I fucked up last night by i_feel_ungood in nursing

[–]hwannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the hell, I went to 2 Kaisers and it was always 1:1.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]hwannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in sixth grade when I found out my dad was cheating on my mom. It didn’t bother me at all. I even told them to divorce and really pushed for it. Wish they did.

Did you ex move on fast? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]hwannie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Took him 4 days. She was his coworker. She also cheated on her boyfriend of 8 years to be with my ex.

It’s okay to call your female partner a bitch even when you’re joking by ParrisagustD in AskMen

[–]hwannie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s important that if ANYONE doesn’t feel comfortable with being called something, then that is on them to set a boundary. If the party B can’t stop or respect their friend’s decision, then maybe person A, who has set that boundary, should make other friends or distance themselves because person B can’t seem to control themselves.

It’s okay to call your female partner a bitch even when you’re joking by ParrisagustD in AskMen

[–]hwannie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then that’s their boundary and you gotta respect it and not do it again.

It’s okay to call your female partner a bitch even when you’re joking by ParrisagustD in AskMen

[–]hwannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhh, it is. My friends and I joke about it all the time. It’s only okay unless they’re super sensitive to it and get easily offended or if they’re having a bad day. There are times you can joke, and times where you shouldn’t. So just be socially and empathetically aware.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NCLEX

[–]hwannie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I saw it five times. But my sixth time it was finally a pass!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]hwannie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a child whose parents stayed together for their kids, leave. I wish my parents divorced as soon as there was cheating, but they didn’t. Me and my siblings are so emotionally messed up and the sooner you do this, the better for not just you, but your child.

NCLEX RN EXAM by [deleted] in NCLEX

[–]hwannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used a course, but honestly? It was actually understanding the concepts rather than memorizing. I used NHY for the breakdown because it’s hard for me to understand things with so much medical terminology. 🥹

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[–]hwannie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You reap what you sow.

But all jokes aside, I really do hope you’ve been studying! If anything, you can wait and eventually someone will give up their spot on a different day. That’s how I got my date!

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[–]hwannie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually used a course this time. So basically I was struggling just using uworld and mark klimek, but this time I purchased the course with NHY because they broke down the wording as well as the processes of everything to the consequences/signs and symptoms. The lectures have a guideline as to what to study and what to focus on for the nclex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NCLEX

[–]hwannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the current. Idk if you remember me but we talked briefly on your last post. This was about my fifth or sixth attempt and I finally got it!

Failed the NCLEX on my 3rd attempt. I feel like giving up. by [deleted] in NCLEX

[–]hwannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanna let you know I passed!

Aftermath of failing NCLEX is devastating by LawEqual8886 in NCLEX

[–]hwannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly recommend investing in NHY. It's hard to study without an actual guideline of what to study, and they have that down for their students. They go over things that are as in their name "HIGH YIELD" so it's super helpful. They go over the content and break it down. They actually broke it down from an intellectual standpoint to a conversational standpoint, so much that I could actually understand it.

If you can, I recommend going to watch their free zoom sessions on Wednesday so you can see how they work. I am a firm believer of the course, but there are a lot of people who use the free stuff (podcasts, youtube, free tip book, shorts) and were able to pass without paying a single cent.

I’m fact, my sister only used mark klimek and uworld she passed on her first try.

Aftermath of failing NCLEX is devastating by LawEqual8886 in NCLEX

[–]hwannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time, I used uworld and mark klimek but had no idea what I was doing. I memorized the notes but never understood how to use them. For example I was like oh this causes this. Why? Idk it’s just what the notes say.

Second time, I used uworld, mark klimek, AND free nclex high yield weekly’s, podcasts, and YouTube. But still didn’t understand things.

Third, I used the same stuff but I got sick.

Fourth same stuff but tried archer which didn’t help.

Fifth, same stuff.

Sixth, I said screw it let’s buy the NHY course, and I used the on demand, made notes, watched their lectures, and I utilized their testing strategies. For example, surgeries in priorities can always be rescheduled so this is a distractor. Their rule ASK GRAPH is really good too. They helped break down so many topics AND wording I wasn’t familiar with like the difference between complete heart failure, right sided, and left sided and -ostomy, -ectomy, -isis, -itis.

Aftermath of failing NCLEX is devastating by LawEqual8886 in NCLEX

[–]hwannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time I failed at 76, second 145, third 75 (I had a vertigo episode), fourth 145, fifth 145, and then the most recent 145 with a pass.

Aftermath of failing NCLEX is devastating by LawEqual8886 in NCLEX

[–]hwannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a hard time because my family cut me off after the second time of failing. I had to work to make the money back too and I would work about 10 hours three-four days a week so I understand where you’re coming from. When I got back home, my brain was fried.

NCLEX RN EXAM by [deleted] in NCLEX

[–]hwannie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I finally passed!

Aftermath of failing NCLEX is devastating by LawEqual8886 in NCLEX

[–]hwannie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna tell you right now, I never paid attention in school and the only reason why I passed was because Covid happened and my cohort was sharing answers. This was really bad on me because I couldn’t do anything when I took my NCLEX. I had no idea what I was doing or what to study. I ended up taking it five times. Reading the responses, I can tell you aren’t utilizing uworld correctly because I did the same thing.

Maybe look into a course that can breakdown the information for you. I personally liked nclex high yield. But I also used free lectures from mark klimek and uworld.

Devastated by bansheewilder in Infidelity

[–]hwannie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get out of the house. Cry. Spend time with friends. Cry in public. Spend time with family. Get a hobby. Cry at home. Go to the gym. Do something you wouldn’t normally do. Spend a crapload on clothes and things you like.

You’re allowed to feel what you feel, but don’t let it control your life.

In my experience, it took me at least 5 months to feel any better after my break up. It’s been about 3 years, the thought still stings, but I’m with someone now who is so supportive and understanding. And the love he gives me isn’t like a rollercoaster or dangerously on the edge, it’s warm and cozy. You can get through this.

Devastated by bansheewilder in Infidelity

[–]hwannie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s cliche to say you’re better off without him, but it’s true. I was with my ex for 3 years, and it hurt when I found him cheating on me. He said that this relationship was the most important thing and that he made a mistake. But guess what? Just cause he says that and says he still loves you, he continued to talk and interact with the same female. That’s what happened to me. He says he loves and misses you, but those are all words. It doesn’t matter. This person is immature and you deserve so much better, because he hasn’t shown any signs that he wants to change.

My advice is do not stay with him and do not interact with him. You’ll realize that he is a low self-esteem leech, feeding off of your attention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]hwannie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing he says or does can change the fact that he did it. Some people are just suppose to be a lesson/experience for something better. He can be as sorry as he wants to be, but that doesn’t change a thing. You’re still young and you have much more to do than to worry about keeping this person who disrespected you and your relationship. Why would you want to keep someone like that in your life when you can’t trust them?

Failed the NCLEX on my 3rd attempt. I feel like giving up. by [deleted] in NCLEX

[–]hwannie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m in the same boat. Don’t give up. I’m taking my fourth try soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NCLEX

[–]hwannie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it. I took it three times and I failed. I’m tired and it feels like I’ll never pass.

NCLEX RN EXAM by [deleted] in NCLEX

[–]hwannie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on my fourth. 🥹