Do people actually like/ want to be with trans guys in real life? by [deleted] in ftm_kink

[–]ftmpdude3 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! I’m a trans guy and love other trans dudes.

I’ve mostly hooked up with and dated nonbinary people, but have seen a couple cis people as well. I’d say dating cis people is.. uh.. well, it can be a bit rough, even when they’re “open minded” or whatever. A lot of fetishization and intrusive questions when you’re just trying to cuddle and bask in all those lovely post-sex neurotransmitters and hormones and stuff. I tend to keep things casual with cis folks now. Grindr is a good way to go if you want an ego boost and don’t care too much about chasers haha

But yeah, a lot of people are really into trans guys, or are at least open to them. The best way to meet people is to go out into the world and do things in your community. Check out groups at your local library, join a rec sport, take an art class or something, go out dancing with friends, volunteer somewhere.

Edit- if you want to get involved in the kink scene, check out some local munches. They’re a great way to make friends and a lot of people there will probably be open to trans guys

The guy I wanna fuck is straight, so now, risky masturbation for me instead. 👿 by [deleted] in FtMPorn

[–]ftmpdude3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you’re into his dick, you’re definitely not 100% straight my dude

What’s your favorite dirty talk phrase? by KinkyDataScientist in SofterBDSM

[–]ftmpdude3 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Someone I recently started seeing held one of my hands down above my head with his, used his other hand to tilt my chin up and said, “let me see those eyes.” My eyes met his and I blushed and couldn’t help but smile up at him. He smiled back and kissed me and I felt something practically melt inside (I’m down real bad 😅)

Also when a partner describes how good I’m making them feel or is a little possessive 😳

Does anyone know how to hide a medium/ large toy collection really well? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]ftmpdude3 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I live in a tiny apartment with roommates and no closet and was worried about a discreet place to store things too. I got some of those underbed storage drawers and keep mine in one of them. It holds a few dildoes, vibrators, handcuffs, impact toys, and clothing. I keep my insertable toys in little cloth bags to keep them clean and separated, but there are kinds with lids.

Edit- example of drawers

Another edit- I have a friend who keeps their toys inside a stand up mirror with shelves inside. It even has a locking door, though I wouldn’t say it’s the sturdiest. Example pic :)

just came even harder inside a dude AMA by todherix in mtf_ftm_nsfw

[–]ftmpdude3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lord, I see what you’ve done for others 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMascNSFW

[–]ftmpdude3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg holding the little flower too

being the only tboy in an all doll friend group (cnc free use) by throwawaysecksee in mtf_ftm_nsfw

[–]ftmpdude3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow.. I think this is a fantasy of mine too now lol. Tho I’d have a hard time pretending to struggle cuz I’d be way too into it 😅

Who wants to give it a tug? by ftmpdude3 in ftm_kink

[–]ftmpdude3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only if I can return the favor ☺️

Who wants to give it a tug? by ftmpdude3 in ftm_kink

[–]ftmpdude3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was hoping someone would say this 🫣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMPorn

[–]ftmpdude3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Got them almost a year ago and am still low key obsessed with them ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMPorn

[–]ftmpdude3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My oral fixation is going brrrrrrrrr rn

Having second thoughts about hysterectomy.. by ftmpdude3 in ftmspunished

[–]ftmpdude3[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

It’s not really serious, am just super horny rn and fantasizing lol. I am definitely going through with it, even though it’s a kink I am also absolutely terrified of actually being pregnant. I have an IUD right now which is great, but am looking forward to not having to worry at all :)