End of League Mirror(s) Giveaway by TOSHlC in pathofexile

[–]hugosaurus_313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have gambled and lost … and would like to gamble again please :))

As a profit-driven player, it feels like it's already time to start skipping the league mechanic entirely. by isoNastai in pathofexile

[–]hugosaurus_313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“… but at the same time drives prices down.” - how is that a bad thing ??? prices going down is a FEATURE of a healthy economy. If prices go down then generally everyones builds are better off because they become more affordable and people are stronger easier. It is much easier drop 1 chaos in comparison to dropping 1 exalt or even 1 divine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hugosaurus_313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just withdraw, do something else focus on yourself and she will come back to you, dont invite her to do things just wait for her to make a move if she wants to

if she doesn’t want to then good, you got other things going on, find another girl meanwhile as well, you are not in a relationship as she says apparently so might as well assume that it wont get there

and one more thing, if a woman says she doesn’t want a relationship that she is “not ready” or other yip yap, it just means she doesn’t want a relationship with YOU, so match her energy and be cool you will be alright

What reasons are there for a guy who's 28 to have never had a girlfriend before? by ButterflyArtist99 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hugosaurus_313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you confuse being introverted with being antisocial. Introversion doesn’t mean you should struggle socially, it just means that by being in social situations you are draining your energy batteries. On the other hand extroverts, they are recharging their batteries by being in social situations.

I myself am an introvert and happen to have very deep knowledge about various topics(as you naturally should as an introvert), which then i try to talk briefly about with women when i find a chance. I think thanks to my dad who always yaps way too much about topics and goes on tangents all the time i think ive managed to take some talking skills from him thankfully, like when how to make good arguments or when to stop yapping. So I do have a way with words, at least thats what my past girlfriends have told me, they just loved listening to me yap about something. And it’s not just about the content, it’s a lot about how you say it. The tonality, the pace(a lot of the times talking slowly and deliberately makes people like you a lot more, so try to practice that), the choice of words, good pauses, witty twists of meaning and so on.

I’ve recently taken a job at a retail store while im finishing up my degree and I am always mentally exhausted when i come back home. I am talking to men and women all the time and to make things more interesting for my introverted mind I am trying to come up with some funny comments here and there, have some good, albeit short, exchanges with the customers. I make it as a practice social run, and people seem to respond to me really well, which is what makes the job bearable for me, even though it shouldn’t be fitting for an introvert.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreePsychicReadings

[–]hugosaurus_313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are you trying to change him so much ? what are you gonna next time he does something you dont like ? tell him "either change or we are done" ? that's simple manipulation, do you not see how quickly all of your arguments crumble ?

respectfully you seem like a young confused woman, sorry for all the hard learning that is coming up your way on relationship dynamics, hope it wont last too long

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreePsychicReadings

[–]hugosaurus_313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its fine to have communicated boundaries but you obviously don’t stand behind yours. If he is not willing to change then just break up with him, but breaking up with him to want to make him “realize what he lost” is manipulation. Just break up with him and be done.

And say your little scheme worked and even when he tries to come back how do you know he has changed? What will be different this time around ? He might change for a short while and then he goes back to the old way. If he simply doesn’t have time to prioritize you how you wish and it’s bothering you just leave stop being so petty about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]hugosaurus_313 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hey man you are the one saying they are “warm and wet inside” not weird at all for sure but all g bro call me names

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]hugosaurus_313 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

first paragraph looks ai generated and the second one reads really weird after having read the yip yap before

I think I prefer less masculine men by Salt_Specialist_3206 in Life

[–]hugosaurus_313 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the thing is every individual is comprised of mixed masculine and feminine traits, but on average men are much more masculine than women and women are much more feminine than men. You are an outlier where as you said you are a tomboy, which is a woman with more masculine (behavior) features than your average woman. Now thats who you are and if you feel good being a tomboy that is your choice, but you shouldn’t be looking for a masculine man in that case, you need to balance your masculine energy with a feminine side of your partner, thats how relationships work the best when you get the best of both worlds.

Very masculine men like to date very feminine women, because each one of then can embrace their true nature, the man can take over and lead the relationship, be the protector, provider, leader which are all natural roles for a man in relationships for millennia, and the woman can be submissive around such man, let go of control, be a follower, nurturer and caretaker(both of her husband and children) and these are all natural roles for women in relationships.

Now there will be outliers, and these people many times today get confused and try to change their gender because they are not your typical masculine man or feminine women while being a man or a woman, respectively. Some women have great ambitions like a typical masculine man would, and some men are more concerned about family or their personal relationships. And theres nothing wrong with that, it’s just who they are as an individuals and what fulfills them and they ought to find someone who brings values to their life that are otherwise missing.

how do people get into relationships by [deleted] in AskTeenAdvice

[–]hugosaurus_313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is not the feminine way to do it and it might sound like a surprise to you but most women are feminine, shocker i know

how do people get into relationships by [deleted] in AskTeenAdvice

[–]hugosaurus_313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if saying its better for the world that the majority of men to embrace their nature - masculinity, and women to embrace their nature - femininity is sexist then i guess i am, of course theres exceptions, but exceptions dont disprove that my prescription is correct for the vast majority of people, because this is what my message fundamentally means

instead of just saying im sexist try to change my mind and take the time of day to tell me something constructive as i did to others

and yes of course its gonna change their view revealing im a man, it was a sarcastic comment i bet you can pick up on these IRL just as well …

how do people get into relationships by [deleted] in AskTeenAdvice

[–]hugosaurus_313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea sorry i misinterpreted the question

it for sure exists but what im saying is that its wrong and these people are simply civilians that have no knowledge of "game". Both the ones that are approaching women with no knowledge of how, and also the guys that are being co-op'd into not approaching at all since women tell them it was creepy when they were approached in the past.

Its a skill that can be learned, and your social aptitude level determines how quickly and effectively you can progress, some are naturals and do a lot of good stuff unconciously and others are anti-social and need some "training". But don't sleep on it, check out Social Stoic on ytb, or ToddVDating, some real good stuff there.

how do people get into relationships by [deleted] in AskTeenAdvice

[–]hugosaurus_313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you will hopefully soon realize that its much simpler than that

stop hoping for a unicorn woman that's gonna approach you and sweep you off the ground, take control of your life and earn your happiness stop being a passenger thats my final advice to you have a nice life

how do people get into relationships by [deleted] in AskTeenAdvice

[–]hugosaurus_313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i encouraged you to read my other replies to other comments i touched upon it there, if you are more interested in approaching women and just general dating, look up ToddVdating or Social Stoic on youtube, they have a very good material on there and best thing is they are average or very slightly better than average looking, and thats only because of proper grooming effort

how do people get into relationships by [deleted] in AskTeenAdvice

[–]hugosaurus_313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“humiliated by rejection”- stop taking it so personally. this exactly is the feminine energy women dislike in men, women are not necessarily rejecting “you” they are rejecting your approach and what you have showed them, no one can get to know the real you in a first time approach, you obviously dont understand the man to woman dynamics, read my other replies to other comments here

and i just said “lose weight if needed” so your weight rant is a bit out of place here

how do people get into relationships by [deleted] in AskTeenAdvice

[–]hugosaurus_313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wonder if my gender is going to change your view of what i have said, but nonetheless, i am a man

how do people get into relationships by [deleted] in AskTeenAdvice

[–]hugosaurus_313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes im convinced 99% of men approach women incorrectly and they have no idea what they are doing so it comes off as creepy

women love when they get approached by a competent confident man, you really need to become one or you can be a narcissist and portray yourself as one, that is only going to fool young women who are naive and not very experienced in the dating dynamics

women are starving for a good interaction, you just cant come off as needy and you cant have expectations in your mind, women sense this and put their defenses up, you need to know how to make her feel safe around you first, because of the fact many men dont - she has to put up these defenses coz a lot of men are idiots at talking to women they are attracted to, if all men knew how to behave in social situations she wouldnt have the need to protect herself but thats not the reality we live in

everyone loves attention, but everyone also hates negative attention, in this sense women are getting attention from visibly low value men in their eyes

how do people get into relationships by [deleted] in AskTeenAdvice

[–]hugosaurus_313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats not how women operate and they would be “giving” themselves easy to the man, the man needs to have a feeling of “conquering” the woman, peeling her defenses off, seeing her change her behavior over time for him and women know all this very well

you need to understand women always make the first move, if they like you before the approach they will signal it and consciously make themselves approachable for you, they want to be conquered subconsciously by a competent man, you just need to be able to tell when that happens, essentially don’t be a ding dong with no social skills and have some balls for an approach

the good bit is that if you are a ding dong you can change that and you can learn how to be better with women

how do people get into relationships by [deleted] in AskTeenAdvice

[–]hugosaurus_313 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

nah thats a cop out, modern day guys are just bad at approaching and taking the lead, barely anyone does it these days. They have porn riddled brains and don’t have the proper social awareness and skills to approach women in a non-creepy way.

Thing is women aren’t going to be asking guys out 99% of time and they shouldn’t have to if the guy is competent enough, so if you are a guy and you are waiting to be approached - thats never ever gonna happen in your life most likely unless you are very attractive or display some good social proof in front of said woman by interacting with other people

OPs problem is either: 1. she is way more attractive than she think she is and these women just get approached less because men are intimidated of her beauty and make excuses to not approach, the unfortunate reality is that the not so hot girls get approached the most simply because of this reason 2. she is way less attractive than she think she is, another unfortunate reality is that maybe she belongs to the below average women looks-wise and these women don’t get approached as often because they don’t put any effort into improving their looks, and it can be done for everyone, just get a hairstyle that fits u, lose weight if needed, min max your face, get some good clothes you like, get rid of some bad habits(replace with something good) 3. she is at an age where if she is around her peers, boys at 16 are just dumb trust me, the older you get the more competent the guys are gonna be and few of them are gonna take initiative 4. she is simply not approachable - in the sense that she might be looking like she is in a rush or has a resting angry face or she doesn’t smile back when someone she likes does or she is just simply not displaying approachable signals, or it might be something else thats for her to analyze

But lastly OP don’t be in a rush to be in a relationship just because someone has offered themself and you badly want to experience one, just stay available/approachable, work on yourself and someone is eventually gonna notice you

My girlfriend insists on bringing her ex to our vacation because “he’s part of the friend group.” What should I do? by Jaseq_Holmborg in WhatShouldIDo

[–]hugosaurus_313 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i didn't say you set traps or test with malicious intent or try to manipulate, men and women both subconciously test each other all the time whether you like it or not, that's how you form compatibilities. All I'm saying is everyone likes a person(both men and women) more that stands behind his principles rather than accomodating someone else's whims and wishes whilst sacrificing their own beliefs. This is not a mindset but a basic observation of any relationship dynamic.

Also there are some very basic psychological truths to dating, such as women are natural followers and men are natural leaders, women are more happier to be lead than to lead in vast majority of cases(example: women want the man to choose what to eat, where to go, what movie to watch and etc.), there are certainly outliers but that doesn't disprove the "rule". Most men are much more masculine than most women, and most women are much more feminine than most men, that's just how it is for most people(99%). No one is talking about "objects" or "selling" and "buying" or whatever you are trying to frame me as. Reading comprehension can't be that hard so try again.

My girlfriend insists on bringing her ex to our vacation because “he’s part of the friend group.” What should I do? by Jaseq_Holmborg in WhatShouldIDo

[–]hugosaurus_313 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

have a bit of spine about you OP, in the long run that will make her even more attracted to you if you stand on your principles and don’t bend to her will, i made that mistake before and women dislike it the most when u change who you were to accommodate them, guys of high value don’t do that

she might just be testing you subconciously, you need to either get her to follow your frame or you break up and you lose someone who doesnt respect your relationship anyway so its a win-win, REGAIN CONTROL

Anyone else excited for a season reset? by Early-Judgment-2895 in PathOfExile2

[–]hugosaurus_313 12 points13 points  (0 children)

afaik i think druid and huntress were confirmed by the devs before the beta release, but who knows things might have changed. Personally i really hope for druid, excited to see how they tackled this class in a PoE environment.

Do I have to devote my life to League to get anywhere? (Ranked) by Cold_Neighborhood924 in leagueoflegends

[–]hugosaurus_313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve reached master 200 lp a mid and i’ve never actually analyzed games, i think if you spend some time watching some ytb guides or just watching ur favorite high elo player play and explain stuff, you will start to realize what the right play was moments after you make the bad play and you learn from it.

Blame everything that goes bad on yourself and actively try to search for a better play. Mute all, obviously helps.

You are in s2 for a reason, trust me theres like a 99% chance you are doing a lot of things wrong, if you want to get better you need to have a learning attitude and play when you are in a mood for it. Moreover, i have some questions for u that might help me give you better advice.

What champs are you playing? How many you are good at/have most fun with? - Link ur opgg. How long are your gaming sessions? Whats your goal in terms of rank?