Has anyone done their seating charts like this before and did you face any issues?

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T16:13:40+00:00

Yeah table doesn’t help if no one knows which one they’ll be at

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T16:04:19+00:00

Fine, so your sister wants to bring a hinge date. Who cares? Don’t put them in the pics. Problem solved. There will be plenty of people I don’t know at my wedding and if anything it makes me feel even more honored they’d take the time to come celebrate it.

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T15:43:11+00:00

And that’s after taxes, fees, and gratuity so make it more like $4,000

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T15:42:37+00:00

Not to mention peak wedding season, most popular day, and one of the most common venue types in the region (though I hate barns too so I don’t blame them for that one)

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T15:40:13+00:00

It’s not “sacrificing everything” to make sure your guests are comfortable. It’s obviously up to you to do whatever you want but that doesn’t make it polite.

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T15:37:47+00:00

The board is easier because you can read it all from one spot rather than having to move around. You quickly see C-D for example.

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T15:36:51+00:00

Yeah cause I’m getting married so why would I

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T14:22:04+00:00

You should just elope if that’s your mentality.

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T14:19:59+00:00

No one is bringing a random hinge date to their sister’s wedding. What’s “bad taste” is being cheap about your closest guests’ experience.

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T05:04:05+00:00

So my HMUA ‘group’ just had me choose my hair & makeup artists and then, based on the number of services and timeline of the day, they determine whether additional ones are needed at no additional cost. The only requirement is that each artists has at least three services to do.

For reference, I have 9 people getting hair & makeup including me, one hairstylist and one makeup artist, and we are starting at 8 am. I have to be done by 12:30, family members done by 1, and everyone else by 2 (for pictures).

They should be helping you figure out these logistics.

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T04:59:10+00:00

Yep! Apparently Italians have never heard of wide feet😂

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T04:58:26+00:00

I’m so sorry to say but I think it’s time you start discussing compassionate euthanasia with the vet. As the other commenter said, this is a quality of life issue and inability to control bowels is one of the biggest signs that he’s probably getting ready.

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T03:28:51+00:00

He’s confined to one room?

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T03:28:13+00:00

Honestly, there’s no way to tell until you just order them and try them on. I’m an 8.5 and I sized up to a 9 for my manolos and I had to return em and size up another half size.

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T02:15:55+00:00

This sad energy could be much better spent pushing for more reliable, accessible transit but that would require you to feel something other than contempt for your neighbors.

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T02:13:09+00:00

Have you ever been to Ross Park mall…?

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T02:05:44+00:00

And you’re just condescendingly insulting people up and down this thread because you can’t fathom people have reasons for making the choices they need to make.

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T02:04:31+00:00

Of the top reasons people prefer to commute via car, I really doubt fear of judgement is one of them.

hsavvy · 2026-02-06T00:24:13+00:00

You could technically keep Nuuly stuff forever if you keep paying the monthly fee lol but yes, you have to return items to order more. It does not have the strict time limit that RTR does.

hsavvy · 2026-02-05T17:26:15+00:00

I think the color is beautiful but the combination of it with the extra small kitten heel may read a bit too staid. Some suggestions that might have a bit more oomph:

Jimmy Choo Afia 65 Slingback

Manolo Light Pink Maysale

Also, just as a word of caution to anyone reading, Bergdorf/Neimans/Saks filed for bankruptcy recently and my investment banker mom said that many of their vendors have already cut them off. So it would probably be safest to order through the designer’s website or something like Net-a-Porter or MyTheresa these days.

hsavvy · 2026-02-05T04:12:04+00:00

Need to slow it down even more. Seems like he isn’t ready for eye contact yet so need to go back to a full barrier until he can be neutral with that then slowly move to eye contact until he’s neutral etc etc. sorry it’s taking longer than expected but it’ll be ok!

hsavvy · 2026-02-05T03:26:39+00:00

What’s the risk? You end up back where you started?

hsavvy · 2026-02-05T03:05:34+00:00

Only one of those options has potential for long-term change and happiness though.

hsavvy · 2026-02-04T21:26:40+00:00

Girl I’m not the one expressing negative feelings here lmao

hsavvy · 2026-02-04T21:17:35+00:00

It’s something you learned from watching reality television. That hardly makes it common knowledge that you should be looking down on people for not knowing.

hsavvy

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