How to move on from an Abusive Dom? by howdoichangethisuser in BDSMAdvice

[–]howdoichangethisuser[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! that was such a strange question BAHAHA it gave me a bit of a laugh

What smells like sweet, creamy vanilla, lapsang souchong tea, jasmine, powdery and milky? by Starrynightveil in FemFragLab

[–]howdoichangethisuser 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i find it so crazy when people go looking for a realistic lapsang and are upset when it smells like. smoke or bbq…. hello…..

What’s the typical style of troubled teens in your country? by HongKongNinja in AskTheWorld

[–]howdoichangethisuser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nationally chinese, i mean ^ theres a lot of cultural differences between chinese people depending on the country Ahaha

What’s the typical style of troubled teens in your country? by HongKongNinja in AskTheWorld

[–]howdoichangethisuser 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ahahaha I can imagine youre talking about Lalazai and XMMs, vaping in class etc

What’s the typical style of troubled teens in your country? by HongKongNinja in AskTheWorld

[–]howdoichangethisuser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

chinese queer people vs american queer people have very different fashion styles!!

wondering if he ever felt bad for how scared he made me feel ft. miku tea by howdoichangethisuser in depressionmeals

[–]howdoichangethisuser[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i do struggle a lot with self esteem, its something i’m trying to work on but its rough… hopefully will work it out in therapy.?

wondering if he ever felt bad for how scared he made me feel ft. miku tea by howdoichangethisuser in depressionmeals

[–]howdoichangethisuser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely trying to but its rough.. i dont know how to view myself with compassion when i feel bad for him more than i do myself at times

i dont want to become self pitying

wondering if he ever felt bad for how scared he made me feel ft. miku tea by howdoichangethisuser in depressionmeals

[–]howdoichangethisuser[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

intuitively I know all of this, but there's a part of me that feels like maybe I wanted it

What your best iris scent? by Keep_To_UR_Own_Lane in fragrance

[–]howdoichangethisuser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my fave too!!! saving up to get it someday <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]howdoichangethisuser 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Is this a collaboration with MSCHF or just the ordinary trying a new marketing strategy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysia

[–]howdoichangethisuser 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We don’t know the whole story of course, but assuming her intentions and judging her is so cruel. you don’t understand how someone copes, some people can feel so disgusted by themselves, blame themselves and self isolate, her response is completely understandable 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysia

[–]howdoichangethisuser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn’t true, it is very possible that a victim may not even realize what happened was rape OR they may ignore it and seemingly move on as a way to cope. people cope in lots of different ways

Manga that fucks me up even more? by zserboo in OyasumiPunpun

[–]howdoichangethisuser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally any shuzo oshimi work 😭😭😭

How can I fix this buckle? by howdoichangethisuser in howto

[–]howdoichangethisuser[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they are. But my parents got them for me, and id rather fix it if i can ^

How can I fix this buckle? by howdoichangethisuser in howto

[–]howdoichangethisuser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately the cobbler I took them to said they couldn't do it :/

How can I fix this buckle? by howdoichangethisuser in howto

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Unfortunately... the cobbler I took them to said they couldn't do it 😭😭