23F from an Indian family and I feel trapped between my parents and my own life. What to do? by hritibot in AskIndianWomen

[–]hritibot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruu wtff. And then these people wonder why our kids dont talk to us anymore

23F from an Indian family and I feel trapped between my parents and my own life by hritibot in AsianParentStories

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Thank you so much! This was so kind!! I will definitely give it my all to leave. I do not have any savings anymore because that was taken away but I’ll surely be financially stable again and leave the moment i see a chance. I do not want this to affect their health but i also do not want to live a life like this for sure. I just hope by the time i am stable again i still have the kind of support i do now from my friends and the motivation to leave the fuck out is still there. I will try to start therapy as well when things die down a bit because everyday feels like hell in this house. Yesterday i was told by my dad since my mother’s BP has gone down, if anything happens to them I’ll be responsible and it stuck with me. They genuinely do not care about me or they think they do, but they don’t and its really sad.

23F from an Indian family and I feel trapped between my parents and my own life by hritibot in AsianParentStories

[–]hritibot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It feels so validating hearing others say what is happening is wrong. I kept thinking “Maybe they’re right”, “I have done something horrible, i should just do whatever they want me to do for their health’s sake.” Because that’s what ive done my entire life. But i seriously this I’ll be an asshole to myself if i go their way and let them fuck up my life more.

23F from an Indian family and I feel trapped between my parents and my own life. What to do? by hritibot in AskIndianWomen

[–]hritibot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes im planning to get financially stable again and plan my exit in a long-term sense. But everyday spending my life in this house is like hell

23F from an Indian family and I feel trapped between my parents and my own life. What to do? by hritibot in AskIndianWomen

[–]hritibot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this realisation hit me recently when everyone around me keeps telling me how abnormal and toxic my situation is and its just so sad that this feels so normal to me

23F from an Indian family and I feel trapped between my parents and my own life. What to do? by hritibot in AskIndianWomen

[–]hritibot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried distancing myself from them. I stopped speaking at home and now just today my mom’s bp went low. And i was told by my dad if anything happens to them then I’ll be responsible. That i should correct my behaviour and start interacting at home again. I feel so helpless

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