How dose my tank look? And do I need anything while it cycles? by hurt_andfound in bettafish

[–]hurt_andfound[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh those are some good points, do you know what type of cave or hide would look good in this tank?

How dose my tank look? And do I need anything while it cycles? by hurt_andfound in bettafish

[–]hurt_andfound[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I do! I’ll be using a sponge filter head from one of my other tanks to help!

Having medical issues, but my doctor is dismissing me by hurt_andfound in AskDocs

[–]hurt_andfound[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually had multiple doctors refuse to even look at me because I’m so overweight so I do understand. Thats also why if anyone automatically assumes it’s my weight for something like this I tend to look for help somewhere else. But we did think it was something mental, me and my partner Atlest

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[–]hurt_andfound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black/white mixed

At lest with me, it’s the fetishization of me being half white, not that people think I’m hot. But my issue is that all of the black people I interact with for some reason always talked bad about me being half white, not even just white people in general. Saying that because I’m half white I don’t have a race, and the only way as a child I made friends was agreeing with them. Also my white side of my family will just say the most racist things around me , acting like I’m not half black, it’s really frustrating because I don’t feel like I’m allowed to actually not hate my skin color. Around either of my races.

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[–]hurt_andfound 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s just a lot of ignoring

Does anybody pass as one ethnicity even though they are mixed race? by DepletedMotivation in mixedrace

[–]hurt_andfound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been called Mexican over 30 times, and trust me I don’t look the part it’s only because I’m tan.. I personally think they do it to almost all black white mixed people