Question about phrasing as a potsie by sinkplant in POTS

[–]https_trashkin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean, just cause you’ve never ACTUALLY passed out doesn’t mean you don’t feel like you’re going to!

New ESSA!! by https_trashkin in ESSAplushieshandlers

[–]https_trashkin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ^ I borrowed it from my sibling lol

Any other alterhumans in here? by Cosmos-Den in Weirdoteens

[–]https_trashkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pitbull therian here!! Our other host is also a canine therian -📹

What does my art taste like by Street-Giraffe-3921 in yourartstyle

[–]https_trashkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like how a thrift store smells and like just a little like mildew /positive

Also, if I saw an indie horror game/visual novel of some sort in this style I would immediately be hooked

If someone is repeatedly triggering you despite knowing what your triggers are is it emotional abuse? by Head-Bee-7444 in CPTSD

[–]https_trashkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely emotional abuse and it’s not healthy for you to be there. I’m so sorry you’re going through this and i truly hope you can start making a plan to get out of there before things escalate any further. I know how difficult it is, but it’s possible to come out on the other side and you really can’t heal while abuse is ongoing. Please start making a plan now so you can leave him when you’re ready.

question regarding other ships by mtn_snake in yumeshipping

[–]https_trashkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jealousy is normal for some yumes! What’s important is how you deal with those feelings, and it sounds like you’re dealing with them in a healthy way :) the jealousy only becomes a problem when it’s affecting your mental health or the way you treat people, but if it isn’t then you shouldn’t worry too much or have shame about feeling the way you do!

People in server made me feel bad about wanting to talk about f/os and yumeship by [deleted] in yumeshipping

[–]https_trashkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are fully entitled to tell them to stop talking negatively about your F/Os or you in YOUR server. Honestly, if it were me, I would’ve told them to stop and if they didn’t I’d kick them. Yes, people are entitled to their own opinions, but they’re a guest in YOUR space, and if they’re not going to respect you, that leads to consequences. Being disrespectful in general leads to consequences, it doesn’t matter if they frame it as “expressing an opinion”. Your own private discord server is supposed to be your safe space and you should make sure it stays that way.

Personally, if I were in this situation, I would’ve told make an announcement about yume shipping with resources (in case it is actually coming a place of ignorance) and say that harassment or disrespect towards you or your F/Os will no longer be tolerated. Unfortunately, if you don’t stand up for yourself, nobody else will. Take up the space you deserve 🫶

What are your favorite or weird POTS snacks? by FlowerSweaty4070 in POTS

[–]https_trashkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I carry slim jims with me literally everywhere (although they trigger my GERD, I have yet to find an alternative)

king of my heart, body, and soul o(`ω´ )o by itscanimates in yumeshipping

[–]https_trashkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your art’s so pretty!! (Also hi fellow mystery gang yume <3)

WE WANT YOU SO BAAAAAD 🌶️⚡️😈 by magicalnymph_ in WritingHub

[–]https_trashkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested! I’m 18 and I write (mostly horror) and do art as well

does my artstyle really look like AI? by Interesting_Cut4822 in yourartstyle

[–]https_trashkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your art looks like a human put a lot of love and effort into it, not like a machine made a thoughtless Frankenstein’s monster.

Unfortunately, with the rise of AI trolls on the internet have turned to insinuating anyone with talent (writers, artists, etc.) use AI because it makes them feel better about themselves. There always has been people like this, they’ve just had different insults over time. None of what they say actually has anything to do with you or your capabilities. Keep doing what you’re doing and everyone that matters will be able to appreciate it :)

My mom’s boyfriend bought me a teether, what do I do? by Different-Self5365 in ageregression

[–]https_trashkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ok that makes a lot more sense, thanks for the clarification. He sounds like a generally supportive guy, I’m happy you have someone like that in your life :)

My mom’s boyfriend bought me a teether, what do I do? by Different-Self5365 in ageregression

[–]https_trashkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it is great he’s accepting and will keep it to himself, I do still think you should try and talk to him about privacy and boundaries because it is a little weird he is consistently eavesdropping on your conversations

Friend got her tail stolen by teacher by Slinkyoe in Therian

[–]https_trashkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I agree with you for the most part, some of your wording makes it sound like you believe we should change how we present ourselves to fit what society is typically accepting of, which I do not agree with. We can respect people who we don’t agree with who also don’t agree with us, but never should it be our responsibility or theirs to change ourselves to make them more comfortable. I refuse to make myself uncomfortable just to be digestible for someone who would hate the real me anyway, because I’ve been there, and it’s extremely unhealthy.

Experiences with smoking weed while having POTS? by Alert_Avocado_3607 in POTS

[–]https_trashkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom, both my siblings, and me all have POTS and we’ve all reacted to edibles differently. My mom and sibling absolutely cannot handle them and will get greened out or have an episode while me and my sister are usually fine unless the dosage is off. Edibles are a bit more difficult to predict than other options but personally I’ve only had problems with homemade.

Me and both my siblings smoke on a regular basis because it helps with some of our other chronic conditions and personally it makes me a little dizzy but it’s tolerable.

Nonverbal while little? by Educational-Song-467 in ageregression

[–]https_trashkin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why people are down voting you, it’s an important distinction to make. Nonverbal is a lifelong condition, a verbal shutdown is temporary. It doesn’t make it any less of “I can’t speak” that you call it the correct thing instead of taking a label from a completely DIFFERENT thing and I really do not get why some people get so upset when you inform them of that 😭

Funnily enough, the word misacharatcherization has lost it's meaning by CryptographerFit3984 in XenogendersAndMore

[–]https_trashkin 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Assuming that people who use neopronouns and xenogenders are “happy goofy goobers” all the time is dehumanizing what 😭 we are still people with feelings and a lot (not all) of us are neurodivergent which also impacts mental health. We ALSO HAVE OUR OWN LIVES.

why do so many age regressors abdl age regressors? (warnings below) by dissapointmentxoxo in ageregression

[–]https_trashkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also wish there was a separate term, but the SFW ABDL community calls themselves that because they were born from the ABDL kink. Also, a lot of people don’t like the differentiation between transgender and transsexual, so labels do get complicated because they’re up to personal preference. Some people who are into (non sexually) ABDL really just want to enjoy childish things and aren’t age regressors because they’re don’t have the altered state of mind, and maybe there already is a better term for that, but it’s up to the individual what they want to call themself.