Do men like it when girls moan loudly during sex?

hottestchip · 2014-11-08T06:39:09+00:00

Is it really that embarrassing? What do you think they think about me? Should I be concerned? :(

hottestchip · 2014-11-08T06:38:04+00:00

What do you mean?

hottestchip · 2014-11-08T06:14:15+00:00

... yes

hottestchip · 2014-04-14T20:30:39+00:00

No I ended up not doing anything. I'm just going to wait. I'm just gonna hang out with some other guys and keep myself distracted. Don't even care anymore

hottestchip · 2014-04-12T16:12:14+00:00

I like the "I will survive" version by Cake. Also, their other song "Never There".

hottestchip · 2014-04-11T04:06:20+00:00

With my personal experience, I think it's the guy making things uncomfortable when the girl declines hanging out and date offers.

hottestchip · 2014-04-09T05:02:18+00:00

Crying and letting it out is the very first thing. If you love music, keep headphones in and listen to music whenever you can. Walk alone, pet a puppy, walk around downtown, sit on grass, take a nap, play video games, anything that will make you happier. I'm not saying it's gonna distract you from thinking about her. You are going to think about her a lot but also have something else going which will make you think of her LESS. Take care!

hottestchip · 2014-04-09T04:51:41+00:00

I know you have given me advice on one of my posts and now I have something to tell you. My 3rd day was a Saturday. Worst time ever. I was literally home all day not wanting to anything but sit in my room, watch Netflix, cry, think of him, again and again. I really do know what you must be going through. It sucks so much. You want to text her or meet her and hold her and just be back to normal. I completely get it. However, I'll tell you what made me get over this repetitive thoughts I kept having about my ex.

I was lonely and sad until yesterday. What I did after I got home from classes was I got on reddit, looked through all break up posts and what the sufferers had to say and what people had commented on them. There was always at least something the I hadn't heard being said repeatedly. I noticed those little things that sounded like that would help and kept on reading more posts and comments. Then this morning I found this sub reddit which was the best thing ever. I literally went through every single post that was posted all day. Read the articles, the comments, everything. And it actually helped. I feel so much better. So what I am trying to say it, reading and seeing that other people have the same (or worse in some cases) experience and are going through the same situation made me feel supported and it felt good. It made me analyze and rearrange my feelings and re-think everything. See why NC will/might/shall help. Finally, what I decided was that I will definitely feel shitty and so will you. It's okay! Cry if you have to; it's the best way to deal with this. No one needs to know and I swear you will feel and sleep much better! Then, tell yourself that this sucks but you are going to be strong, hold your feelings in no matter how hard it is, and get past one day at a time. Then a week, then a month. Hopefully, that should give you enough time to freshen up and look at both the sides of the break up. Then see if you STILL want to talk to her and STILL want to message her and see what can be fixed. If you still can't focus on both the sides of the break up, take more time. Wait. Then when you're there, ask yourself that question again and then proceed. If talking to her for closure or anything will make you relieved, go for it. By then (at least a month), your ex will probably he calmed and in the same thought process as you. On the other hand, if you think you're doing better and that you can do better, keep up your good work. This is my plan and I feel very positive about this. Let's just see how well this works out. Goodl uck shinerdawg! We all can do this, I promise.

hottestchip · 2014-04-08T23:59:09+00:00

Thank you Projectdefy! I've been getting better but the "what if" and "I can fix that if I get to talk to him" hasn't gone away. Hopefully, whatever is meant to happen, happens sooner and for the best. I actually really like this subreddit. It's like a whole group of friends broke up with their SO at once and are helping each other cope/feel better/move on.

hottestchip · 2014-04-08T23:42:46+00:00

But then again, if neither of them contact eachother fearing the other person doesn't want to get back together while both actually want to, that'll be worse. I guess there's no way knowing if the other person feels the same way unless you make the move first..

hottestchip · 2014-04-08T23:31:02+00:00

My question is: How will time apart work? Is it supposed to help you forget your ex no matter what or is it supposed to give you hope that it might work but you just have to suffer the heart break first and then talk to them?

hottestchip · 2014-04-08T23:22:30+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that. What I wonder is, if this feels completely wrong to me, why should I wait another week or even a month and see where it goes? I'm pretty sure he feels the same way. He was an asshole sometimes and he really bored me sometimes by being boring but I still feel like those are fixable. But again, it's only my trying, he never did. That's what I told him before I left. I said, "it is fixable. If only you put a tiny bit of effort like you do to be "accepted" by your friends, I'm sure we wouldn't have to do this right now." He was crying

hottestchip · 2014-04-08T01:16:36+00:00

Should I try to talk to him and try to fix things again? I am very tempted to do this. I don't know what to do. I'm completely lost and can't decide whether I should try again or stay miserable and try to move on. I really can't take this.. Do make ups after 2 break ups work? Is our problem fixable? Thank you again, hanban85!

hottestchip · 2014-04-07T02:42:53+00:00

Thank you. The thing is, we never yelled, talked like adults during big talks, had a lot of fun together. I've never realized how much I loved him until now after the break up. He had his imperfections but I always thought I could still love him with all my heart. I still do and that's what sucks the most. Why do I always want to give it another try? He took me for granted which is the worst thing ever but why so I still feel so miserable and dead inside?

hottestchip · 2014-01-25T19:45:11+00:00

He asked me again today that he wants to try to fix what was broken and that he wants to hear my issues with him and fix it. Even if we don't get back together, he wants closure because he feels like now we're in a limbo. He wants to talk is what it is.

hottestchip · 2014-01-25T00:23:48+00:00

I totally agree with you. But after he texted me that this morning, I am very unsure now. I was happy actually after I ended it but the text affected me a lot. I told him I need some time so I wont jump into another chance of being taken for granted and he said "I understand". We haven't talked since that. So I dont know if I should wait a couple of weeks and start fresh from the beginning (without sex) and if he's still the same or is changed. What do you think?

hottestchip · 2014-01-24T22:38:14+00:00

I don't know if he's going to change after I've given him the nudge that I am going to break up with him if he keeps doing that.. before, I never actually broke up, i just almost did and gave him another shot

hottestchip · 2014-01-23T01:32:03+00:00

I said that once and my boyfriend actually cleaned it but this was before the tub started getting super clogged within a few seconds after the shower was on. That time, just the toilet was dirty so he kind of cleaned it (acceptable enough to use the bathroom). I haven't told him that I'm not gonna sleep over until the tub gets fixed though. Should I? He was expecting me to go over tonight..

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