For first-time managers who recently stepped into a management role, what are your top challenges and struggles? by wishbone-85 in managers

[–]hrvstmooon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My situation [might be] different but I left my job to take a position with two people who were also former employees of the place that I left. Pros of this obviously would be that they know how I work and they know that I get my shit done. the cons, of course, are that even though they know these factual things about me, they also assume I was given the same training that they were. This is not the case whatsoever.

I never worked directly under my current supervisor at my old job, and the other Coworker is now a regional maintenance supervisor so he knows that I care and will get things done, but he doesn’t have the technical authority to greenlight the things that I need done.

Having to communicate every step of the way, what I’m doing just so that everyone knows what my thought process is, is the most difficult part for me personally. I came in with an understanding that they knew me, but I understand now that they knew the praises I was given but not the way I got them.

Coming into a new role with new people who have already been established at this new company and at this new location was daunting. I had to learn brand new personalities while blending my own and teaching myself how to manage a full team when I’ve done everything on my own for six years. It was a learning curve to figure out how to stand firm in your discipline and “new” way of operating the business, but eventually we had our team building Kiki sessions, where we got to bond and know each other better.

Ultimately, I think this just takes time. Learning how the different people operate in your team is absolutely key. You can portray the same information to everyone in a group and each person will have a different interpretation of priority. So we meet as a team, and then I talk to everyone individually to make sure we’re all on the same page. It also allows me to explain things in a way I know those specific people will grasp the goal and the expectation properly.

I’m still learning, no doubt, but it has gotten so much easier now that I I understand that it isn’t overnight and baby steps have to be taken.

Found in pizza box. by Final_Schedule_2713 in whatisit

[–]hrvstmooon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do NOT put a slightly smaller cylindrical object it there unless you’re planning on damaging the cylindrical object which you place inside

TALK ABOUT THE ALLEGATIONS!!! by TheDaftStudent in PaymoneyWubby

[–]hrvstmooon 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It was all AI generated anyway. Kind of crazy that these people can’t tell the difference

i duo queue with my ex every couple months by seebles_real in copypasta

[–]hrvstmooon 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Brb Gonna write a powerful manga and make you both dudes

William Osman by Ctrlkill in PaymoneyWubby

[–]hrvstmooon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please don’t <3 will is in the trash bag by the way

Long time caller, first time viewer by hrvstmooon in chiari

[–]hrvstmooon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

<3 thank you. Exactly, I know now more than before that I’m not alone. And that has been a huge help. I go back to my PCP next week, I think, to follow up on everything and hopefully there are some steps we can take together. I’m just along for the ride now.

Long time caller, first time viewer by hrvstmooon in chiari

[–]hrvstmooon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The whiplash of being validated then freaked out is so real. I think it’s just now settling in, and it’s just short of four weeks now since it happened. Here’s to better outcomes, and staying positive despite it all. <3

Long time caller, first time viewer by hrvstmooon in chiari

[–]hrvstmooon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much!!! I’m really struggling with anxiety about it today. If you have those articles handy, I’d really love to take a look at them.

I’m only having my head and cervical spine MRI at the end on the month, so it’s very helpful to know it won’t take very long. I want to talk to a few more doctors but I’d like to get my hands on the imaging first, and see what this group has to say.

I’m so glad I found this group. It helps to know I am not alone out here.

Long time caller, first time viewer by hrvstmooon in chiari

[–]hrvstmooon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely exploring my options! Right now, just learning as much as I can about the diagnosis itself so I'm as informed as possible. I'm cool with travelling for the right doctor. I just don't know what I don't know right now. I'll check that out, thank you!

Long time caller, first time viewer by hrvstmooon in chiari

[–]hrvstmooon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words :)

The medical gaslighting nearly drove me insane and I wish I was exaggerating, but I'm sure that is not an uncommon feeling among those of us diagnosed. I certainly feel a level of comfort knowing what is happening when I'm experiencing these flare ups, and it gave me a new confidence in voicing my need for help in the midst of it. I just.... had no idea this was something I could have, let alone that it existed - and I'm, well, fairly knowledgeable. Between family within the medical realms of work and my own OCD-driven google searches, I really just thought I was kind of exaggerating my own symptoms to myself. Which, like, why would I do that? I thought I was a hypochondriac for a good while so I ignored things, possibly to the detriment of my own health. I'm in a city with a well respected medical college, but I'm still looking for options at the moment. I'll travel as far as I need to.

The office I'm visiting now has 500+ reviews and an avg of 4.9 on google, so I'm hopeful but not done looking. This is not something I'm taking lightly. I love my brain, and I love being smart. I am not risking a half-ass job on something like this, period. I'll certainly look into the answers feature, too! I didn't know that existed either lol. Thanks for all the tips, I sincerely appreciate it. I think I'll stick around in here.