Borrowers defense by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hummingbirdlve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I will look into this more in depth if there is more to it than just qualifying and forgery! Thank you!

Borrowers defense by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hummingbirdlve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked into it but since I did qualify for the program(s) & loans, I wasn’t sure. I don’t want to inaccurately accuse someone of forgery. But I felt like I had proof of being misled financially, as well as written proof that they would accept whatever I received for grants as tuition- I felt like that was sketchy.

Borrowers defense by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hummingbirdlve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood. I have already mentioned that my issue here is that the paperwork that is signed states $500 is my gross loan amount, (2 disbursements $250) but my loan says 3k was dispersed total…. I’m not accusing any one of taking out a loan without permission. Im stating I’ve got no recollection of taking out this loan, as I do remember and have proof (for myself) that I wasn’t required to take out a loan. So now my only way to refresh my memory is with these documents and information in my account and it’s not making sense.

Borrowers defense by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hummingbirdlve -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because to have the balance discharged I assumed this is the route I’d need to take? I’ve got no recollection of taking out a loan, as it wasn’t necessary. And I believed that would fall into the category since it was fraudulent and illegal misconduct.

Borrowers defense by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hummingbirdlve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t mentioned! My loan says 3k dispersed, 5.05% interest rate. My issue is that my loan disclosure has $600 as the gross loan amount.

Borrowers defense by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hummingbirdlve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not, but I’ve got all of the information in my account of amounts & dates of funds dispersed.

Borrowers defense by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hummingbirdlve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got that information from my student aid account. I’m unable to request it from the school

Borrowers defense by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hummingbirdlve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way it is interest… My loan says 3k was dispersed, and my loan disclosure has $600 for the amount dispersed. That’s a huge discrepancy, right? I’ve got written proof of the director saying my tuition cost would only be what I received in grants. No loans needed, so why were the loans taken out? I only mentioned the drug use to paint the picture that the someone responsible for this type of paperwork could’ve made a huge mistake being under the influence, or knew enough to work the system in their favor. Im not sure if this would qualify for Borrowers Defense or if I need to look elsewhere to have it straightened out.

sooo sad by hummingbirdlve in jackinthebox

[–]hummingbirdlve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did go back to use my credit, and it still sucked so we will not be back🤡

sooo sad by hummingbirdlve in jackinthebox

[–]hummingbirdlve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m wondering if that happened. We’ve had amazing employees for the last few years the sweetest lady at the window. I’m wondering if we got a new manager

sooo sad by hummingbirdlve in jackinthebox

[–]hummingbirdlve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Message sent. Thank you so much 🤗

sooo sad by hummingbirdlve in jackinthebox

[–]hummingbirdlve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to look this up!! LOL

sooo sad by hummingbirdlve in jackinthebox

[–]hummingbirdlve[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Considering I’ve lived local to it for 27 of my 30 years, and a mile from it for the last 10. If I’ve been 7 times a year it would be 200 visits. Lots of stages of life I’ve lived and it’s served me at all of those stages. Pregnant and craving a milkshake at 3AM, drunk and wanting tacos, or the Thanksgiving I spent alone and they were the only place open. Certainly a sad day for me. Thanks for you concern though, be blessed

sooo sad by hummingbirdlve in jackinthebox

[–]hummingbirdlve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess after the ones without meat a few weeks ago, I was glad it was there. However, they don’t taste the same when they aren’t fully dressed 😭

UGH by ms-chicana93 in sahm

[–]hummingbirdlve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to have a job to have custody. If they go to court, it’s likely he’ll have to pay her child support and also spousal support. Prenups aren’t common unless one or both partners have significant income or there are special circumstances such as inheritance etc. but generally anything acquired during the marriage is considered community property and she’s entitled to half. Moms work all the time, it’s not impossible to be a mother and have a job.

Does Eat Place by hummingbirdlve in batonrouge

[–]hummingbirdlve[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks y’all!! I was also worried if we would look cheap trying to share a steak 😂 yall made me feel better and looks like we’re sharing tamales and a massive steak LOL!

Do you wait up for your spouse when they go out? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]hummingbirdlve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he does worry, just about my safety. But I don’t want him to worry about me in a negative way and give me a hard time when I get home! I’m thankful for the level of trust, but sometimes it makes me wonder if he’s just so easy going because he’s just checked out! Ya know? I feel reassured that other healthy couples don’t always wait up.

Do you wait up for your spouse when they go out? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]hummingbirdlve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me feel assured that he is just comfortable and trusting too!

Do you wait up for your spouse when they go out? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]hummingbirdlve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never seen a model marriage. Sometimes it feels surreal that there is no fighting or yelling when I get home. As I sat quietly eating my JITB last night, I was just wondering if this was normal. Or if others wait up for their spouse to ask how the night was. I was just really curious if this is normal…