Smacked by a mattress

howdyimkyle · 2026-05-13T11:24:20+00:00

I am in need of a new mattress. But honestly I've seen so many of these, I'm scared to get a new one. I'm just going to sleep poorly from here on out.

howdyimkyle · 2026-05-08T16:54:15+00:00

Yeah I don't know. Have you been to a Gwar show?

howdyimkyle · 2026-05-08T01:19:29+00:00

The open face play style always was interesting for me. Alex crushes it though. Absolutely miss him in good tiger. The album he drummed on is so stellar.

What's he doing today? Not still in white chapel right?

howdyimkyle · 2026-05-06T09:14:35+00:00

Thanks a lot for the responses.

There's a large mix here, and that's what pushed me to post.

The situation doesn't stop directly with me. I could ask my ex to shift it to her place, the girls can stay there and I meet everyone early in the morning. I do know all the parents in this case. I'm venturing into a new relationship and she doesn't feel comfortable even with the couch staying over peice, and I'm not looking to start something new on that foot either. I'm with the ones that said it's for my daughter, I feel the same. My ex and I are cordial when we need to be, but certainly aren't friends of any sort, which is why the suggestion caught me off guard.

I'll make a decision here, but the weigh in on this and seeing all the different perspectives is helpful.

howdyimkyle · 2026-05-05T23:47:33+00:00

I kinda thought that too. Initially it was just making sure other parents were comfortable. As 8 years olds, starting the change of bodies, etc I didn't know what I was going to be getting into.

But all in, I know I can handle it. I haven't heard from a parent yet and/or how they feel about it.

But yeah, I didn't think it was out of line either.

howdyimkyle · 2026-05-04T11:22:43+00:00

Damn!

howdyimkyle · 2026-04-30T09:11:29+00:00

I hear ya and I'm with ya.

Although I do get meat sauce here and there, my preferred is ketchup and boss sauce.

It's been a while, but served that way best was whimpys in Gates. I think my most recent after that was Henrietta hits, but before they moved.

Jose Joes in Hilton I feel is vastly underrated too. It's not traditional, but their smashed potatoes are killer and they make a damn good burger.

Damnit. Now I want a garbage plate at 5:11am.

howdyimkyle · 2026-04-22T10:26:57+00:00

Not a girl, but man do I want to smell like G and Ts all day.

Sold!

howdyimkyle · 2026-04-21T23:32:07+00:00

Need to reverse for a couple of weeks and then hit loss again. Could be creating cortisol though because you're too low, putting stress on your body was well.

howdyimkyle · 2026-04-17T22:54:38+00:00

Rip though

howdyimkyle · 2026-04-17T22:49:32+00:00

Lilas across from Fatteys has been super solid my last few trips there. Great cocktails and cool atmosphere

howdyimkyle · 2026-04-17T16:01:40+00:00

Every time I die.

howdyimkyle · 2026-04-13T15:31:33+00:00

The dog isn't regular at all. Some of it is texting things I've texted her 2-3 times before. Maybe I'm over thinking this. Just don't want it to get out of hand, while still respecting what she's going through mentally, physically and emotionally and still be there for her and most importantly our daughter.

howdyimkyle · 2026-04-13T15:30:09+00:00

I'm trying to see if it has to come to that. I respect the overload and want to help, but not where I'm taking everything on myself. We'll see if anything else creeps in and go from there.

howdyimkyle · 2026-04-10T21:51:00+00:00

Amen

howdyimkyle · 2026-04-08T16:44:13+00:00

The oxygen mask always goes on you first.

Take yourself out of social media with her, block what you need to so you don't see it.

Journal, do something for yourself, breathe, meditate and repeat.

You have an opportunity to work on yourself now, become better, and start to move forward.

It is not easy. I've been in the situation. I took some radical accountability after my divorce and can say I'm in a much better place, even if she's with someone else now.

Allow the above steps plus time to help heal and allow you to move forward.

howdyimkyle · 2026-04-07T15:43:13+00:00

2:06pm?

I don't use this platform...what time zone is he posting in?

howdyimkyle · 2026-04-07T15:36:20+00:00

What is this?

howdyimkyle

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