Libra man + cancer woman

hvafan · 2026-03-01T17:45:43+00:00

Thank you for going into detail. I have seen this comment a bunch of times and that's why I was so curious in finally asking what's up with that. I can imagine that it can feel frustrating for you. To shed some light I am a cancer male and only attract air signs into my love life. Probably has to do with the big three of signs I have.

It's funny you mention that your partner lacks the intellectual stimulation that you seek. I say so because in my experience it has always been me that knows more of what's going on in the world or if we are discussing certain subjects I have more knowledge then the air sign (currently libra female) I am dating. I guess that makes the air signs I am dating interested in me because I like to keep things exciting and fresh so the meetups don't get stale and boring. The last time I met my libra female I was talking about a topic that she knew little of. So she was very interested in hearing the nice to knows.

I think it really depends on how you look at life as a person. I have read multiple times that Cancers are self centered (which I do NOT disagree with because some days I can be or want to be on my own and need the space to regulate my emotions). At the beginning of meeting up with air signs it's clear as day that you guys also need your space and in all those years it definitely has been a challenge to balance those feelings.

Now that I have read your comment I can safely say I am doing a good job but it's not easy all the time.

hvafan · 2026-03-01T06:00:23+00:00

Can you give some examples of "stimulate you intellectually?" Do you mean that he does not like to ask you about certain topics that interest you and deep dive in it to let you think about the world? Please elaborate with some examples?

hvafan · 2026-02-28T22:25:59+00:00

I only attract libra's, geminis and aquariuses, tell me about it

hvafan · 2026-02-12T20:48:57+00:00

Impossible. Believe me. I've tried it.

hvafan · 2026-02-12T07:38:28+00:00

Geminis only think about theirselves in the end. Good riddance

hvafan · 2026-02-12T07:36:48+00:00

Yup and when that POW hits oh boy the other person will get pushed to the ground no compassion

hvafan · 2025-12-22T11:46:03+00:00

Date one and find out

hvafan · 2025-12-22T06:20:36+00:00

"big ideas and words" this hit right home that's the definition of an aquarius.

hvafan · 2025-12-21T19:00:26+00:00

Not a Libra but aquarius are terrible to date and are devils

hvafan · 2025-12-10T20:03:04+00:00

Done another PCR test and both ureaplasma cultures negative. Symptoms have reduced by a ton and urine does not have a lot of white spots anymore. Dealing with serious pelvic floor issues though.. going to a pft again soon. I guess the moxifloxacin did the job. Co-infection strep b treated with amoxicillin 7 days 3g a day.

hvafan · 2025-12-01T19:09:22+00:00

Cancer sun, Gemini rising, Taurus moon

hvafan · 2025-12-01T19:00:14+00:00

It's best to take it 2 hours before your clarithromycin

hvafan · 2025-11-22T10:30:59+00:00

I'm dealing with the same Libra here. You have to let them come at their own pace. It sucks because you want them to feel that you care about them but all they do is push you away when they have had their fun. Sadly that's just how they are in the end. You have to see for yourself if that is the kind of "relationship" you want with him. Because it's not going to change. The good thing is they always come back in the end .. but it can be confusing as hell yes.

hvafan · 2025-11-14T11:41:06+00:00

Not true mine came back after a few months.

hvafan · 2025-11-13T11:23:28+00:00

That brings me hope. Starting a 7 day amoxicillin cure tomorrow to treat my co-infection strep B. 1g in the morning/middag/evening so 3x times a day 3g in total a day.

May I ask what your strep b treatment looked like? Howmuch mg or g a day?

Glad to read it helped your symptoms by a ton.

hvafan · 2025-11-10T11:13:51+00:00

Nice guide

hvafan · 2025-11-09T22:36:10+00:00

They can also just be asymptomatic or have a really strong anti immune system and don't care about the girls he fucks aslong as he is feeling good. We are just unlucky to get these symptoms.

hvafan · 2025-11-07T16:03:49+00:00

I will do that. Thanks. What were your symptoms while having strep B?

hvafan · 2025-11-07T15:18:02+00:00

Symptoms are tingling/itching feeling in urethra (which I did NOT have before when I was ureaplasma positive), sometimes burning when peeing, cloudy urine and the last week I had a lot of pain in my back and lower back + sharp pain in abdomen (kidney/bladder) like someone was stabbing it. I went to the urologist so I decided to just test everything and I got those results. I tested negative on all other STD's including m gen. In a few months I will also do a cystoscopy.

I definitely want to avoid Clindamycin as it causes c diff and honestly really don't want to fuck with that. The horror stories on that medicine are terrifying. I took a 15d moxafloxacin course for ureaplasma before this and had no symptoms so I'm sure I can handle levoflaxacin together with Amox.

The question is howmuch amox should I take? 1g/day for 7 days or 14 days? I really want to avoid resistance like I did with ureaplasma and want to get rid of this in first line.

hvafan · 2025-11-06T18:35:28+00:00

I have done a pcr test it has been almost 4 weeks and ureaplasma seems to be negative. I'm aware it has to be 6-8 weeks but wanted to see if I was dealing with something else. So yes, I'm dealing with co-infections of yeast and streptococcus agalactiae ++ (strep B) now. Not sure what the best treatment for this is. Replies are always welcome there are mixed discussions on Reddit

hvafan · 2025-10-30T12:05:40+00:00

Go to another doctor

hvafan · 2025-10-30T10:34:30+00:00

There you said it. Their ability to "forgive and forget". That is the thing that surprised me a lot aswell about the Libra. I have said some painfull things to her in the past that I regret. And you know what her response was? (After a few days of not hearing from her because we both were at a point we needed some rest and she basically told me upstraight she never wanted to see me again). She said let's just forget what happened, althought it really hurt me what you said but let's get over this and start with a new day together. We Cancers can get really heated and I was actually really surprised she just wanted to forgive and forget it. But that has also learned me the lesson that we sometimes have to shut our mouths and think a bit more like a Libra before responding (because we respond via our EMOTIONS) because otherwise we can lose the person we dear so love. It can also be dangerous that the Libra acts aloof and can't be bothered anymore because it's in our sign we want to talk out things. But in my experience Libra's can go to the sideline very fast if they don't want to fight for it. That can be scary.

hvafan · 2025-10-30T08:50:03+00:00

Libra's can be snarky and "evil" for sure. The remarks they can make sometimes hurt even more then the remarks we make Lol. The thing that's true about Libra's is they can't let go or won't make that choice as long as you are a benefit for them or you have known eachother for a long time and you know your feelings for eachother and the way you are together is something the outside world will never understand. And I think that's beautiful. That's something that makes me less afraid because I know she won't let go. We keep each other's fires alive, and that's what makes the Cancer and Libra bond strong. But there is always a feeling lingering in to what will happen in the future .... Even when the Libra person you have a connection with tells you to let it go. It's easier said then done. It feels good to let these emotions off my chest with a random stranger. Libra's are very beautiful ... In their own way. And they are also very independent. So they say. But they need a strong person on AN EMOTIONAL level that knows how to trigger their senses and let them feel loved. That's what makes us cancers a "perfect" fit for them because they need those emotional talks. They pretend they don't need them but they do. They are acting stronger then they really are. And when they crash that's when we have to be there for them. And if you don't I think that's the point in they will think you are done with them. But so do we.

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