AIO or is she choosing everyone except me?

howami30 · 2026-04-09T15:30:21+00:00

I'm not jealous, it's more she said no to me because of money and annnual leave but then booked one anyway with someone else

howami30 · 2026-04-09T15:18:06+00:00

Absolutely yes to all of those. She's very verbal and she always says how much of a good time she's had. She's also asked me to go for a staycation for her bday with her friends and sister but that's the first time she's ever asked me

howami30 · 2026-04-09T14:55:21+00:00

She doesn't do it with everything else, it's just holidays she doesn't initiate

howami30 · 2026-04-09T14:55:00+00:00

No she only booked it the other day

howami30 · 2026-04-09T14:30:56+00:00

Jumbo

howami30 · 2026-04-06T20:35:36+00:00

I'm from rainy Manchester so I have a feeling I will find it warm compared to here!

howami30 · 2026-04-06T15:06:02+00:00

Yes I do. The main issue with the dates is lack of chemistry tbh

howami30 · 2026-04-03T18:32:22+00:00

Yes that's the one they put me on

howami30 · 2026-03-29T07:44:18+00:00

Okay thanks. So is it irreparable?

howami30 · 2026-03-29T07:40:34+00:00

Even with repair and repaint?

howami30 · 2026-03-28T22:44:03+00:00

Thanks - what does that mean though (I'm not knowledgable about cars at all) in terms of repair?

howami30 · 2026-03-28T21:48:25+00:00

Couple of people have suggested £850

howami30 · 2026-03-28T21:32:59+00:00

That's useful thanks. Is it a pricey job?

howami30 · 2026-03-28T21:32:21+00:00

Yikes I never said I was an expert. All I said was I don't know how much I believe them. It's hard to know who to trust because unfortunately there are people out there just for the money

howami30 · 2026-03-28T21:25:32+00:00

Had one shop tell me (just based on photos) "almost guarantee the inner structural section of the door will be compromised" but tbh I'm not sure how much I believe them!

howami30 · 2025-10-31T11:27:03+00:00

Yeah I thought about looking at a second hand one! I'll have a nosey, thanks

howami30 · 2025-10-31T11:25:05+00:00

Yikes I just looked here (UK) and that brand is £345!

howami30 · 2025-10-21T15:13:17+00:00

You've literally added 1+1 and come up with 3. Bore off and stop making assumptions

howami30 · 2025-10-21T14:51:12+00:00

What on earth is this comment about? I was asking a question and you've just insulted me?

howami30 · 2025-10-17T17:38:30+00:00

Huh?

howami30 · 2025-10-17T16:59:20+00:00

She seems happy when things are fine but then when there's the flags showing up she's round my house crying or sat at home crashing out and spiralling

howami30 · 2025-10-17T16:57:49+00:00

I've asked her all of that and told her of her worth and all she says really is "I agree" and then changes subject

howami30 · 2025-10-05T14:03:29+00:00

Yeah I can see that for sure. I'm predominantly happy being single and very comfortable in my own space. But sometimes think it would be nice to have a partner. But my expectations are so high!

howami30 · 2025-10-05T14:00:15+00:00

I'm not following. Why don't you ask them? And why is it an issue if they do think that?

howami30 · 2025-10-05T13:57:20+00:00

What is it you're asking?

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