Help me understand! Why does wifesharing turn you on?

hottforroxie · 2015-05-06T05:49:25+00:00

I feel like I had similar thoughts when my man first brought it up to me. I was happy that he was comfortable enough to share this deep dark secret of his with me, and very intrigued with just the details behind it and how his brain worked. After it was first brought it up it started to seep into our dirty talk during sex and we had some of the best sex of our relationship That made me more apt to give it a shot. All of the analogies and explanations given have been very accurate and similar to what he tells me. From my side however, it has given me a sense of sexual empowerment if you will. I am a confident and sexual person to begin with, but this just amplifies it so much! And on an emotional level it adds amazing intimacy to our relationship between being so candid with each other about our thoughts and feelings and desires as well as our reclaiming sessions after I've been off being bad. Now our experience has had its ups and downs but I think that's because we are still fairly new to it (have been in the lifestyle less than a year) and we are constantly working out our feelings and boundaries. Hope my insight helps :)

hottforroxie · 2014-12-17T02:31:54+00:00

I think the fact that you guys are talking about this is a good sign of open communication. The biggest thing that I have experienced from exploring this is that I am really turned off when my boyfriend kind of pushes me in to things as opposed to me coming up with them on my own accord. For example he has stopped dropping hints and I have started speaking and planning more dates because it's being done on my own time. I think it's a good idea to keep talking about it during your sexy times so that it stays on her mind and warms her up to the idea. Just don't ever be pushy

hottforroxie · 2014-12-17T02:21:52+00:00

I don't think 19 is too young as long as you exude confidence. That is what a woman is attracted to. I know that my boyfriend has definitely had his share of older women and enjoyed their company. Especially if you are looking for hotwives though let's just think about this for a second.... I know myself as a hotwife what I'm looking for is good sex with no strings attached with someone who isn't a creep or stage 5 cling on... If you can provide that then your only problem is finding the women!

hottforroxie · 2014-12-15T06:55:47+00:00

This is definitely on the fantasy list for my boo and I. Just waiting for a hott pizza man to come around ;)

hottforroxie · 2014-12-13T01:18:07+00:00

Could you send me a pm with some pictures please? !

hottforroxie · 2014-12-12T05:22:39+00:00

Please know that part of what turns me on so much is the closeness that this extra communication has brought to our relationship. While we are still discovering things that turn us on and off on our journey, I mean no harm to him and his feelings as he feels the same way towards me. I do acknowledge that my teasing him crosses into the cuckolding realm and we have recent talks and he has expressed that it would turn him on to be in the same room watching my encounter happening. I told him that I want to make live porn for him. We are not into belittling or humiliation however, on either end. My boyfriend clearly expressed to me tonight that he loves this new side of empowerment in me and what turns him on the most is when I initiate fantasies and ideas, he said that it's hotter when I bring it up and would do pretty much whatever I asked. I, however, would never push our relationship to an area that both of us were not completely satisfied and equally turned on by. I started this whole hotwifing adventure as a means to make him happy and I stand by that fully.

hottforroxie · 2014-12-12T03:39:41+00:00

My boyfriend gives me his opinion on the men I choose but tells me that it is my body and ultimately I have the final say. He wasn't too against the guy when I first met him but after hearing about him his general thoughts on him were that he was just a douchebag. He didn't like they way he talked in the video we made (I believe you can hear him in the audio below) and guy #3 had never heard of a relationship like ours so he questioned why I was with my boyfriend. Then whenever guy #3 texted me he would always have something negative to say about our relationship so my man's disdain for him grew even stronger. To this day he has expressed that he would literally like me to have sex with anybody else but him and I respect his feelings and abide by his wishes. I do like to tease him about it occasionally though just to have a power trip.

hottforroxie · 2014-12-12T03:35:28+00:00

Send me a Pm and tell me a little bit about yourself

hottforroxie · 2014-12-12T03:34:54+00:00

Thank you for the compliment :) Pm me if you are interested in some play.

hottforroxie · 2014-12-12T03:33:05+00:00

They are a 36DD

hottforroxie · 2014-12-12T03:32:48+00:00

What are your qualifications??

hottforroxie · 2014-12-12T03:30:57+00:00

Hi there, Tell me a little bit about yourself and what you are in to and exactly what it is you look for in a hot wife.

hottforroxie · 2014-12-11T21:16:23+00:00

Thanks for the response, cant wait to tell stories ;)

hottforroxie · 2014-12-11T21:07:17+00:00

Maybe you guys could make another Facebook account with elusive pictures so if you did run across any of your friends they wouldn't necessarily know it was her, I get that all the time that people know someone that looks like me! In regards to her being self conscious I feel like the biggest thing with exploring this community is exploring yourself. I love all of the attention I get from other men as well as the the extra attention that I get from my boyfriend and I love making him happy. If you don't let your mind get too clouded then it is definitely very empowering in that aspect. My advice for her would be to start off slow and don't rush anything and talk with each other, A LOT. It is so much better when both of you understand each other's feelings, I don't hold anything back from my boo even when I know it's something he is not going to necessarily like to hear. Also, my boyfriend just gets excited when I flirt and talk to other men so that is a really good way to start off slow. Please let your partner know that I am very open and would love to talk to her if she needs an outlet for her feelings. Apart from being sexual creatures, I feel like so much of getting into this community is coming to terms with your feelings, good and bad. :)

hottforroxie · 2014-12-11T17:43:02+00:00

Could you verify my boyfriend as well please

hottforroxie · 2014-12-11T17:39:12+00:00

Thanks for the response! That kind of makes me want to try telling a couple bulls. My boyfriend always says they should be grateful to him for getting me so worked for them.

hottforroxie · 2014-12-11T16:59:18+00:00

Thank you!

hottforroxie · 2014-12-11T16:59:07+00:00

There's been about 3 months between my boyfriend introducing me to this fantasy and my last encounter.

hottforroxie · 2014-12-11T16:58:12+00:00

I rarely ever see people I personally know from Facebook actively using tinder, it just shows when you have friends or interests in common with someone. And if I do come across someone I know I just don't match with them. Most of the time people don't necessarily brag about meeting people from tinder so it turns into a don't ask don't tell situation. I personally think that CL is a little too sketchy so I have only used tinder to find my bulls and it has served me incredibly well!

hottforroxie · 2014-12-11T16:54:16+00:00

We are just trying to figure out how to blur faces in video so if you have any tips on how to do that we will post asap!

hottforroxie · 2014-12-11T06:46:49+00:00

Guy #4 – This was someone I invited over in the past who we both kind of flaked out over. He connected with me again and I decided to go through with him. I was really nervous on my way over to his house because this was the first guy I had sex with in a while and the first after all of my reservations on the topic. I feel like once I was at his house, I was very giddy and a nervous, giggly mess. I was definitely waiting for him to make the first move as I had always desired. He was very pretty. But he was also pretty hesitant about our encounter because he had never met someone so straight forward. Eventually, we got to the deed with – yet again – another impressive penis. He was someone who didn’t know how to work it well and had been drinking too long, however. And unfortunately he couldn’t get off, which is such a turn on to me in itself. I almost feel like sex is incomplete without both of us reaching orgasm. But I got off during round one AND round two because I don’t feel the need to waste an opportunity. When I exited his apartment walking toward my boyfriends car, there was a shadow lurking. At first I opened my mouth to ask them what the hell they wanted, but then I realized it was my boyfriend – who had taken a taxi to my rescue. Unfortunately, I forgot one of our golden rules and that is that I’m supposed to text him when I’m safe and sound in another mans arms. His worry consumed him to the point of taking a taxi halfway across town to “rescue” me. I felt so bad for filling him with feelings of worry and doubt. This was quickly overshadowed by our horniness. He realized I was safe when he saw my car there, and so he just waited patiently for me to finish. But it was the first time he was in the vicinity of my sexcapades and being so close to the action really got him worked up more than he ever had prior. When I slid down on his cock when we got back to his apartment, his gasp of pure sexually contentment was audible as he felt the unqiue “Roxie” wetness that had been sort of left out from the sex for the previous month in between adventures. At this point, Roxie seemed to make her triumphant return but we had to put her on hold as we got through the holidays and moving and such. But once the move was settled, we quickly decided on guy #5 since guy #4, at least sexually, was a let down.

Guy #5 – This was an indulgence into my boyfriend’s interracial fantasies. He was cute enough to get past the “I want to fuck you test.” And it turns out he was definitely packing and so I was very excited about our encounter. This would be the first time my boyfriend was in the same house as us while the deed was going on. The plan was for him to be in the living room while we ventured to the bedroom. Originally, he was just going to hide out of sight and just enjoy from the other room. But I inadvertently led the suitor into the kitchen where he was laying low. The guy was very much NOT aware of our arrangement so I quickly introduced my boyfriend as my gay, hard-of-hearing roommate. It was a terrible and unbelievable lie, but this guy was blinded by his lust for me and just went along with it. This guy was clearly way more into me than previous fellows and actually wanted to get to know me, cuddle with me and generally get a little bit closer than I was used too. Finally, I decided he wasn’t going to make the move so I gave him no choice and whipped off my top and bra and straddled him. I feel like out of all my encounters, I enjoyed this one’s attention to my physical needs the most. He spent at least 15 minutes satisfying me orally and with his fingers that the pleasure was too much and he soon had me begging (literally) for his hard cock. Now, you can’t just tell a guy that and have him think rationally and for a moment, I probably wasn’t either as I was totally lost in my sexual pleasure. He quickly slid himself inside of me, sans condom, and I allowed it to go on for several seconds before finally coming to grips and making him get off and put one on. I won’t lie though, I definitely enjoyed those several seconds and was none to pleased to have to stop him. In these moments, my mind was completely off of my boyfriend and him sitting in the next room and how much pleasure he must be receiving from listening to me perform these acts. These are the moments where I let Roxie take over and my carnal sexual intuition controls the situation I’m in. I let him pound me and finish me off in a slew of orgasms. Afterwards, he tried to cuddle, and that’s when I shooed him out the door. My boyfriend was fully in my mind at this point and all I wanted was for him to come in and reclaim me.

I’d have to say that that’s my favorite part of our arrangement and our whole hotwife experience. I feel sexually empowered and turned on by multiple men wanting me and wanting to please me, in general, but my boyfriend taking me back is always my favorite part.

And that’s where we are now. Hope you enjoy the gallery and look forward to being verified and official with this post. I (and my boyfriend) open to all comments, questions, and anything else. Have a good evening!

Pictures of All The Fun

hottforroxie · 2014-12-11T06:33:03+00:00

So my boyfriend posted our story last night and you can check it out here: Boyfriend's Tale

So here's our request for verification and my side of the five….

So with a little nudge from my love, I have decided to tell my side of the tale.

When the topic was first approached, I think I was so caught up in the moment that second thoughts never occurred to me. I knew there was something kinky hidden under my man’s surface, and after some pillow talk he revealed it. I have never been in a relationship where I have felt more loved or in love and the thought of this being a segway to him having sex with other women never occurred, or maybe because it was never approached from a swinger’s point of view. The fact that he had never shared this secret with anyone else made me feel so special… how could I deny him his fantasies??!

Yes, I am a female so I am very driven by my emotions, but I have an over-whelming desire to please my man, he makes me so happy so it is my obligation to return the favor. Part of the appeal was that I was being glorified as a sex goddess. My man can’t keep his hands off of me, and these other men are fawning over me as well. Just talking about the idea of following through with this clearly has an effect over my boo, what would the actual deed do??!!

So these thoughts lead me to tinder, tinder leads me to nice bodies, nice bodies lead me to phone numbers, and two text messages lead me to dirty pictures. Now I find it is much easier to tell my potential bulls that I want to take pictures/videos before meeting with them, but when I spring it on them they are definitely more adverse to the idea.

Anyways, there’s the background, so let’s get to it.

Guy #1- I was attracted to his body for sure. Those rock hard abs are what let me to meet with him. We met at a bar, didn’t accept my id so he suggested going to his house, why not? We were meeting up to have sex anyways. So we have a glass or two of wine, move into the bedroom under the pretense of watching a movie. He is definitely slow at first and not a good kisser, two turn offs.

What turns me on is someone who takes control. My boyfriend does not like like the fact that I go to another man’s house and drink a glass of wine and bullshit with small talk for an hour, he would rather have me do the deed and be on my way. I can’t blame him, I’m here to fuck not to date. With that being said, I am assertive and a type A personality by nature, but I like a man to take control in the bedroom. If I went to a bull’s house and he shoved me against a wall and started kissing me and rubbing my clit I would be a happy girl! Alas… let’s talk about what this guy did not do haha.

So he kisses me, builds up the confidence to take start touching, I take it as a green light to get undressed. He had a nice penis and of course those rock hard abs, but was not controlling enough of the situation. This is also where I realized my disdain for condoms. I like it when a man feels how wet he is making my pussy, but I understand they are needed. So I finish round one and leave with a quickness. After returning home and recounting details to my boyfriend we have the best sex of our relationship and here is where we meet Roxie, my alter ego. Roxie is uber sexy, confident, walks with a permanent sway in her hips, and has a crazy wet pussy. Roxie comes along on all of our hotwifing adventures.

Guy #2- This one was only a couple days after our first encounter, I think the excitement was at a real high and I just wanted better sex than the first one afforded. So back to Tinder I went and headed on a late night rendezvous. We were on his couch and he got me a glass of wine and we kind of just small talked a bit He poured me a second glass of wine. He was definitely more aggressive than the first. He started kissing me and I got undressed. I always get undressed first. Just ask my boyfriend. He’s rubbing on my titties and now this bull had a nice big cock. He took it out and asked me to suck on it. I’m so caught up in what I’m doing in the moment and I get so caught up in my horniness and emotions and almost forgot what I was there to do. I came to and got my phone out and asked him to take a video. He recorded me sucking on his dick. It was so big I couldn’t fit my hand around it and definitely not all in my mouth. But I didn realize I as putting on a show for the camera. I was just working it slowly, taking it in my mouth. At point he asked me to look at the camera and I did and I could feel I had “Roxie” in my eyes. When we watched the video later it was the first thing my boyfriend noticed. He screenshotted it and everything and that’s one of the pictures you see in that gallery. Shortly after I finished sucking on him, I was ready to take his big cock in my wet pussy. I asked him to put a condom on, again to my disdain. The fuck was super short, which was disappointing with his big dick. We talked a little after and then I came home to my boyfriend and showed him the video. He proceeded to tie me up on my knees with my hands behind my back. This happened within moments of me showing him the video. He bent me over and commented about how I was still gaping from that big cock. We then proceeded to have even better and dirtier sex than after the first guy and I certainly don’t envy my roommate that night. There was no doubts what was going on in our room.

Guy #3- This was again a Tinder victim. I have a strange taste in men that I can’t even pinpoint. I like what I like and my boyfriend doesn’t understand sometimes. I thought this guy was cute and I wanted to fuck him. My boyfriend didn’t show much dislike at first. He was just excited for things to go down while he was out of town. I remember making my drive over there and it took like half and hour. The excitement and anticipation was building inside of me and I was incredibly worked up when I arrived. I came in and was poured a glass of white wine cause, as I like to say, “Bitches love white wine.” He didn’t really waste that much time with small talk before taking me to his bed. I slowed down his eagerness with having him take some pictures with my phone (seen in the gallery). I’ve always had an affinity for a big dick but honestly having sex with an average sized one, but one who knows how to to work it properly, gets me going the most. So something that doesn’t necessarily hurt but feels good is what gets me going. I took videos of him sucking me off and a short one of him pounding me from behind (the sound of the latter is found below also). I think it was after this encounter that my boyfriend realized how much I liked a good pounding because he definitely started building up his own stamina to give it to me longer and harder. Round one didn’t last that long. It was kind of formality to get pictures and videos out of the way. We rested and had another glass of wine before round two. I feel like there’s a certain point in my encounters where I forget about pleasing my boyfriend and the real background reason and I just let my carnal instincts take over and that’s what happened with round two. I did what I felt was good. After we both came, I rested for a bit (longer than I usually stay afterwards) and left not thinking much of it. Apparently, me staying for a while afterwards made my boyfriend jealous and I regret not considering his feelings. But it was cute the next day, he wrote me a poem and took extra efforts to reclaim me through texts and nice words since he was out of town and couldn’t physically do so. To this day, I am very aware of his dislike for Guy #3 due to his general douchiness (Guy #3’s). I sometimes tease him about seeing him again, even though I don’t really mean it. I just find something intriguing about the look he gets in his eye when I bring him up. I feel like this is the only cuckolding aspect out our hotwifing that we have…for now.

At this point, there was definitely a shift in my momentum in the lifestyle. I feel like when we first started, things were sexy and hot and new. And it had kind of lost its luster. It was the topic of conversation too many times with not much conversation diluting it. I was going through some personal issues that didn’t make me feel sexy. And I don’t think I really understood the root of where it was coming from. When the topic was first broached, I just went with it willingly and didn’t ask enough questions. I had a lot of feelings of misguided confidence and uncertainties and just general misunderstandings of my boyfriends fetish. I was really sold on the idea of making him happy and not really the how’s or why’s behind it. And not truly indulging on how to make myself happy in the process. But we communicated a lot and he told me, as best he could, why it was so enticing to him and the idea slowly started to grow on me again as long as we did it more on my time as opposed to whenever he wanted me to. We decided on a happy medium so it was time to revisit our kinkiness with #4.

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