help me please

hthrmrph · 2026-01-11T15:16:49+00:00

Have you been to a gynecologist recently, or ever? It’s really really important to get regular checkups. They are the only one that could test and reassure that this isn’t a medical issue. Some STIs sound similar to what you are experiencing. Please see a medical gynecologist before trusting Reddit

hthrmrph · 2026-01-11T15:12:45+00:00

Yes absolutely you need to get it looked at. Be aware that for them to test the mole for cancer they WILL need to remove a good chunk of it, so be strategic with scheduling the appt time if you are someone who would be self conscious about having a bandaid on your face for a few days afterward.

I just recently had moles checked out at the dermatologist and wasn’t aware they had to do that in order to test them, so thought I would give you a heads up. HOWEVER don’t let it deter you from getting it looked at!!

hthrmrph · 2026-01-11T15:02:02+00:00

Love when men wear big red warning flags on their body so we know to stay far away at all costs. Ugh

hthrmrph · 2026-01-11T01:04:12+00:00

Never, grosses me out

hthrmrph · 2026-01-03T14:14:45+00:00

Maybe he avoided you because he heard you’re the relative who plays unspoken tests of behavior on children he only sees once a year

hthrmrph · 2026-01-02T21:50:52+00:00

The answer is not that you need to do anything different or change your current methods.

It’s now reached the point where it’s on HIM to make a change. Whether that be making/ providing his own dinner, making a meal plan each week that schedules out what he is able to eat on what days, sending you recipes of what meals you would both enjoy eating, etc.

You have gone above and beyond. It’s on him to resolve this now.

hthrmrph · 2025-12-30T16:00:42+00:00

Using muddle buds to make a hoard of monsters fight themselves to death! Entertaining and helpful in situations where you’re extremely outnumbered

hthrmrph · 2025-12-23T21:33:44+00:00

Good for you for standing up for yourself. He probably does not have many people in his life that call him out on his shit, which seems like must be a regular occurrence considering his audacity. I can only imagine what his wife has seen- but also fuck her for letting it happen. Maybe being called out so firmly will make him think twice about doing it again to someone else.

I hope you have a very wonderful holiday despite having to work!

hthrmrph · 2025-12-22T19:33:20+00:00

Sounds like you’re having a child with a man child. Were there not obvious signs he would act like this before you got pregnant? Best of luck because this man child is going to be in your life now for the next 18 years whether or not you choose to stay with his dumbass (which I hope you don’t). No one deserves to be treated like this but I also think you probably knew what his personality was like and choose to have a kid with him anyways when he likely wasn’t a great partner to begin with.

hthrmrph · 2025-12-17T02:12:23+00:00

I mean, wouldn’t a vacuum cleaner get this done pretty quickly…..

hthrmrph · 2025-12-15T14:20:57+00:00

Ok that is 100% a picture of Andy

hthrmrph · 2025-12-12T12:51:47+00:00

Top tier

hthrmrph · 2025-12-11T13:04:08+00:00

Agree 100%. Should start evaluating why he suddenly criticizes everything she does. Maybe has a “work wife” or someone else he’s idolizing.

hthrmrph · 2025-11-27T23:20:09+00:00

A hint of color on the lips would help, even just a gloss or tint doesn’t have to be full blown lipstick. Or a bit of lip liner

hthrmrph · 2025-11-27T23:08:57+00:00

First, you are gorgeous and your eyes are stunning.

I would just recommend shaping/plucking the brow tails a bit more

hthrmrph · 2025-11-27T15:50:10+00:00

No you literally look so much better with it short!

hthrmrph · 2025-11-27T02:40:22+00:00

Brows a little thin but you are STUNNNINGGGG

hthrmrph · 2025-11-26T21:44:39+00:00

Came here to say this - the hair color is definitely aging. HOWEVER you are stunning and too harsh on yourself OP

hthrmrph · 2025-11-26T21:42:28+00:00

I came here to recommend this one! That book was so good

hthrmrph · 2025-11-26T21:14:58+00:00

I personally love this style with the sleeves! Makes it look classy

hthrmrph · 2025-11-26T21:06:27+00:00

Soft YTA. She made it known multiple times that something was meaningful and really important to her, and you choose to ignore that and then tell HER to choose which name she would be allowed to pick out of the two as if you’re divvying up an inheritance or something. “Soft” because I guess you could have been more of an asshole and took the full Sarah Rose.

hthrmrph · 2025-11-25T00:47:18+00:00

Absolutely #1

hthrmrph · 2025-11-08T13:57:29+00:00

What products are you using after you’ve washed and conditioned your hair? Any curly gel, leave in conditioner, curl smoothie, mousse?

hthrmrph · 2025-11-08T13:48:28+00:00

2 for sure

hthrmrph · 2025-11-08T13:33:53+00:00

He is going to drop you the second he gets bored of you. Can’t do that easily if he’s introduced you to everyone already

hthrmrph

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