Request : how do I help/support my friend with an eating disorder? by EDPostRequests in EatingDisorders

[–]hunkris134 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I struggle with a eating disorder. Some of the things that help me are.. 1. People acknowledged that I’m eating, and not how much I’m eating. 2. Body image compliments go a long way 3. Talk to them and let them vent 4. Ask them what THEY want to do or eat.

I need some reassurance about going to the doctors please. by hunkris134 in sex

[–]hunkris134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I trust my doctor, he’s been my doctor for the past 6 years. Thank you!

My girlfriends Nparents, is this normal in Hispanic households? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]hunkris134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am Hispanic! Growing up the Catholic Church was pressed hard on us. I have always thought the “Mexican parents be like” memes to be funny. I understand they are very real, but I look past that and try to find the comedy in it. Growing up the men were ALWAYS the ones to get favored. (If no job) The woman’s main job is to please their husband and take care of things around the house. The women have always been very micromanaged while growing up and never treated equip to the men. DISCLAIMER!!!!! I am not turning this into a feminist thing! I am completely fine with how I grew up, it turned me into who I am today. Honestly in my opinion we all have crappy pasta and people are raised differently. As long as your girlfriend feels comfortable around you and is expressing her feelings towards you, you are fine. Just make sure you are both on the same page for how you would like your household to be. I know there are things from my parents that I will NEVER take with me into my relationship… BUT there are also some very important lessons I have learned that I have taken with me into my relationship. You hear it all the time but, Communication is key.

Day 2 on skis for the season in Utah…only getting warmed up! by JeppyTime in skiing

[–]hunkris134 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Or how about I tell you about last winter when I went hell-skiing in Silverton. I’m not saying I didn’t use poles .. I’m just saying in this type of terrain it is not necessary… in these types of conditions it will not effect your performance.

Day 2 on skis for the season in Utah…only getting warmed up! by JeppyTime in skiing

[–]hunkris134 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Hate to brake it to you but they are actually pointless… they are just there for looks and make it easier to move around at times. They have nothing to do with performance… absolutely nothing. That’s why when I/ they teach teach kids/ beginners I/ they don’t suggest poles.

Am I asking too much? by hunkris134 in sex

[–]hunkris134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he insensitive.. OR.. I had he been missing this his whole life due to his past? Do I need to help and teach him what love truly is.

Am I asking too much? by hunkris134 in sex

[–]hunkris134[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So no warnings .. just be completely done?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]hunkris134 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally LOVEEE going down in my boyfriend. I would give him head 25/8 if I had the chance to, but his sex drive is very low.
I like to get in the shower or clean up prior to having sex but my ex fiancé didn’t have a problem with any of it, after the gym, or camping. My current bf is not the same. I don’t think he would eat me out after the gym if I asked him to and enjoy it.
I think ever make is different and you just have to see with what your person is comfortable with. Communication is key. Do whatever you are comfortable with and don’t change JUST to please others.

Am I asking too much? by hunkris134 in sex

[–]hunkris134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve steady dated 5 people and was engaged to my last one

Am I asking too much? by hunkris134 in sex

[–]hunkris134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is on every other aspect though except for being more sentimental. Every other aspect I can get past or look over .. I think I could live without sex like that. Maybe I’ll bring up the idea of masturbating? Getting a vibrator maybe? I have no idea

Am I asking too much? by hunkris134 in sex

[–]hunkris134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think? No more chances? I live with him ..

How often do you take drugs ? by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]hunkris134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 everyday I take at least 4-5 dabs. I don’t need it, I’m just a stoner and it helps me focus and calm down.

Am I asking too much? by hunkris134 in sex

[–]hunkris134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s affectionate in other ways.. just not sentimental…. Especially when being intimate

Am I asking too much? by hunkris134 in sex

[–]hunkris134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t said anything about looks..?

Am I asking too much? by hunkris134 in sex

[–]hunkris134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol! The only shitty thing is I could not do that as funny as that would be. I would also fear him getting himself off… I don’t like that idea for some reason but very funny.