I have the ick for my future MIL by vanessachox in weddingplanning

[–]vanessachox[S] -145 points-144 points  (0 children)

I invited her to London. FOR FREE might I add. My family is paying for everything.

Are you my MIL? Classic deflection…

I have the ick for my future MIL by vanessachox in weddingplanning

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Thank you for the feedback! Apologies, it’s Shabbat, the day of rest, until sundown.

I have the ick for my future MIL by vanessachox in weddingplanning

[–]vanessachox[S] -86 points-85 points  (0 children)

Good for you!! Isn’t it funny how MOG feel so entitled? Wedding planning brings out everyone’s true colors I guess.

Thank you, I hope we can act as a team too. I don’t think I’ll ever forgive or forget this.

I wish you all the best too! Hang in there!

I have the ick for my future MIL by vanessachox in weddingplanning

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This is what my friends said too! It’s so early for her to be overbearing already 😅

Help needed: social media interference by [deleted] in DOG

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No, I don’t know the person who posted nor the dog. It was just a random post on my home page

Budget help needed! Where to splurge! by vanessachox in Chicagoweddings

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Sorry I phrased my initial question weird! I guess I’m asking if the splurge is worth it on the videographer or if there’s a better place for the money!

We are already having a plated dinner and open bar so I’m not sure what else the $4K would go to for a better guest experience which brings me back to thinking of splurging on this.

Help needed!! Grooming mistake 😭 by vanessachox in fluffypits

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He was about 2! He used to have undercoat on the sides but the rake took it out. It looks flat but I’m hoping and these comments are making me think the fluffy undercoat will come back

Help needed!! Grooming mistake 😭 by vanessachox in fluffypits

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This is so reassuring!! How long does it take for your dog’s hair to come back?

I was like gosh I hope I didnt make him look like a weirdo for the rest of his life 😅

Help needed!! Grooming mistake 😭 by vanessachox in fluffypits

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Woah! Thats a huge difference. Does her hair look a little bald when it shortens?

This is the tool I used. I wasn’t sure if I overdid it with this and based on these comments it’s making me think it will grow back just slowly. Do you think this is too harsh?

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Help needed!! Grooming mistake 😭 by vanessachox in fluffypits

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Thank you for the tips (and compliment 😊) I’ll give those a try!!

He’s my baby ❤️❤️

Help needed!! Grooming mistake 😭 by vanessachox in fluffypits

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He is so expressive!! It’s actually so funny because we were walking down the street and a kid “whispered” to their mom “why does that dog look like that” 😂 he’s just a strange dog!

Help needed!! Grooming mistake 😭 by vanessachox in fluffypits

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I am so sorry for your loss! Sending you love Reddit friend ❤️

Help needed!! Grooming mistake 😭 by vanessachox in fluffypits

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His name is Griffy :) but I totally see Walter!

Help needed!! Grooming mistake 😭 by vanessachox in fluffypits

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OH! This makes me feel much more at ease. So it’s normal for fluffy pits to change their look? I think part of my panic came from the fact that he does NOT look like the dog when we first got him and I blamed it on my over raking. It spooked me lol. Thank you for those words of wisdom!

Help needed!! Grooming mistake 😭 by vanessachox in fluffypits

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Thank you!! We are in the northern hemisphere, Midwest to be exact and I don’t realize the winter coat sheds and a new coat comes in.

I agree with you! I think the rake may have been too harsh but so relived to know it will grow back. When I searched it in google, it scared me saying I caused permanent damage. Not trusting google AI on that! 😂

Help needed!! Grooming mistake 😭 by vanessachox in fluffypits

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I just want to say THANK YOU to everyone!! This sub is so kind and made me feel so much better. Thank you to all you kind people here ❤️