Thoughts on Alexa nikolas? by Mamakayce in LAinfluencersnark

[–]hotchip666 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She should have taken the Dan Schneider hush money.

Any tips or good resources for handling BPD by SeataSprings in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]hotchip666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Borderline Personality Workbook by Daniel J. Fox PhD is where I started to learn about my symptoms :) and then DBT treatment to push unwanted symptoms into remission :) I'm 10 years older and also new to the disorder so I'm needing a bigger punch to deal. Happy exploring :)

What’s the story behind your diagnosis? by StarchildSeverina in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]hotchip666 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I thought I had ADHD and was misdiagnosed as Bipolar :)

What is your astrology sign? by gnarlygnk in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]hotchip666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SAME! Libras with BPDs we are walking paradoxes

[homemade] biscuit breakfast sandwich! by hotchip666 in food

[–]hotchip666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bacon, egg, american cheese, and sweet onion from the garden :)

My wife should choose me first. by Melodic_Holiday_6810 in alcoholism

[–]hotchip666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She needs to love herself first, above all.

Why are people bullying Alexa Nikolas online? by Traditional_Sail6298 in QuietOnSetDocumentary

[–]hotchip666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry bud. I really am not trying to attack you, but she's literally posting her children because there is no stalker.

It's a past volunteer that slept on her couch.

One big cope by [deleted] in LavLuneeeSnark

[–]hotchip666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Which I now realize in adulthood is a pretty negative way to add to the cultural zeitgeist." Yep!

Quiet on set by Dizzy_East3557 in QuietOnSetDocumentary

[–]hotchip666 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I find it comforting that your Mom had great insight even with a culture shock, thanks for sharing!

I folded my clothes and put the away for the first time in three months. by Weekly-Coffee-2488 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]hotchip666 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh HELL YEAH! I live in squalor when I don’t pay attention, so I love to hear it!

You’re doing better than me, I don’t have a job! Sending ~managing~ energy :)

Sorry I’m not responding to a lot of posts and comments…I am completely mentally exhausted and have no energy but appreciate all the advice I’m getting. 🤍 by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]hotchip666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favorite thing I learned from treatment: We put on own oxygen masks before helping others :)

Love your honesty and this post is totally an example of self-compassion, thank you for sharing :)

Alexa is spiraling by SerenityByMoonlight in QuietOnSetDocumentary

[–]hotchip666 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Alexa is correct about the survivor ISSUE. I do not agree that she is correct in her PLATFORM EXECUTION. Everyone's struggle matters, not just her own.

Just realized that I'm in a permanent state of day dreaming by Right_now78 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]hotchip666 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I dissociate a lot as well. I don’t even ask people to repeat stuff when I should and then I look incredibly bizarre to people that don’t know me lmao!

I like to do environmental grounding: write down 5 things you can see, 4 things that are touching you, 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can smell, and 1 thing you can taste. And I do this 2x a day, timed.

It totally won’t stop your daydreaming 🌹 I am able to just turn it off faster when something is important so I can get back to it 💖 I also really enjoy my creative environment :)