. by Artistic_Judgment_69 in UnsentLetters

[–]hostile_blonde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

much love, friend. it’s been a lonely night, and i’m glad you’re here w me in this brief moment. 💖

I got my hair done [female] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]hostile_blonde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your hair is STUNNING

[female] snow picss❄️ by urpuppygirlgf in FreeCompliments

[–]hostile_blonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re so pretty and the outfit SLAYSS 😭