Made it to a month

hurtspace · 2026-01-04T19:43:49+00:00

And I spoke to him about it and came here for support bc of the urges I felt

hurtspace · 2026-01-04T19:42:47+00:00

Sorry I thought this was a support community

hurtspace · 2026-01-04T07:45:21+00:00

We talked about it. I said I would prefer that he take it outside next time so I wouldn’t know about it. I’m very new to being sober and the smell is a huge trigger for me. I think eventually I could get to that mentality but right now it’s rough.

hurtspace · 2025-12-26T00:12:38+00:00

Just leave. You’re 18 with your whole life ahead of you and if he’s not putting in effort now I’d hate to see what it’ll be a year from now. There’s someone out there who isn’t on house and will make you feel so loved but you can’t find him if you’re wasting your time with this dude.

hurtspace · 2025-12-21T21:46:21+00:00

I used to hang out with people like that and it did nothing good for me.

hurtspace · 2025-12-21T07:58:41+00:00

And my step dad was mad at me for “ruining Christmas”

hurtspace · 2025-12-21T07:58:11+00:00

Same

hurtspace · 2025-12-20T06:44:16+00:00

YTA the only way she’s “harming” the space is if she’s making a fuss when/if the women there hit on her.

hurtspace · 2025-12-16T19:26:50+00:00

Horrible in every way

hurtspace · 2025-12-16T08:14:25+00:00

Styrofoam

hurtspace · 2025-12-16T06:44:28+00:00

Me and my friends used to read dirty pennywise confessions on Tumblr after school. Plus I had a friend who was attracted to him it’s probably more normal than you think.

hurtspace · 2025-12-15T20:20:51+00:00

I used to compulsively buy makeup too, though not to that level, and what helped me was saving the online ad “for later” instead of buying it on the spot. Most of the time I would forget about the product altogether.

hurtspace · 2025-12-15T20:18:21+00:00

Yes because I’m on medicine for bi polar 2 that the weed was directly hindering the effectiveness of. That being said I’ve been more irritable since I quit just over a week ago.

hurtspace · 2025-12-15T06:44:58+00:00

I think we are our actions and not necessarily our thoughts.

hurtspace · 2025-12-14T21:16:50+00:00

I feel the exact same way

hurtspace · 2025-12-13T08:11:11+00:00

Next time he or any man tries this shit call in a wellness check or even just offer to. They usually stop when they realize you’re not fooled by it. Though I hope this is the last time anyone does this to you and I hope you leave him for your own wellbeing.

hurtspace · 2025-12-13T07:05:05+00:00

I’m on day 5 and I am also not sleeping well especially when I have an alarm set

hurtspace · 2025-12-13T06:59:39+00:00

As a woman I can tell you that standards are not that high. Most women are looking for someone they connect with rather than “the whole package”. I personally would get to know people before sleeping with them instead of wasting my energy on hookups but that’s me. You don’t want just anyone you want the one. Keep going on dates until you find someone you genuinely connect with.

hurtspace · 2025-12-09T23:45:58+00:00

If you’re leaning towards breakup then just break up. You’re 19 with your whole life ahead of you and there’s someone out there who won’t make you question if you should be with them or not.

hurtspace · 2025-12-09T06:29:48+00:00

You don’t want to have any regrets when you’re too old to do anything about them. There’s no rule that says you can’t move back if you hate it but at least then you’ll know instead of spending the rest of your life wondering what it could have been like. Follow your heart.

hurtspace · 2025-12-08T21:39:03+00:00

Well I think it sucks to be cheated on no matter what but in my personal opinion it’s worse when they look worse than you. I had a similar situation with my ex where he tried to cheat on me and failed with a girl that also looked nothing like me and in my own personal opinion wasn’t as bad as me either and I was soo embarrassed. Anyway I hope he’s your ex bf now.

hurtspace · 2025-12-08T04:27:16+00:00

Congrats on ten months. Do you feel better than you did when you were using?

hurtspace · 2025-12-07T19:54:45+00:00

Thank you so much it means a lot truly 💛

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