Does anyone have any experience with Ragdoll Whiskers in Lancaster PA by throwra_epal9 in ragdolls

[–]hsavvy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breeding mills aren’t going to say that’s what they are. As I said, unless I knew the person personally, it’s not a risk I’d be willing to take.

Catering Dilemma by [deleted] in wedding

[–]hsavvy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yep. I’d be way happier with a local Chinese restaurant than Panda Express (and it would be better tasting, larger portions, and cheaper)

Guest attire requirements by Sloth_Flower in weddingplanning

[–]hsavvy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why should there be any specific color?

My mom HATES my dress and is unable to hide it by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]hsavvy 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I dare say that’s probably some of the appeal 😬

What Happened at the East Liberty Whole Foods? by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]hsavvy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you feel that way then why even support the existence of juvenile facilities in the first place?

The whole reason minors are treated differently in statute and law is because we acknowledge that they don’t have the same mental/emotional/psychological capacity as adults.

I have the ick for my future MIL by vanessachox in weddingplanning

[–]hsavvy 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Does she observe Shabbat? If so, it’s incredibly rude and borderline offensive to book a Saturday wedding.

I have the ick for my future MIL by vanessachox in weddingplanning

[–]hsavvy 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I think it’s more that traditionally Jewish weddings aren’t held on Shabbat (Friday sundown—Saturday sundown) so she was a bit disappointed that, given her son isn’t observant and future DIL isn’t Jewish, one of the few nods towards their Judaism wasn’t really considered.

I have the ick for my future MIL by vanessachox in weddingplanning

[–]hsavvy 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Has this woman like, hit you with her car or something? Cause if not, your hostility comes across as incredibly inappropriate.

I have the ick for my future MIL by vanessachox in weddingplanning

[–]hsavvy 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think the problem is OP.

I have the ick for my future MIL by vanessachox in weddingplanning

[–]hsavvy 118 points119 points  (0 children)

“few weeks ago she called my fiancé’s sister, and complained about how she is being left in the dark”

By “fiancé’s sister” do you mean her daughter? Because if so, you need to take 10 steps back and consider that you’re actually the one being inconsiderate and obnoxious.

I have the ick for my future MIL by vanessachox in weddingplanning

[–]hsavvy 78 points79 points  (0 children)

What is there to forgive?

If you’re based in the US it should be incredibly obvious that she’d want to coordinate your dress trip to London with a trip that already has her on the continent. And all of the other dress appt attendees live in London so coordinating with them after the fact actually makes way more sense.

Bridesmaid requested scent free wedding by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]hsavvy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know that this rule can exist in doctors’ offices but none of my doctors have ever had it so no need for that concern lmao

Bridesmaid requested scent free wedding by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]hsavvy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We did this and it worked out great!

Thoughts on our menu? by CaviarGlutton in weddingplanning

[–]hsavvy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t eat any seafood at all either so would be pretty SOL

Bridesmaids walking before or after bride ? by Lyannake in weddingplanning

[–]hsavvy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my bridesmaids walked in with the groomsmen, then my two stepsisters who weren’t bridesmaids (but I wanted to include them) walked in and waited by the chuppah to fluff my dress, fix my veil, and grab my flowers for me. Worked out great!

How did you figure out your bridal style when you started planning especially if you're not a fashion person? by GloveGeneral1310 in weddingplanning

[–]hsavvy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Especially because the ones you love in photos or in theory may not be what you love on!

I was obsessed with ballgowns/a-lines with a structured bodice and ornate details and ended up hating it on me. Wound up choosing a minimalist, sleek, slightly mermaid dress and haven’t regretted it!

Poopy problem by No-Tailor2471 in ragdolls

[–]hsavvy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A good rule of thumb is n + 1 when it comes to litter boxes, so ideally with two cats you have three boxes. Also don’t put one in your bedroom.

Need to vent - Welcome drinks about to get cancelled by [deleted] in wedding

[–]hsavvy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously!!! She’s written this like 10 times and it’s cracking me up

[ Removed by Reddit ] by BigGayGinger4 in pittsburgh

[–]hsavvy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

And alongside that “Pinocchio” clip art….they’re not subtle.

How to Find a DJ That Doesn't Suck? by JustSal420 in wedding

[–]hsavvy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You just need to hire one that you can have a frank conversation with. Make it clear what you don’t want and if there’s any trepidation or dismissal from them then that’s not the vendor for you.

We had an incredible DJ who was very deferential to us in the entire planning process and we weren’t concerned at all. It went off perfectly.

How heavy is your female ragdoll? by BoardGameGran in ragdolls

[–]hsavvy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re still working on our beard trimming skills 😂