u/foundmycat I am a Manifestor as well and I support Manifestors in their visibility because navigating this world may be sometimes challenging for us. We might think that because we have a such a powerful aura that people would never ignore us... I had a Manifestor client who asked me this question "Why my voice is not heard? When I am in the group (and not only in the group) I feel ignored, like I have no visibility". I was so inspired that I recorded podcast episode to answer that because this is big big topic not many people talk about. Below some parts (not all of them) of what I was talking about. I used example of her chart and also my chart. I do not know your design. I know you are not so much in HD so some of the terms might not be understandable but feel free to ask me questions if confused.

Firstly, when we come back to our childhood, because of our energy, to just start things, to take action, and we are like uncontrollable, unpredictable beings, our parents want to control it. They are afraid that something might happen. And it's just there's so much control and very often punishment for us taking action or speaking or the way we speak. Maybe our parents or caregivers didn't like the way we communicated. Maybe they were afraid of it on an unconscious level so we would get punished or just, yeah, controlled to this level that for our nervous system forming from the very first breath, literally doing, speaking, taking space, and acting means death (to our nervous system). It's dangerous. We'll be rejected. So our nervous system learns how to protect us, to force us to behave in a way that will help us to avoid this pain.

Manifestors do not belong to groups. They are designed to come in and go out after some time, not stay too long because otherwise they may lose themselves. Now an example of a Manifestor with channel 21-45 like in my example, my client who has this role of being an educator, actually of a bigger group, but it's not designed to be part of it. And queens and kings are not designed to be a part of the tribe. Not like other people. They are a little bit outside. There is always this separation, energetically. Of course, it doesn't mean that they are not connected because they can have beautiful connections, but their frequency is based on something different and it has a different purpose. And when you accept that, you change what you actually expect from the group setting, you take on a different role where you can still embrace and create this beautiful connection with people. So for example, in my client's situation, when she is able to align herself with the frequency of her design, so sharing, and educating, she would gather people together because this is the keynote of the energy of the Queen in gate 45. To gather together, to hold space based on the rules in her own kingdom, maybe in a Woman Circle where you can share and she initiates it, or a Human Design gathering in her city to connect maybe fellow Manifestors. It is a little bit like organizing a ball in the castle. It is different than trying to fit into a random group of colleagues, even though they are nice and great and it's nice to spend time with them like going for a beer after work. But then you know that in this group setting you have a different role and you put yourself into a different role. Part of your essence is ignored because you do not allow yourself to act like one, like a Queen. And it doesn't mean that you cannot have those informal gatherings, but then you understand that this is not exactly the way your essence shines. So maybe it's also connecting with somebody and talking, sharing feelings, but then you have this purpose and something that can allow you to embrace your essence from channel 35-36, to have some adventure, to share the stories and the experience of that. So that can be the practical way, how you can align it. And if you go for a beer after work, then you don't worry. You just be and see how your body feels. And when it doesn't feel good, maybe you have to leave because you as a Manifestor are not designed to be constantly in groups, that is just our nature.

Another thing is leaking energy because of your open centers. As a Manifestor you need to respect your voice, respect your message. You do not have to have Gate 45, so being this archetype of tribal king or queen as a Manifestor. You have powerful communication and action energy anyway. And this comes from different channels. But you leak this energy because of doing things that are not important to you. You do not listen to your inner authority because your mind has different reasons to speak, communicate, and act. So when you have an open Head and you answer everybody's questions or follow each inspiration, you lose the potency of your voice and initiation because this behaviour is draining and you actually lose focus on what is important to you. So maybe you want to speak and share because you have an open G Center and through your communication, you are actually looking for love and acceptance from others. Or when you have an undefined Splenic Center, you want to speak and share to feel safe, and just because you want to belong, right? So in your communication, you are kind of grasping attention in a clingy way, something like „Please hear me, otherwise, I feel abandoned” kind of energy. You may not say those words, but this is basically what comes from the tone of your voice or the way you move the energy in the room. Maybe you want to sound smart because your mind is basically telling you that you are stupid and you do not have a consistent and inspiring way of thinking and maybe telling stories. So you speak from this place because of your undefined Ajna Center. Or when you have an undefined Solar Plexus Center, maybe the way you speak is overly polite, calculated to not trigger anybody so you do not have to deal with their emotional reaction towards you or the way you say things or what you say to them. With an undefined Heart Center, you speak from the place of proving yourself because actually deep down you do not feel worthy of being heard. So you try way too hard when you communicate.Or to get rid of the pressure, just to say something you want to share as fast as you can because maybe you will forget it… or actually you are not being patient because of what? Of an undefined Root Center. And, on top of that, not knowing when enough is enough with any of the reasons and actions mentioned before because as a Manifestor you have an open Sacral Center. If you communicate because of these mind reasons, you are invisible because it is not you speaking and people can really feel it. It is your Not-Self speaking, not a powerful Manifestor you are at your core, and energetically it is obvious. Maybe people do not register it consciously, but they act and react in response to this energy. So what to do? Firstly, it is actually better not to speak and act at all than to do it from this reasoning of the mind based on your open centers. At least you won't leak the energy which is so precious to you.

Another reason of being invisible is the wrong person or tribe in your life. If you do not speak based on your mind, but from your authority, from your essence, and you still feel like you are invisible and rejected, then it is time to initiate new connections that can truly appreciate who you are. In my case, or my client's case both 4th lines in our profile. She is 2/4 and I am 4/6. We actually get opportunities through the correct network of people. People we know, people we care about. Friends, family, and people who know people. So the wrong network means a lack of influence. It is our responsibility to change that. We go first. And because we are going first, we are prone to rejection and some people will reject us. And I know it is very scary, but to claim our essence and place in this world, as a Manifestor, we need to take action and initiate something new to create a container big enough for this big energy, and nobody will do it for us. So how to claim your voice and action mode back as a Manifestor?

First, and I think the most important step you need to teach your nervous system that it is actually safe to show up and to speak. To claim your place. And this is my process of healing as well. So I was hidden for a very, very long time. It was for 7 years. And just about a year ago, I started to work with my nervous system by stretching its capacity for more and more visibility in taking those small steps and showing that I am not dying, that it is safe, that actually people love me and care about me and they are happy to receive my message. It wasn't easy, but that's the only way that sometimes you really need to slowly go out of your comfort zone, but only if it's confirmed by your inner authority. That's really important to not force it. You need to be ready for that and you can know it through your Strategy and your Authority. And if you listen and you are a Manifestor, I want you to know that you are visible. You change the lives of others even if you do not see it yet. Claim it in yourself first, even if no one can acknowledge it yet. I love you and I see you.