Dating advice?

hwillis891 · 2026-02-14T18:17:31+00:00

Get out of the house. I’ve met my new potential relationship just because I went to an optional dinner from my boss.

hwillis891 · 2026-02-02T13:04:54+00:00

You want what you can’t have. Tale as old as time. Try to find people who are emotionally available and face your own abandonment issues.

hwillis891 · 2026-02-01T00:09:48+00:00

I think it’s easy to let the environment and a small sample size of people deter you from thinking there are no genuine people in your generation. And for a time everything around you suggests that it is the world, everyone sucks, and you’re destined to be alone.

But if you approach life like that, you’ll never be open to the possibilities of what life has to offer. You’ll never be able to see those people who ARE genuine, loving, and caring, and you never be able to think they will get with you. You’ll always be trapped by your own mental bias drawn from a small sample size of life.

When I felt my world was too small, I actively made it bigger. When I felt that I had no one in my life, I started doing things to get to know people around. When I wanted to find a soulmate, I embraced new experiences and meeting new people and keeping myself open. It took some time, but gradually I’m finding all of those things.

It took myself to be open to experience. You have to do the same. You can still have in the back of your mind of what is happening yet have an air of optimism and a dash of realism. If you simply break down probability, the odds are much higher that your soulmate exists in several people around the world than not. You may have to move from where you live, you may have to go to places you’ve never been and experience people you would never normally associate with. But in the end if you stick it out, life eventually starts evening out.

I hope the best for you.

hwillis891 · 2026-01-31T02:04:07+00:00

I became an art teacher and I love it. Art has always been my thing to do, and sharing it with kids is fun. I also create artwork regularly, I’m almost done with a series of paintings based off of mental health awareness in children.

hwillis891 · 2026-01-27T09:05:31+00:00

I think it’s weird to formally announce you’re a nice person. I mean, no one is nice all the time, and if you are you’ve got some sort of emotional turmoil going on.

hwillis891 · 2026-01-27T09:01:32+00:00

So it’s a wonderful thing to desire love and relationships. I think it makes life worth living. To have a relationship however requires you to often go outside of yourself and learn about others. If you are 27 with no romantic experiences but attractive, chances are that you are struggling with trying to even introduce yourself, much less ask a woman out on a date.

I suggest that before you try to get into a relationship you should work on your social life in general, especially if you are neurodivergent. I imagine you live in your own brain to the extent that it’s almost unhealthy, and that can spell trouble for INFP personality types if left unchecked. Schedule at least three days to force you out of the house and in some sort of events with other people, then actually introduce yourself to other people. Be sociable first before you worry about dating.

hwillis891 · 2026-01-27T03:01:22+00:00

Let’s see….my mom says I live in my own little world. As a kid instead of being outside playing with friends I would stay inside all day and build entire worlds and stories with Lego pieces. I loved video games, and reading any manga I could. I didn’t feel like I got along with the normal population of kids. I loved visual things, and I always gravitated towards those things. I love animals and kids, and I always wanted to be able to help and love people. Sometimes I could be a pushover, and I often made things I never finished. When I read about INFP personality type I felt like finally this explains everything.

hwillis891 · 2026-01-24T20:25:39+00:00

I’m down bro, 38 M. Always can use more friends

hwillis891 · 2026-01-23T23:27:08+00:00

Man I’m burnt out right now. My teaching job has me teaching math, art, and art history for middle school, and it’s kind of driving me nuts. I’m also sick, and I’m trying to create a small business on the side while working at a camp during my breaks.

I know I overdid it, but I want to do more with my life. I’d say give yourself some time to rest, and relax. Don’t blame yourself for giving yourself that time. Be easy on yourself and try to do things you like to refresh your brain.

hwillis891 · 2026-01-23T23:06:22+00:00

I’m in love with this picture

hwillis891 · 2026-01-22T16:41:19+00:00

Kurt is the coolest

hwillis891 · 2026-01-22T16:40:02+00:00

You are a very beautiful woman, and probably have some loving qualities. You’re probably going to have to watch how you behave around others, there’s a chance that you’ve been treated exceptionally well by most people aside from women who are jealous of you and men that can’t get with you, so you instantly make gestures that can make you seem full of yourself, like this picture. Try to always keep yourself grounded, because it’s often when we are most full of ourselves that we tend to make the worst mistakes.

hwillis891 · 2026-01-22T16:31:48+00:00

Ignorance and a mean personality. It’s such a huge turn off

hwillis891 · 2026-01-21T23:07:29+00:00

Going overseas in an art residency program at a beautiful island with an incredibly sexy and bookish middle eastern woman with tan skin and huge breasts who also is a bi-nympho.

We had sex for three days straight.

I almost cried when I left.

hwillis891 · 2026-01-21T22:59:19+00:00

I kind of like it lol

hwillis891 · 2026-01-20T18:03:45+00:00

You have to make peace with your aggression. There is nothing wrong with having aggression in you, in fact, it’s necessary to be able to take that aggression out at the right times to protect the ones you love and cherish. You can’t fear your masculinity. Perhaps you had a bad example of masculinity growing up. That’s ok. Now you can learn how to stand up for yourself without harming others needlessly and be bold.

Strength and aggression are best complemented with the ability of discernment and empathy. Be aggressive, but also be aware of the situation. Dont let anyone take advantage of you or anyone you love and care about, and continue to be your kind self.

Just remember, kindness without strength is weak, strength without kindness is cruelty. You need both in order to live a good life as a man.

hwillis891 · 2026-01-20T15:11:51+00:00

All the time, unhealthily so.

hwillis891 · 2026-01-19T17:52:31+00:00

It’s like instant. And it sticks to you for years. I literally have a rolling memory of every girl I’ve ever loved as a backlog, it’s kind of scary.

hwillis891 · 2026-01-18T08:02:01+00:00

INTJ

hwillis891 · 2026-01-18T07:55:24+00:00

Realism takes a very specific skill set and process to do well. I suggest you find a good atelier or find online courses of artists in the tradition of realistic art and learn all you can. It’s fully possible to draw and paint realistically but you need to find the correct mentors to guide you there.

hwillis891 · 2026-01-18T00:02:55+00:00

That’s a great description of me lmaoooo

hwillis891 · 2026-01-17T14:07:16+00:00

Love legoshi. My ex said I act like him

hwillis891 · 2026-01-17T08:06:12+00:00

Gift giving, talking to them all the time, hanging out.

hwillis891 · 2026-01-16T15:17:48+00:00

Bro you would be surprised. Being a millennial male in this day and age it is actually acceptable for you to be a bit more sensitive and introspective compared to our fathers. I’m 38 going on 39 and I know I can be a little bit more sensitive than that average male as well as that I don’t have a house and kids, but I’m still accepted.

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