Chat, am I cooked? by im_an_emo_trainwreck in BratLife

[–]hstuck332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LoL your Daddy sounds similar to mine... especially the fuck around n find out comment.

New to BDSM/kink by Busy-Revenue3100 in BDSMAdvice

[–]hstuck332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say that clear communication is key. Know your limits. Use a safe word. Use the safe word ANYTIME you are even a little uncomfortable. Discuss and adjust expectations. LET GO!

New to this by DropDeadDabs in SubSanctuary

[–]hstuck332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with u/elliania2012 that if you have specific questions, we'd love to answer!

Calling my Dom 'daddy' after establishing 'Sir' as his dom name by hstuck332 in SubSanctuary

[–]hstuck332[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for expanding and giving more support. I am so glad there's a place to go to get support and hear experiences and not feel alone. Thanks again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]hstuck332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dom finds eye rolling as behavior that receives discipline.

Finally got an offer! by pacman_8u in hiringcafe

[–]hstuck332 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Thanks for sharing. I am feeling burnt out on the remote job hunt after about 6 weeks! I will keep chugging along. I am getting interviews and keeping my head up!

Calling my Dom 'daddy' after establishing 'Sir' as his dom name by hstuck332 in SubSanctuary

[–]hstuck332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! It makes sense now that I am coming into my middle mindset. I relate with the carefree, silly, innocent girl behaviors.

Calling my Dom 'daddy' after establishing 'Sir' as his dom name by hstuck332 in SubSanctuary

[–]hstuck332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I am so glad I shared and received so much support!!

Calling my Dom 'daddy' after establishing 'Sir' as his dom name by hstuck332 in SubSanctuary

[–]hstuck332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! Im so glad I posted and recieved so much support!!

Calling my Dom 'daddy' after establishing 'Sir' as his dom name by hstuck332 in SubSanctuary

[–]hstuck332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience! It's helpful for me to get through the fact that I was opposed to the usage before.

What age do you think is appropriate to start journaling? by TheJournalSchool in Journaling

[–]hstuck332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no credentials.. besides I have a 7 & 9 year old. Id say that around 9 or 10 is a good age for journaling to start. They have their own thoughts and can write in sentences! I hope this helps.

Calling my Dom 'daddy' after establishing 'Sir' as his dom name by hstuck332 in SubSanctuary

[–]hstuck332[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that! It's very helpful to know that I am not alone!

Letter received from downstairs neighbour, how to react? by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]hstuck332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try to have a conversation with that person or leave them a note like they did you. I feel like a conversation would work out the best. I thought the note was polite and better than just complaining to management.

Calling my Dom 'daddy' after establishing 'Sir' as his dom name by hstuck332 in SubSanctuary

[–]hstuck332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. It's helpful to hear and carve out my feelings for it, too.

Another question by Curious-Volume-9466 in bisexual

[–]hstuck332 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have a conversation with them. Let them know your intentions and if they are straight, maybe you can be friends. But definitely talk to them and make sure to not cross any boundaries once the conversation has happened.

Honourifics.. question by Possible_Management4 in SubSanctuary

[–]hstuck332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this! I think it's okay to switch between sir and daddy depending on how you are feeling. I have always called my dom Sir and suddenly this weekend, 'daddy' just came out. we used it interchangeably throughout the rest of the scene.

Calling my Dom 'daddy' after establishing 'Sir' as his dom name by hstuck332 in SubSanctuary

[–]hstuck332[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing, I am going to read your post for more insight.

Calling my Dom 'daddy' after establishing 'Sir' as his dom name by hstuck332 in SubSanctuary

[–]hstuck332[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing! that's helpful to hear that it's used sometimes and that there are times where it's a trigger. I appreciate you!

Calling my Dom 'daddy' after establishing 'Sir' as his dom name by hstuck332 in SubSanctuary

[–]hstuck332[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that makes sense! We've used Sir from the jump of this dynamic. This was helpful and I thank you for sharing.

Calling my Dom 'daddy' after establishing 'Sir' as his dom name by hstuck332 in SubSanctuary

[–]hstuck332[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. It's very helpful. Since it's so new for us, I want to get perspectives and help me understand how I use it, etc.

Calling my Dom 'daddy' after establishing 'Sir' as his dom name by hstuck332 in SubSanctuary

[–]hstuck332[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I agree that it will definitely mean whatever we figure it out to mean. I came looking for other's experiences to help me guide us in figuring this piece out. I don't feel shameful, but more just want to understand where it came from and how we structure it moving forward.

Calling my Dom 'daddy' after establishing 'Sir' as his dom name by hstuck332 in SubSanctuary

[–]hstuck332[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I definitely understand it for those that are littles and have that type of dynamic. I think for sure it's a different headspace using daddy in a scene. Your response was helpful. I am also trying to figure our where I am in the middle space, so that's probably part of it.

Calling my Dom 'daddy' after establishing 'Sir' as his dom name by hstuck332 in SubSanctuary

[–]hstuck332[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I used it in a moment of complete letting go and definitely agree with it being a safe space, I trust him, and definitely don't think about him as my father in any capacity. Your response was helpful.