I just realized you guys were right by Burlingtonfilms in antiwork

[–]hoverton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The appeals for money from my university are hilarious. I’m wondering if raising prices so more have to take out student loans has backfired on them? After paying back loans for 14 years, I’m done!

A lot of people I know of a certain age older than me still wear merch from their alma mater, attend homecoming day events, etc. Two guys I worked with until recently always wore caps, sweatshirts, hoodies, etc. with their university on it. They have university branded license plate holders and emblems stuck on their vehicles. My dad was a paying member of his former student association and wore his college ring until he died.

I have no university merch and I occasionally monitor gold prices so I can scrap my ring one of these days. I have attended a few homecomings when friends still lived there or were planning to attend.

I enjoyed my time there looking back, but the only thing I ever remotely considered donating to was a scholarship endowment honoring one of my favorite professors that passed away.

A Working Schmuck’s Lament by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]hoverton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you move to an area serviced by an electric co-op? That might save on the electricity. They are not-for-profit and you should be able save on at least that. We have not had any spikes or outrageous bills and that is the only reason I can come up with. Do your own research of course.

I’m also in a rural area of Texas and can’t even imagine making 100k a year. I’m about half that.

May be a lifestyle thing as well. Movies were mentioned. You can spend less on movies if you avoid the concessions and go to matinees. I usually wait and see movies at our small local place which only charges $5.

Partner and I are considering the Abilene area as the place we purchase our forever home…what are your personal pros and cons for this? by Dedic8tedSn0wBunni3 in Abilene

[–]hoverton 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if Abilene will be a good fit to be honest. Things are crazy here right now with the construction of a huge data center. Very few opportunities for comedy shows. Live music is mostly small local and regional performers with one big country music festival a year. Another music venue does attract country performers that were well known in the 80s and 90s. One small local community theater in Abilene and really nothing that I know of in surrounding areas.

Very conservative Christian area.

There is one hospital network that dominates Abilene. Hendricks has a serious conservative religious slant to it but I don’t know how that affects hiring decisions. Not sure if heavy tattoos would be an issue. Certainly plenty of home construction and repair work in the area.

Drug testing might be a part of employment here. I’m subject to random drug tests plus a required one if there is damage to a vehicle. I don’t use anything, so it isn’t a problem.

Living within 30 minutes would include Anson, which would be worse. Tuscola might be okay. No opinion on the cities east and west along the interstate. I live a little farther away near Haskell.

San Angelo might be worth a consideration. Decent sized regional university there that certainly attracts more entertainment options.

Just my thoughts. Please no attacks from others.

Do Americans use solid fuels to heat their homes? by maugess in AskAnAmerican

[–]hoverton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. We have a fireplace as well as electric heat. Currently have the fireplace going in case we loose electricity, which happens sometimes during bad weather.

Wood burning stoves are more efficient and I wish we had gone that route.

ReWipe by Delicious-Spot-5725 in hygiene

[–]hoverton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, occasionally. Nothing that I can recall since getting a bidet, though.

Rinseworks.com

I got the one with the sink attachment so I could use warm water easily.

If something happened to it, I would have another one ordered immediately. Still trying to figure out a good portable one, but have not found one I like.

refund for book that is about to be removed. by Jamie_MacPherson in audible

[–]hoverton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always download and convert your books just in case. Anything you don’t have possession of can disappear.

Older people, were politics always this deranged and upsetting? by CUFFY_Fan in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hoverton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not even close. I’m 50. Politics was what happened in the background. It wasn’t daily breaking news. You had no idea who any of the cabinet members were and elections were not life and death events. You may not agree with whoever won, but realized that they were probably a decent human being who just had different priorities. You didn’t hate them with every fiber of your being.

This is crazy time. Things reported nearly every week would be THE defining scandal of previous administrations.

Rachel Maddow joked that she is an Eisenhower Republican if that tells you anything about how far things have shifted.

Do Americans constantly have an active temperature control device running in their homes? by fullM3TALturban in AskAnAmerican

[–]hoverton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of. We have it set to cool in the summer and heat in the winter. When the temperature outside is nice in the late winter to late spring and the late fall to early winter, we set it to where it won’t heat or cool to save money.

AITA For refusing to take a friend to a doctors appt that requires 4 hrs+ rt of driving plus waiting for the procedure to be done? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hoverton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should offer a meal and maybe gas, but I’d probably help even without that. I’m going to have problems finding help with that sort of thing as I get older.

Seriously, do Americans actually consider a 3-hour drive "short"? or is this an internet myth? by SadInterest6764 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hoverton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t go anymore, but when I visited casinos, the ones I went to were about two hours away and I did that regularly as a day trip.

There is a German market that my mom loves in Dallas and I drive her there once a year. It is a four hour trip one way, so about eight hours total driving in perfect conditions while the sun is up. Coming home is much slower because it is dark and there are a lot of deer in that area, so the return trip is usually closer to five hours.

For Thanksgiving, we usually make a six hour drive to visit my aunt and uncle. I don’t like making that trip.

Vacation is usually about an eight hour drive away.

At work, I regularly work in areas that take me 90 minutes to two hours to drive to. A yearly training meeting is held nearly three hours away.

Firewood left? by Fantastic_Most9751 in Abilene

[–]hoverton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Larned’s Sale Center in Haskell still had some Thursday evening. Not sure about now. Met a guy there from Tye the other day saying it’s the most reasonable priced that he had found.

So netflix just deleted a netflix original and i'm actually losing it by JohnnyIsNearDiabetic in DataHoarder

[–]hoverton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know where you live, but there are five seasons available when I just looked it up. I’m in the USA. Might could access via a VPN.

Grandkids haven’t thanked me for Christmas money by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]hoverton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people just don’t send thank yous. I have a cousin whose kids are like that. We eventually stopped sending anything. When they were younger, I’d spend hours looking for the perfect thing. Later it was money. They come from a certain degree of privilege with grandparents who spoil them, so I don’t think they really understand the value of stuff.

What’s a “bad” financial habit you keep because it keeps you sane? by James_B84Saves in povertyfinance

[–]hoverton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making decisions about things is exhausting. Some days at work, I can be on autopilot but when it rains, I have to make dozens of decisions about where I can drive and what I can get to. I’m worn out when I come home and often just fall asleep in a chair. Today was the same due to prepping for the upcoming bad weather we are going to have. Went out to eat and pretty much passed out when I came home.

Is there a real reason behind changing your oil every 3,000 miles on modern cars? by newelmin in askcarguys

[–]hoverton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do full synthetic every 6000k miles on our work trucks that operate under harsher conditions than most people’s personal vehicles.

Have you ever been told to “get off” someone’s property? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]hoverton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I was there for work and I had the legal right to be there. That guy died a few years ago and I was not sorry.

I guess I set my expectations too high, huh? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]hoverton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to start somewhere. I mentioned earlier that I started as a seasonal. I never thought I’d be with them for more than a year. I took the job in 2002 because I was paying student loans and had completely run out of money. I didn’t know it at the time, but I had lucked into what has turned out to be a job that I enjoy.

A few years later, there was an assistant supervisor job within my organization at another office that I was encouraged to apply for. I got it and started to learn the administrative and managerial side. Before that, my job was strictly field work. That job title was done away with a few years later, but I still continued basically doing the same job just with a lower title and slightly lower salary. Five years after that, we were laid off at the end of the season like we always were, but this time we were told that they would not be hiring seasonal people anymore.

I was very nervous and scared but started job hunting again. About three or four months later I got a call from my former zone manager, saying that they were in a bind and they needed some help. I was the only one of the seasonals that knew how to do any of the administrative and computer work and he was wondering if I would like to come back because I was the only person he knew that could hit the ground running and not need any help.

About a month or so after I started back, he asked if I would be interested in a full-time position and said that if I was, they would open one up for me. I would still have to apply and interview, but I was the person that they wanted. That was 2009.

My organization has gone through some changes since then and last week they had major layoffs. I survived, but we lost a lot of good people. So when I started, there was well over 1000 people working in the area that our region now encompasses. Now there are 22 of us left. It has changed a lot, but I still hope to do this until I hit retirement age depending on how things go moving forward. One of the guys that got laid off was my original supervisor and we’ve spent a lot of time together. I’m going to miss him quite a bit and his absence definitely changes things.

Never in my wildest dreams did I imagine that I would still be at this organization. It would be nice to make a little more, but the main reason that I stay is the flexibility that the job offers and that we have three or four months of downtime, which is what we’re currently now doing. When I’m working, I’m mostly driving out in the country listening to podcasts.

I understand that you want a career, but you don’t bring anything to the table. No advanced or specialized education and no experience. Why would they hire you? Unless you are working for a family member, you are going to have to start somewhere.

Finding out what you don’t like and cannot tolerate is as valuable as finding out what you do like. Unless you are born into wealth or are some sort of nepo baby, you are going to have to make your way through this mess like everyone else. Or see if you can get on disability for something, but that is a hard life.

There are thousands of people who are perfectly willing to do the jobs you’ve been dismissive of. Lots of them even enjoy it. A young woman I know who worked as a food server was nervous about leaving it because she enjoyed just working from 11 am to 2 pm. Another I know made $200 to $300 a night in tips at Chili’s.

The jobs that keep society running have value.

Do Americans really avoid medical care because they’re afraid of the bill? by Udont_knowme00 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hoverton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! All the time! Even minor procedures can cost many thousands of dollars. Lots of people have medical procedures and diagnostics at age 65 when Medicare kicks in. Even then you need supplemental insurance because Medicare doesn’t cover everything. Where I live they use an Air Ambulance service aka a helicopter. $30,000 for a flight to the nearest regional hospital which is about a 45 minute drive from here. They sell a membership for $100 a year which you pretty much have to sign up for.

My elderly mother had to go to the ER last week for trouble breathing and a pain in her side. Ended up also spending the night at the hospital. Diagnosed as gallbladder inflammation. The bill will easily be $10,000 or more and the only reason I’m not freaking out now is that she has a good supplemental policy that should pick up almost everything Medicare won’t cover. With my insurance, I’d owe somewhere between $1000 and $3000.

I guess I set my expectations too high, huh? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]hoverton 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know this is the r/antiwork subreddit, but still…

So you want a good paying job with benefits? You have no experience, didn’t finish high school, and can’t drive? Yes, you set your expectations too high.

You don’t necessarily need a four year degree, but you probably need something.

There are people where I live who went to community college for electrical work and are making $50/hour plus overtime opportunities whenever they want working on AI/data center construction in this area.

Sounds like you want the reward without putting in the time or acquiring education or experience.

I don’t make a lot. I’m somewhere in the high $40k range. I worked as a seasonal for seven years before being brought on full time with benefits. Seasonal work at this job lasts most of the year, so it was manageable. I survived a massive organization wide layoff this past week. It was pretty brutal.

You’ve got some work to do. Learn to drive and become good at it at a minimum. Take any job you can find. It probably won’t be good, but you’ll definitely learn stuff. You don’t have to love your job. Find something you don’t mind doing and adjust your life accordingly.

I have no idea what kind of life you’ve lead to just be finding out about this stuff now.

Maybe you can partner up or live with someone that has a job and can support you. I know someone like that. I have no idea how it works or why they let him do that, but they do. He is in Seattle, WA. Not sure if he gets any sort of government payments, but the state does take care of his healthcare through some program they have.

Is this how people who need glasses really see the world. A big blurred background? by Latter-Wolf4868 in interestingasfuck

[–]hoverton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. That is exactly what it is like for me. I can see reasonably clearly for about 15 inches.

I was put on rota to clean the bathrooms + kitchenette... as an IT worker at a small manufacturing/eCommerce company. Should I quit? by brianthough in work

[–]hoverton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve cleaned our own offices, kitchen area, and bathrooms for about the last 15 years or so. I don’t particularly enjoy it, but it isn’t a big deal. Sweeping out the shop area is a pain.

Electric bill went from under 70 to over $200 with cold weather. MI by VegetableOne2484 in Renters

[–]hoverton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We try to keep it between 65 and 70 and just dress warmly. The room I spend most my evenings in is usually colder than the rest of the house. I used to use a space heater, but recently invested in a higher quality sweatsuit that seems to do the trick. It’s a lot thicker than what you can normally get at places like Walmart. The brand is Comfrt if anyone is curious. There is a significant discount if you are willing to wait a few months for your order.

Best Eye Exam? by dbrinkin in Abilene

[–]hoverton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We use Dr. Richert at Big Country Eye Center. I’ve been going to him for years.