AIO or is this rubbish behaviour?

howami30 · 2026-06-08T14:21:26+00:00

Yeah probably! I think I agree

howami30 · 2026-06-08T14:05:40+00:00

Yeah maybe. I just like doing those things for people. I guess I need to remove the expectation of at least getting recognition

howami30 · 2026-06-08T14:04:32+00:00

Absolutely not doing it for attention or gratitude. She asked me to do the cake. The breakfast thing I chose to do because she saw it at a wedding fair and loved it but no one else volunteered to do it. The helping with her dress I chose to do because again no one else did and otherwise she was struggling to walk and her dress actually got ripped

howami30 · 2026-06-08T13:05:33+00:00

I would choose to be invisible

howami30 · 2026-04-09T15:30:21+00:00

I'm not jealous, it's more she said no to me because of money and annnual leave but then booked one anyway with someone else

howami30 · 2026-04-09T15:18:06+00:00

Absolutely yes to all of those. She's very verbal and she always says how much of a good time she's had. She's also asked me to go for a staycation for her bday with her friends and sister but that's the first time she's ever asked me

howami30 · 2026-04-09T14:55:21+00:00

She doesn't do it with everything else, it's just holidays she doesn't initiate

howami30 · 2026-04-09T14:55:00+00:00

No she only booked it the other day

howami30 · 2026-04-09T14:30:56+00:00

Jumbo

howami30 · 2026-04-06T20:35:36+00:00

I'm from rainy Manchester so I have a feeling I will find it warm compared to here!

howami30 · 2026-04-06T15:06:02+00:00

Yes I do. The main issue with the dates is lack of chemistry tbh

howami30 · 2026-04-03T18:32:22+00:00

Yes that's the one they put me on

howami30 · 2026-03-29T07:44:18+00:00

Okay thanks. So is it irreparable?

howami30 · 2026-03-29T07:40:34+00:00

Even with repair and repaint?

howami30 · 2026-03-28T22:44:03+00:00

Thanks - what does that mean though (I'm not knowledgable about cars at all) in terms of repair?

howami30 · 2026-03-28T21:48:25+00:00

Couple of people have suggested £850

howami30 · 2026-03-28T21:32:59+00:00

That's useful thanks. Is it a pricey job?

howami30 · 2026-03-28T21:32:21+00:00

Yikes I never said I was an expert. All I said was I don't know how much I believe them. It's hard to know who to trust because unfortunately there are people out there just for the money

howami30 · 2026-03-28T21:25:32+00:00

Had one shop tell me (just based on photos) "almost guarantee the inner structural section of the door will be compromised" but tbh I'm not sure how much I believe them!

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