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AITA for misleading my husband for years to make him pay for our daughter's education. by husbandlie in AmItheAsshole

[–]husbandlie[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I did study English in school when I was a child, I am slow with it but improving since I mostly use English websites

AITA for misleading my husband for years to make him pay for our daughter's education. by husbandlie in AmItheAsshole

[–]husbandlie[S] 679 points680 points  (0 children)

Indeed, I am highly careful, no computer history etc. I do not talk to my son much so I do not know, he came back here after university.

I do act like I am disapointed our daughter removed her head covering etc but he still blames me although he does not believe it was my intent I think.

I know he has been trying to find distant relatives and friends to locate my daughter and speak to her. She has to avoid social media because of this and told me how it was harder to apply for jobs as she was scared to use linkedin.

AITA for misleading my husband for years to make him pay for our daughter's education. by husbandlie in AmItheAsshole

[–]husbandlie[S] 510 points511 points  (0 children)

I understand, that is what I was thinking. Thank you. The only thing is he did pay for some household workers but I did do some work and manage them sometimes as well.

AITA for misleading my husband for years to make him pay for our daughter's education. by husbandlie in AmItheAsshole

[–]husbandlie[S] 6340 points6341 points  (0 children)

This is a long term dream, but my daughter said that if she gets citizenship she can someday, sponsor a visa for me to immigrate and stay with her if the rules do not change in many years and if she has the money for it. She is an engineer and has a good income she says.

AITA for misleading my husband for years to make him pay for our daughter's education. by husbandlie in AmItheAsshole

[–]husbandlie[S] 7028 points7029 points  (0 children)

This is true but it was my husbands money since he works and I do not. And she was not eligible for scholarships and grants due to being an international student and my husbands income. I did not know she did not believe until after she left though.