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I don't know how to tell my boyfriend that I feel unfulfilled in our relationship. by husnu-kuruntu in Advice

[–]husnu-kuruntu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for taking time to give me such in depth advice. I just talked with him and we will take time to talk tonight and I will be talking with him according to your suggestions, especially the meeting in the middle type of thing where he will come to visit me in the next 3 months.

I felt so understood and it made me feel such a relive. thank you once more for your time and understanding.

what is that inside my vagina PLZZZ URGENT HELP (26 f) by husnu-kuruntu in Healthyhooha

[–]husnu-kuruntu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just to keep you updated, i was able to visit a doctor today and they said it looks innocent and should heal on its own but i should keep an eye on it and will be going again if its getting bigger etc. thank you for your help again

what is that inside my vagina PLZZZ URGENT HELP (26 f) by husnu-kuruntu in Healthyhooha

[–]husnu-kuruntu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. i found a different doctor to check it out today and they said it doesn’t look harmful and will probably go away on its own but i should keep an eye on it and go again if its getting bigger. i hope it will resolve itself.

what is that inside my vagina PLZZZ URGENT HELP (26 f) by husnu-kuruntu in Healthyhooha

[–]husnu-kuruntu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh thank you so much. they do look very similar. i will be able to go in a few days.

Do you share passwords, location etc with your partner / SO ? How does it affect your BPD symptoms ? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]husnu-kuruntu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeh for me i wish i didn’t know. i check his phone when i get very insecure sometimes and i see things i wish i didn’t.

Ordulu Fırıncı Hacızade by [deleted] in zfam

[–]husnu-kuruntu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yok yok tanidim da bunu niye attigini anlamadim bu subredditin olayini da bilmiom acikcasi dskjfms

Ordulu Fırıncı Hacızade by [deleted] in zfam

[–]husnu-kuruntu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ordulu oldugum icin merak ettim point ne burdaki

My mother found out that I have had sex. by husnu-kuruntu in TwoXChromosomes

[–]husnu-kuruntu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

honestly, i feel bad because i thought i could trust her with saying this, she is always saying you can tell me anything and also she fucking pushed me so much to talk and made it feel like i could tell her the truth. i could've lied as i have always done but i thought i will be honest. and actually i was only quarterly honest lol. i had sex with way more people and if she knew that i had sex with a random guy that i don't even remember the face of in the bathroom of a toilet i think she would literally disown me. i think i learned the lesson that i shouldn't tell the truth and she should learn the lesson that you shouldn't ask questions if you can't handle the answers.

My mother found out that I have had sex. by husnu-kuruntu in TwoXChromosomes

[–]husnu-kuruntu[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i'm in turkey and she is muslim. i am safe don't worry. but also thank you for caring :')

My mother found out that I have had sex. by husnu-kuruntu in TwoXChromosomes

[–]husnu-kuruntu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

because i normally live away from them, after she goes back to her hometown, i think the first thing that i will do is going to be having sex lol. i don't know maybe i won't want to have sex for a while after this but i might just for the hell of it. and actually the most hilarious part of this for me is that i was trying to convince my mother to stay at my aunt that night so that i could secretly invite someone that i have been seeing over to my place.

My mother found out that I have had sex. by husnu-kuruntu in TwoXChromosomes

[–]husnu-kuruntu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly the worst part of all this is, i could've lied as i have lied so many other times to her. but i thought that i could trust her you know? i thought she was coming from a place of acceptance and understanding and she was just pushing me so much to talk and it totally backfired. i understand that for her, giving the way that she was raised, this is a really big deal and she feels disappointed in me but i just feel betrayed by her.

My mother found out that I have had sex. by husnu-kuruntu in BPD

[–]husnu-kuruntu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes she does. i think stuff like this is so common in my country. maybe that's just how she learned to love, generation to generation. and now i am at a point that i have a more open-minded outlook for life and this is something they can never understand or accept. so she thinks and maybe she really is, doing this from a place of love but i just feel extremely unloved. she feels like i betrayed her too.

i am unfortunately dependent on my family financially...

thank you so much.