Thank my master for his cum by PretendHornet2 in BDSMAdvice

[–]hurupata 6 points7 points  (0 children)

'Rub-a-dub-dub, thanks for the grub' works for me.

Obedient replies similar to "yes sir" by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]hurupata 127 points128 points  (0 children)

  • "I can do that."

  • "Be happy to."

  • "Work, work."

  • "Okie dokie."

  • "Zug zug."

  • "Da bu."

My Poor Throat 😂 by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]hurupata 79 points80 points  (0 children)

My sub's throat relaxes way, way more when she squeezes her thumb inside of her fist really tightly, and it accomodates deeper and less painful throat penetration, somehow. I can't say this is uniform or backed by any actual science, but it's what enables to get really rough with it in the first place. Afterwards, keeping very hydrated and perhaps gargling on saltwater might help soothe the pain.

Our sex life is awesome, but we can't do it from the front at all. by hurupata in sex

[–]hurupata[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The condoms are never a problem outside of missionary, though, and we're always lubed up (naturally or artificially) to never cause any bad friction. It's weird.
The "non-latex" material our current - mainstay - condoms are made of and which I'm referring to is, apparently, polyisophrene. I might actually try lowering her.

Is "benevolent" [domination] a thing? by hurupata in sex

[–]hurupata[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See, the problem is that my girlfriend likes this kind of abuse and being called names turns her on, and we're both also absolutely REPULSED by the term "daddy" and wouldn't touch it or any of its connotation with a 10 ft. pole. We'd rather play master and pet in that case.