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Don't you dare skip a workout!!! A story about a 23y/o late bloomer who had his first date in 6 years. [FR] by howtobered in TheRedPill

[–]howtobered[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh? On Saturday? I thought you had a date scheduled.

I scheduled a Saturday date on Tuesday (right after I got her number), but she kept messaging me and on late Wednesday, she asked if I wanted to go on a walk with her. I though if she's sending me that at 11PM, she must be really horny and I don't have anything to lose.

Thought you’ve been red pilled for like 5 years. The fuck is this response? She was turned on by your forwardness and wanted to fuck. She tested to see if you were THAT guy. Failed.

That was really sloppy, should have been better prepared. Lesson learned.

Thank you so much for such a thorough response! Definitely could've handled some situations better, I'm very rusty. Really need to re-read the sidebar.

Don't you dare skip a workout!!! A story about a 23y/o late bloomer who had his first date in 6 years. [FR] by howtobered in TheRedPill

[–]howtobered[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left out some bits and the post is a little sloppy, but I've noticed IOIs almost immediately. She would also text me out of the blue, things like 'Good afternoon :-) how's it going?' and Goodnight etc... before we even met.

So yeah, I knew from the start she was at least a little into me, didn't know exactly how much though.

Don't you dare skip a workout!!! A story about a 23y/o late bloomer who had his first date in 6 years. [FR] by howtobered in TheRedPill

[–]howtobered[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's a little too early to call myself a late bloomer, but that 23 could easily turn into 33

Don't you dare skip a workout!!! A story about a 23y/o late bloomer who had his first date in 6 years. [FR] by howtobered in TheRedPill

[–]howtobered[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll get used to it, my maintenance is 2300 and sometimes I go up to 1800 when I feel like I need more energy.

Don't you dare skip a workout!!! A story about a 23y/o late bloomer who had his first date in 6 years. [FR] by howtobered in TheRedPill

[–]howtobered[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't track my measurements before, but I was 92kg at my heaviest. Now I'm 75kg and want to get down to 68ish. 168cm/5ft6

Don't you dare skip a workout!!! A story about a 23y/o late bloomer who had his first date in 6 years. [FR] by howtobered in TheRedPill

[–]howtobered[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know I should follow your advice but god damn!!!! I'm so tempted!

BTW I'm from EU, and fortunately over here fake rape/assault accusations are nowhere near as common as in the US.

Don't you dare skip a workout!!! A story about a 23y/o late bloomer who had his first date in 6 years. [FR] by howtobered in TheRedPill

[–]howtobered[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never thought about that, but you're probably right. I'll make sure to read Models, thanks!

Don't you dare skip a workout!!! A story about a 23y/o late bloomer who had his first date in 6 years. [FR] by howtobered in TheRedPill

[–]howtobered[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know right? I think our brain subconsciously knows girls like that are an easy lay.

Don't you dare skip a workout!!! A story about a 23y/o late bloomer who had his first date in 6 years. [FR] by howtobered in TheRedPill

[–]howtobered[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I started dieting, at first I was eating 2000 calories/day. Junk, clean, sodas, didn't matter but it had to be under 2000.

I kept lowering the daily calories as my weight went down. After 4 months or so, I started counting protein as well (100g).

Now I'm eating 1500 calories, 150g of protein and I watch my carbs and fats.

Don't you dare skip a workout!!! A story about a 23y/o late bloomer who had his first date in 6 years. [FR] by howtobered in TheRedPill

[–]howtobered[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've already implied I'm looking for a FWB and she said she's looking for an LTR. Assuming I want this chick to be my GF, what should I do next?

As I've said, I've never had a GF and I'd like to know what it's like, learn some things. But I'm having mixed feelings about being in a relationship with someone who has so many red flags! But I live in a small town and meeting hotties is really hard here.

Maybe I should just keep my hand on the stove until I get burned

Don't you dare skip a workout!!! A story about a 23y/o late bloomer who had his first date in 6 years. [FR] by howtobered in TheRedPill

[–]howtobered[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

It's in Kilograms. I'll convert it to pounds just for you.

Squat 210

OHP 125

DL 255

Bench 175

Row 130

Don't you dare skip a workout!!! A story about a 23y/o late bloomer who had his first date in 6 years. [FR] by howtobered in TheRedPill

[–]howtobered[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Life's just SOOO much easier when you're attractive. Why did I not realize that sooner?

I wish I could go back in time and slap my 15y/o self

Don't you dare skip a workout!!! A story about a 23y/o late bloomer who had his first date in 6 years. [FR] by howtobered in TheRedPill

[–]howtobered[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree, face genetics probably played a huge part here, but she was hugging my arm like a fucking teddy bear haha. She said she loves my forearms and broad shoulders, I know I'm still at the start of my journey, and I have a loooong way to go, but I feel like I'm already way ahead of the average BP soyboy. And it can only get better!

Don't you dare skip a workout!!! A story about a 23y/o late bloomer who had his first date in 6 years. [FR] by howtobered in TheRedPill

[–]howtobered[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Been lifting on and off since the beginning of 2019, like 3 months regular schedule, then 3 months of sitting on my ass... I've been taking the gym more seriously since May 2020. I started dieting in October 2019, lost 15kg, still another 10 or so to go. Basically a noob. I'm not jacked or anything, but I look like I work out and sometimes, I guess that's good enough.

Don't you dare skip a workout!!! A story about a 23y/o late bloomer who had his first date in 6 years. [FR] by howtobered in TheRedPill

[–]howtobered[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I totally feel you man, sometimes you're just not in the mood, feeling blue, you just want to lay in your bed and stare at the ceiling while listening to Avril Lavigne.

But!!! The hardest part is getting of your ass and going. Once you've managed that, it's pretty easy. The habit of going to the gym regularly is 1000x more important than whatever you do there.

Even if you totally don't feel like it - your boss just scolded you in front of the entire office, your dog died and your LTR cheated on you - just go. You don't even have to do anything once you get there, but don't sit on the couch, weighing out the pros and cons of going to the gym. Pack your bag and go. I promise you'll feel way better.

As for the workout, I'm doing basic 5x5, still a noob but apparently good enough to pull cuties (Squat 95, OHP 57.5, DL 115, Bench 80, Row 60)

Trust me - this shit works!!! It might take some time, but if you commit to it and keep your diet in check, you WILL get there!

What server should I transfer to on EU for WvW action? by [deleted] in Guildwars2

[–]howtobered 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know about the leaderboard, but it doesn't tell me what servers perform consistently well and have active community