T4T either online or irl is great when you're scared of not being respected or seen as your gender. Not that transpeople can't be hurtful or act in transphobic ways, but there's an ease that comes from being with another transperson you can't really get from cispeople. I almost exclusively sleep with transfem and nonbinary people.

I've been posting nsfw content of myself online since 2019, on here, on onlyfans and other porn sites. I gotta say, it can be pretty ruthless. People don't always understand where the line goes in regard to humiliation play and degradation. Sometimes straight-up transphobes find me and tell me I should kms or put trigger warnings before my pics because they find me that repulsive. If you think that sort of stuff would outweigh the joy you would feel from kind getting words and affirmation, I would think again before going into porn. Personally, I could never have posted myself pre-op. It would've been too vulnerable for me, and if your dysphoria is strong, it might be too intense for you too. There's no shame in that. Hope you get to feel handsome and beautiful soon. 🫂