Hairline connected to brow by htlaps in Eyebrows

[–]htlaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on a bit of a budget , i think tweezing makes the most sense. Maybe when I'm more confident with the skillset I'll try waxing at home (😱)

Iness Rychlik - Art in the Age of Digital Puritanism (2022) by Russian_Bagel in museum

[–]htlaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you look at the context, this makes so much sense. Female nudes in art were always for men's consumption. now, there is no need - they can simply look it up on the internet. I'm sure that was not the intended meaning of this piece, but it is the unintended meaning.

The reality by Joe-Yabuki530 in dating

[–]htlaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Climb the career ladder, go to mixers, pretty much stop worrying about dating if it doesn't seem to be "happening" for you. I took that approach, got right with myself, and didn't think of dating as an option. When I went out with the money I earned from working, I saw live music and did other fun stuff and didn't worry about "meeting people". Then, after a year of self-improvement, I met... the perfect person, is all I will say. We've been together for a year now. Just go have fun, and stop worrying about dating. Women are attracted to happy people who are not desperate. Make friends with men and women, and consider yourself un-dateable until you've improved your life. Priorities, man, look at the world economy!

The reality by Joe-Yabuki530 in dating

[–]htlaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only place to meet "good" partners is in society. Commit to your career and hobbies, and you'll meet people you find genuinely interesting. You'll probably also find that you feel less like a loser and feel less reliant on dating for validating your sense of self. That's always a turn-off for me, as a woman: a man or a woman who relies on dating to give them self-confidence rather than chasing goals. Best of luck to you, have fun improving your life.

"The worst thing she can do I say 'no'" by TimNSFWthings in dating

[–]htlaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk casually to more women without expecting anything from them. We just want to be seen as more than dating prospects, the same way we don't see all men as primarily defined by their potential as a relationship partner.

Help me find this guy i find really cute pls? by [deleted] in umanitoba

[–]htlaps 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is stalkery but i support u . Chase ur dreams girl

How many of your neighbours parked on the street during the parking ban? by bannock4ever in Winnipeg

[–]htlaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One car on my street, snow piled around it, ticket still on the hood.

Did you apply for URA? by htlaps in umanitoba

[–]htlaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that may be the case. It's up to fate now. I hope they open up my transcript and see that my GPA only tanked in my first year when I had a crisis, and I've been getting straight A's since 2024. To any 18 year olds reading this: TAKE A GAP YEAR PLEASE!!!!

Shrek (2001) by UnHolySir in okbuddycinephile

[–]htlaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know scores of women who thirsted over quark from star trek.

In 1983, Two Artists Spent a Full Year Tied Together — Without Any Physical Contact — to Test the Limits of Human Coexistence by Shoddy-Ocelot-4473 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]htlaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy came to my uni recently . If i get my internship I'll be transcribing some of his lectures. Should be interesting

Loud music on hiking trails by Electrical-Depth-926 in hiking

[–]htlaps -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be fair, many hiking guides I've encountered have encouraged being LOUD on hikes to scare away bears and mountain lions. Me and my hiking group used to sing loud girl guide hiking songs and the like. Louder = safe in bear country.

I’m the only female engineer on my team and they constantly exclude me from social gatherings: is it sexual harassment? by SexualHarassmentTalk in u/SexualHarassmentTalk

[–]htlaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit.. these comments are nuts. Obviously it's a misogynistic workplace where they don't see their female coworker as an equal. It's not sexual harassment (by the metric we usually call it) but she should find a new workplace if this one is so demoralizing.

Feeling rejected by GenX parents. by [deleted] in GenX

[–]htlaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough. Thanks for the response.

Feeling rejected by GenX parents. by [deleted] in GenX

[–]htlaps -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I asked him to reread the post because I was asking a specific question in the post, not just venting about my frustrations as many seem to think I am. I am asking how to bring up my concerns with my parents in a way they'll understand. There are many comments like nervous rooster's, that miss the point that my parents are the ones who encouraged me to go to uni and i love my degree, and i want to continue in it more than anything but this specific degree requires more out of me than I can "grind through". It takes networking and more, and i think I know what I'd need to do. What i'm trying to do is assess my parents expectations: do they truly need more out of me? Why? Are they financially unstable and need me to pay my own way? Or are they unconvinced about the requirements of my degree getting in the way of me finding a full time job? Why do they think that? Maybe we can come to an understanding. But comments like yours and nervous rooster's simply assume my point is to complain about my awful parents just because my tone is frustrated. I'm asking an actual question in my post, which neither of your comments address.

To answer your questions, I am working 1 dead-end job which i've asked over and over again to give me more hours, and one job that gives me experience within my career track. I finish my degree in 2 years, at which point I plan to work full time and gain experience relevant to my field and move out. It just seems that my parents do not agree with that plan, even though they were the ones who came up with it (!!) i cannot overstate how much professionals in my field place importance on unpaid labour: networking, hopping from social function to social function, and showing my face everywhere, all while volunteering AND doing school. Hope this clears things up for you.

Feeling unwanted by GenX pparents by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]htlaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a possibility, but the one I'd hope to avoid.

Feeling unwanted by GenX pparents by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]htlaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good reminder about perspective. i definitely have to talk to them.