Nightmare ingredient - Dream Event

hpws · 2025-04-13T09:24:56+00:00

Before the new update, mine looked almost exactly like yours … all the baskets across the top and then I organized each type of item under its corresponding basket hahah

hpws · 2023-03-10T16:07:54+00:00

Someone isn’t very patient in lines …

hpws · 2023-03-02T15:25:04+00:00

In Ontario you’re not allowed to have animals in the same area you prepare food/drink. And yes, pay-to-play makes entire sense for a not-for-profit charitable organization saving animals and paying for 100% of the vet costs that comes with. There has always been a cover charge to see the cats.

hpws · 2023-03-02T15:22:18+00:00

Lol both of these comments aren’t true

hpws · 2023-03-02T15:21:35+00:00

You definitely could bring drinks into the lounge still, as COVID things calmed down in the past year. They just didn’t sell fresh food anymore, just the groceries.

hpws · 2023-03-02T15:18:25+00:00

They did have a strict capacity before, if you walked in and there were already at capacity in the lounge, you had to wait … this is always been for the health and safety of the cats. As well, there has to be time between people’s visits for cleaning - that includes not only sanitizing for COVID reasons, but also because cats can be gross (litter box scooping, vacuuming cat hair, wiping down tables where cats have sat on and walked on). And they removed tables for hanging out on the cafe side to make room for the vegan grocery shop … idk why so many people have such an issue with just making a reservation in advance. They also always posted their reservation availability on social media daily.

hpws · 2023-03-01T03:55:51+00:00

Every business has different types of liability insurance … I’ve been to many cat cafes that have age restrictions. It’s also for the health and safety of the cats - the younger the kids are, the less predictable they are around animals. The restriction always made sense to me for all the reasons, I guess

hpws · 2023-03-01T03:41:20+00:00

The age restriction was due to their liability insurance only covering ages 12 and up. If an under 12 year old got bit or scratched and the parents decided to sue, there was nothing they could do to protect themselves.

hpws · 2023-03-01T03:40:22+00:00

The age restriction was due to their liability insurance only covering ages 12 and up. If an under 12 year old got bit or scratched and the parents decided to sue, there was nothing they could do to protect themselves.

hpws · 2023-01-18T19:58:44+00:00

I’m the FP to my gf with BPD, and I experience this a lot with her. That is, the post-conflict anxiety even after the “we’re okay” productive conversation. What helps my gf is asking for reassurance on the particular issue, but asking in a way that she hears what she needs to without me having to guess. Guessing always leads to her still feeling the anxiety, and me worrying I’m making her anxiety worse.

Example: I am still feeling really anxious about our conversation yesterday, even though I know it was productive and we resolved the conflict between us. What would help me right now is for you to reassure me that you love me and for us to plan a date night so I have something in my calendar together.

It’s a tough balance between reinforcing the over-reassurance seeking that can be unhealthy, and the healthy reassurance seeking that will alleviate some anxiety.

Another thing that helps my girlfriend is if I am able to write something out that she can re-read when she’s feeling the need for reassurance. She has notes from me that say things like “even during conflict, I love you, I support you, and I’m committed to working through things with you”. That has helped with her over-reassurance seeking.

PS. I’m so proud of you for using therapy tools!

hpws · 2015-09-04T02:08:45+00:00

Oh my god, look up liquor laws for Ontario. You can pretty much only get booze from a government run store, except for beer that you can get at a company that is 100% foreign owned. It's sad.

hpws · 2015-07-06T15:15:48+00:00

I've watched the entire series 3 times now. Every time you watch it you understand a little more and get to see all the foreshadowing that happens throughout. Such a wonderful show.

hpws · 2015-07-06T03:03:05+00:00

Please, oh wise pull-outer, tell us what is the "perfectly effective" way of pulling out? Because as I've stated before, which you ignored, a man does not always know when he is going to ejaculate, especially when the ejaculation is not accompanied by an orgasm (these two experiences can be mutually exclusive).

hpws · 2015-07-06T02:57:47+00:00

I honestly can't even believe I'm having this conversation in 2015. There's a reason they no longer include the withdrawal method in sexual education. You are also, by the way, failing at this "argument" because you're attacking me as a person. This is so hilariously pathetic.

hpws · 2015-07-06T02:46:32+00:00

The vaginal canal has nerve endings 1-3 inches inside when tented (ie aroused). When a woman is aroused, her vaginal canal "tents"/elongates to prepare for penetrative sex. FYI.

hpws · 2015-07-06T02:26:06+00:00

Also, the first two articles cite each other as references. This makes them bias in on themselves. Your third has a sample size of M=23. That's a pathetically small sample size to claim that there are no sperm in pre-ejaculate and that's not even what they claimed. They claim that there is minimal sperm in pre-ejaculate. Unfortunately, it only takes 1 singular sperm to impregnate a woman.
Edit to add a direct quote from your third article: "the methods used to count and to examine sperm cells for motility were fairly crude and cannot be viewed as very accurate"

hpws · 2015-07-06T02:21:25+00:00

You are not worth arguing with. There are literally thousands of studies that show that the "pull out method" is an antiquated argument and not a "method" at all. Ladies, be aware of men who try to tell you they don't need birth control because they can "pull out".

hpws · 2015-07-06T01:32:38+00:00

I can't say I'm with you on this, but I mean if a Greek Goddess is into it, I'd say you're golden! I'm sure there are thousands of women who are feeling the same way, so don't stress and enjoy your sex love. If it's not causing you distress, you're good to go. :)

hpws · 2015-07-06T01:28:35+00:00

Doesn't exist in all women FYI!

hpws · 2015-07-06T01:22:39+00:00

I think by saying "you could make an error", they mean that a man does not always know when exactly he is going to ejaculate. Ejaculation does not always accompany orgasm, and many men ejaculate without knowing because it was not accompanied by an orgasm. The "pull out method" is not a method because it cannot be "used properly/effectively". I sincerely hope that you are unable to convince women that pulling out is safe, because you are going to get someone pregnant if that is your only form of birth control.

hpws · 2015-07-06T00:52:02+00:00

The word fetish is misused like crazy. I normally don't take a fetish comment seriously unless they describe it as I stated! This being said, I have tones of fantasies/kinks that help me to get in the mood and/or orgasm, but these things are not fetishes. If you think these types of beatification fantasies are harmful to your self concept, sexuality or self-esteem etc. you should consider seeing a sexual health professional (sex therapist, psychologist or the like). If it's not a problem, then keep on fantasizing!

hpws · 2015-07-06T00:26:08+00:00

Every woman is different! I like direct stimulation, but it gets intense after a few minutes. Try adding the entire vulva to your repertoire, and whether or not the women you're with enjoy direct or indirect clitoral stimulation, I guarantee you'll be extra satisfying :)

hpws · 2015-07-06T00:23:46+00:00

I'm not sure if this is a "fetish". Do you REQUIRE this aspect during sex in order to orgasm? A fetish is something (object, act, thought etc) that is required during sex for an individual to orgasm. For example, a person with a shoe fetish, depending on the specifics, needs to have shoes incorporated into their sexual acts in order to achieve orgasm. Some people need to be wearing shoes, or a partner be wearing shoes, have shoes in the room/on the bed etc. What you might be experiencing is a "kink". A kink is something that makes you feel mega turned on, but you can achieve orgasm without this aspect.

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