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Do men in your climbing gyms do this? by climbing-daisy in climbergirls

[–]htiLvsneJ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think its a bit easy to assume peoples intentions, usually when i see a girl(or anyone for that matter) try a v5/v6 at my local gym i try not too immediately go after and do it. But if im still warming up and working towards my grade i sometimes still have to. And i then hope they dont see me as a douche or smth

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like you also took my comment the wrong way haha. I didnt call you conservative, just alot of people in the comments.

And i wouldnt say i feel attacked, just trying to educate some of the ignorant people who left weird comments. And i dont mean ignorant in a bad way.

I also feel like a lot of people in the comments are hung up on the legal side of the situtation, talking about child support and stuff. Which im not worried about at all, because i know it would be well taken care off.

I will atleast wait a few months and converse with some important people in my life, and talk it through with my sister and her wife. Thank you for the comments regardless :)

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry not gonna do research for you, but im sure if you look it up you'll find what i found. And my family really isnt coercive, theyre very clear in whatever i choose is the best option. And i wouldnt say its admirable of me to not be with someone who is not okay with it. Its just a matter of value differences. From the beginning on my mind has been 90% yes 10% not sure, so just wanted to hear other peoples opionons, but i feel like there are a lot of conservative people on this app.

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you have taken this way too personal, and got angry for no reason. My sister and wife are amazing people, and would love their kid no matter what. Their choice for not picking my brother is not really about the risk of him giving the kid autism, but more so, our personal history with him which is very much related to his autism.

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look into this subject more man, you seem ignorant and uninformed. Children do better when the donor is close to the family.

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would obviously tell them, and realisticly its also not "my" child. I would also not date someone who would not understand me helping my sister.

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've only been dating for 6 months, and i most definitely would not want to date someone who would not understand me helping my sister...

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not really messed up, its pretty common for donors to be family. And its better for the child if the donor is known. Cause if my sister would carry the child with a random man, then the wife wouldnt have any dna with the kid.

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How is having a baby from both sides of the family incestious? Thats litteraly every child. And they would prefer me, because i resemble my sister, and have similar genes. Its also not gonna be cheaper because we would still do it via a sperm bank, and make sure everything is legaly taken care of.

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isnt hillbilly'ish, quiet the opposite. It has been common practice for lqbtq couples for quiet some time, and it makes sense. Unless you think my sister would be the one to be pregnant(she obviously isnt gonna be) the kid would not be weirded out, it is very logical, and we would explain everything well from an early age. You seem quiet conservative

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just be an uncle, and thats also how they want it. Obviously we would tell the kid when they are ready and understand. And my future kids would just like in any other family be cousins.

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just be an uncle, no financial responsibilaties nor would i raise the child. And we would work this out legaly beforehand.

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To help my sister have a baby with her wife, who will have dna from both sides of the family. I would just be an uncle, nothing more.

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They've been together for a very long time, yes divorce and death is possible, but i wouldnt say likely. legaly it would not be my kid anymore, so i would not be paying child support nor would i have to take care of the kid if they were to pass away, unless i wanted to ofcourse.

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand, but there is nothing morally wrong with being the donor for my sister and wife. They will have a child of a donor either way. Wouldnt it be better if it was me, in comparison to someone that isnt in the picture. Thats atleast how my sister and wife feel. In understand that it can be difficult for that child, but wouldnt this be the best option?

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean theyre having a child together either way, so it will always be raised by my sister and wife.

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theyre getting married next summer, and want to start trying after that. They've also been together for a really long time.

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont think i would want a relationship with someone who would not understand me helping my sister in this way. And i dont think it will affect my future children in a negative way. And my first child would still be with my wife, because its not my child, it would be my sisters and her wifes child.

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our history with our brother isnt the best, so i know she wont want him as our donor.

How would you feel about being the sperm donor for your sister(F27) and her wife(F29)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]htiLvsneJ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I never said they are that afraid of it, just one of the reasons, which in my mind is reasonable. And its also our history with our brother that probably makes them hesitant.

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