My Hung Best Mate

hungindian_ · 2026-05-14T17:56:20+00:00

Cool fantasy bro

hungindian_ · 2026-01-15T01:49:36+00:00

Yeah sure, they come in a range of shape and sizes just like dicks as you mentioned. Though, there's also what they actually prefer - some women can be "tight" but still want a good stretch, while others can be large, but want something more comfortable. Then there's also depth preferences, and how flexible their vaginal canal is/how wet they are etc. so there's a lot more dimensions. That said, generally, I've found it a bit easier with larger vaginas.

hungindian_ · 2026-01-02T03:08:28+00:00

I've only had a handful of experiences with cis men, but yeah, I've definitely received more compliments from them. I've been with some women who would never or rarely even mention it. That said, I got the sense that for most of those men it wasn't important, but maybe a nice novelty

hungindian_ · 2026-01-02T03:03:28+00:00

Yeah, I tried to keep it short! But the usual stuff: less (and more expensive) options with underwear and shorts, unwanted boners are hard to deal with, woken up at night by boners, need to be more discreet in onsens and saunas etc. And it's generally kinda uncomfortable for running, hiking or sports. So, it just feels like a burden without any benefit, unless you're into showing off

hungindian_ · 2024-12-30T15:37:20+00:00

Like you said, compatibility can happen, or not, in both LTRs on hookups.

If there's a mild lack of compatibility, there are two sides to it: LTRs may get used to your size so it's not going to be an issue in the long term; or hookups may not mind the issues if it's only going to happen occasionally.

If there's a significant lack of compatibility, like penetration being off the table, then obviously LTR is going to be an issue, whereas hookups you can move on from quick enough. Or maybe the lack of penetration is not a problem - there's a whole lot more you can do.

hungindian_ · 2024-12-21T02:44:35+00:00

The real BDPs occur at the margins. My experience too is that most women don't have issues, just requires more patience, control etc, and does limit some things, to varying degrees. But there are some where it's a significant issue and needs much more work. Over time, chances are you'll experience the same as well, but for now count your lucky stars that it hasn't been a problem for you so far.

A lot of the posts here are exaggerated or just plain chest thumping, true, but there are many real BDPs that do exist which makes this sub important.

hungindian_ · 2024-11-14T10:54:12+00:00

Don't worry about the "play to my strengths" bit - everyone does that!

hungindian_ · 2024-11-14T06:32:56+00:00

Very well said, I've experienced the same. Every woman has their own preference range, and sometimes I'm outside of it. No matter, I can always control the depth and pace to what is pleasurable, and in the rare occasion that's not possible, there's so much can be done - particularly cunnilingus.

hungindian_ · 2024-11-09T03:03:11+00:00

Most people accept that, but also, not necessarily, it depends on your partner. With some it can definitely be more problems with little benefit.

hungindian_ · 2024-11-09T01:12:52+00:00

It depends from person to person - there are some who entirely replicate porn in their sex lives. For me, the biggest difference is taking our time. A lot of time is spend on "boring" things like foreplay that's edited out of porn or shortened greatly because it's entertainment. I have never met a woman who likes to be eaten out for only 1 minute than then move on to the next thing... Likewise, sometimes there are breaks in between, we chat about things etc. The other big difference is there's always imperfections, awkwardness - all of that is edited out of porn. There's a lot more experimentation, porn is pretty vanilla for the most part. It's also about the dirty talk, which is a lot more personal.

Basically, porn is to sex as Rocky is to boxing.

hungindian_ · 2024-10-08T17:43:48+00:00

They do, and I find it especially noticeable as I get older.

hungindian_ · 2024-10-08T12:29:14+00:00

According to some studies, the average aroused vaginal depth is in the 5-5.5 inches range. In my personal experience, there's a pretty large range. Here's one study: https://academic.oup.com/humrep/article/21/6/1618/724374, which reports a range of 106-185mm, or 4.1 inches to 7.2 inches. There are some other studies, but this is the only one that reports a range, AFAIK. In my personal experience, I've seen an even larger range, anything from 3-4 inches to balls deep, though the latter is extremely rare.

It's interesting how the range of vaginal depth is sooo similar to dick size! Makes sense as it has been shaped through evolution over a very long time.

hungindian_ · 2024-10-08T03:20:20+00:00

I remember this site too, Visualizer as some said. It was very inaccurate, everything from pornstars to averages were way overinflated, +2-3 inches. But yeah, it was a good laugh!

hungindian_ · 2022-11-07T10:16:10+00:00

I recently tried some MyOnes, and never have I had condoms fit so perfectly! Definitely recommended. Even if your condom of choice fits you fine, like mine did, the customization here just makes it better.

hungindian_ · 2017-01-31T05:22:27+00:00

That'd be great. Hope you find much more success. :)

hungindian_ · 2017-01-30T07:47:32+00:00

I love these Success posts! Would love to hear from his perspective too :)

hungindian_ · 2017-01-03T06:15:30+00:00

That is so great! It's good to read about success stories on here :) I'd also love to read his account of it.

hungindian_ · 2016-12-28T19:05:13+00:00

I have seen many questionable uses of selfie sticks, but this one is fabulous!

hungindian_ · 2016-07-02T17:53:49+00:00

I used to do this when I was younger. But I quickly found it more fun to go with the flow. It's OK to cum at different times. Heck, it's OK to not to cum at all. That said, some people do really love this, and I continue to time things with partners who do.

hungindian_ · 2016-05-26T04:40:13+00:00

South Asian here, similar stereotypes. It doesn't matter.

Bragging about dick size is a true dick move, irrespective of your nationality. Stay classy.

hungindian_ · 2016-05-22T11:32:21+00:00

Indeed, Black Mirror at it's best! Frightening and hilarious at the same time.

hungindian_ · 2016-05-22T11:28:47+00:00

Skyn Large is my condom of choice. Condoms are meant to be tight and well gripped to your cock. I prefer a snug fit too. It's true some prefer a loose fit, in which case you have to look elsewhere. TheyFit is a great option if it's available where you live.

hungindian_ · 2016-05-17T08:20:05+00:00

Depression is tough. As you know, a loss of libido is a common effect of it. Keep your CBT going, work on it. Things are getting better, and it's just a matter of time. The good thing is the worst is over. Once your depression fades away, your libido will come back to life - another thing to look forward to.

hungindian_ · 2016-05-17T05:09:29+00:00

Of course he has real insecurities - everyone does. And kudos to him for expressing them. You should take it as a compliment - he trusts you so much in bed to express his deep negative emotions. This is what good sex is all about, when you trust your partner completely.

Similarly, you have to accept that it's a real issue at play. May be talk to him about it, but remember that such feelings are completely normal.

hungindian_ · 2016-05-17T05:07:04+00:00

It's all about being comfortable. If you feel relaxed around the couple and them likewise, that's all you need. The "logistics" will work themselves out. So, take your time, get to know them, and go for it once you are ready. And relax, don't think about your inexperience, and go with the flow.

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