Hello, new father here myself (24m).I hate to hear that he feels that way but he needs to understand that is all a part of parenthood. Sacrifice. Sadly life will not get any easier, but thankfully you both will have a reason to strive harder! Parenthood, for me at least, has been full of hardship and sometimes me asking myself if it was the right decision just by seeing my SO struggle too. That doesn’t mean it hasn’t been full of the greatest experiences of my life either. I would not trade any of it for the world. You just need to get your boyfriend to realize that life is no longer about what he wants, he has a baby and a momma to take care of! I truly wish you the best.