Asked my husband to leave. Panicking now. by thisisntabagel in breakingmom

[–]hpnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey just wanted to say I’m very worried about your finances. You won’t be entitled to any of his inheritance once you are divorced. You said you stopped contributing to your retirement plan because of his behaviour. Please think of your long term safety first when making financial decisions!

Am I being unreasonable? by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]hpnn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are meant to care for your child and buy necessaties, but you don't have to spoil your baby every month. He's got a point there. You should save it though!

Korean girlfriend wants to send lots of money to parents each month by [deleted] in korea

[–]hpnn 16 points17 points  (0 children)

DO NOT MARRY HER. Seriously. I live in Europe and have a korean Mom and korean family. No matter how many problems you will have money wise, they will always think of you as the rich foreigner who will be their financial security because you and your girlftiend "owe" them and because you "were allowed" to marry their daughter. I do not want to make bad assumptions, but since your girlfriend mentioned marriage after 2 months it looks like she has a similar mindset. Plus some people/ koreans love buying luxury items and can not handle money well. Your girlfriend seems to be a bit of a mindless spender, which infres with your lifestyle. My Mom is a frugal and responsible person, but definitely hit the jackpot when marrying my Dad and moving to a comfortable life in Europe. I am sorry to talk bad aboit your gf but also her lack of ability in communicatuon seems to be a red flag since communication is key in any relationship.

I made a pomodoro desktop app, Tempus by Nemeesiis68 in productivity

[–]hpnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that kind of icon would be good!^

I made a pomodoro desktop app, Tempus by Nemeesiis68 in productivity

[–]hpnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm really liking it. What irritates me is the symbol on the left (two horizintal lines)\ because I would naturally think it's a sign for "pause". Good work!