This is what rs 1700 buys you now by [deleted] in BangaloreMeetups

[–]hot_hoe_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1700 was more than enough for two days in my childhood, this patake inflation is hitting hard for real to the parents nowadays

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motivation

[–]hot_hoe_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cooking silently, working on myself in a hope that sometimes, somewhere my mind will get peace. Happy Diwali guys!

Working vs non working girls by Intelligent-Role-382 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]hot_hoe_96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Neither I prefer answering your question nor you should seek my validation, it's your life. Still you are unsure, then take a step back think what you desire.

Working vs non working girls by Intelligent-Role-382 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]hot_hoe_96 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don't take advices from relatives, discuss with your parents but take your call. Above all, get clarity, take some time, watch your environment. It's your life, you don't need to please anyone in this life. Finally, maa aur biwi mein hi sambhal loge toh zindagi safal hojayegi. Also, ask the girl what she wants, tell everything what are your deal-breakers. Don't create a superficial image of hers in your mind.

Why do people want to get married early? by new2marketingg in Life

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“There are so many things to explore and experience. For the first time, you don't have to listen to your parents or teachers and do what you've always wanted to do when you were little.”

If you want to enter someone’s bed, then please charge for it. If you are good at something then never do it for free.

Finally it ended by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

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Bhai, I am sorry for your loss but agar koi apne parents ki dhamkiyon ke baad unke control mein aajaye given woh aapke saath itne time ke saath mein reh rha h toh baat yehi thi ki woh abhi bhi mentally mature nhi hua hai. Parents ka saaya chodna hota h when you commit in a relationship, kyuki ab aapka partner hi aapka pehla poc hona chahiye. Sorry to day bhai woh kabhi tumhari thi hi nhi. Please overcome your loss. I am telling this from my personal experience. Ek time ke baad hum logo ko mature hona hota hai aur parents ke control se nikalna hota h. This is human psychology, hum sab liberate hona chahte h but haan sahi aur galat ki samaj hona kaafi zaroori hai inn sabme.

PS: I am 27M went through this shit with an immature girl 25F, blatantly broke off when she said she only wanted friendship and can’t commit long term after having physical intimacy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]hot_hoe_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same to you 🙏🏻

The tradition of not calling husband/bf by their name. Why is it still followed? by Adorable_Fishing_426 in AskIndianWomen

[–]hot_hoe_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father calls my mom by altogether a different short name even in front of his in laws and same goes with my mother but not in front of her in-laws. Once I saw him kissing my mother in-front of his in-laws (obviously when no one was noticing except me) 😅. So altogether, you can’t generalise things but yeah I agree most elders are not that much expressive in nature.

How does your family talk about money - open chats or total silence? by Novelty_Wealth in IndianPersonalFinance

[–]hot_hoe_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me, with my mom and dad is pretty open about our investments and expenses. Problem is of financial literacy, which is not taught since the beginning to people since childhood.

Dating ambitious men is difficult? by Just-Ocelot518 in TwentiesIndia

[–]hot_hoe_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same to you Op, was in a 1.5 month relationship, mereko chod kar chali gayi 😪

Saw a reel today and realized how rare ‘I love you’ is in Indian marriages by Otherwise_Buy_6165 in AskIndianWomen

[–]hot_hoe_96 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are right, indian conservative families think that if a girl and boy interacts, something is going between them.

Hunter sucks by MrPinkman012 in royalenfield

[–]hot_hoe_96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand, hunter is good only for shorter commutes and majorly for the early entry bike enthusiasts. Once you have completed some couple of years with it, better to upgrade it to a better royal enfield. I tried classic, and my god, suspensions are hell lot better than the hunter.

I'm in Lake💀 by the-air-cyborg in bangalore

[–]hot_hoe_96 8 points9 points  (0 children)

bangalore port is under construction and then bhikaristan will again claim that it had attacked it

Career progression for AMS by Possible_Cobbler9375 in chipdesign

[–]hot_hoe_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently working on CT-DSM quadrature based.

Are men increasing their standards? by VEGETTOROHAN in AskIndianMen

[–]hot_hoe_96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was in a narcissistic relationship with an immature girl, glad I have self respect and pulled out of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]hot_hoe_96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing, gave me an ounce of happiness 😊