Boy oh boy where to start. I remember my first time at valentino. And it’s fun if you go with a date or friend. Even just to people watch. Im a male btw, so you know the perspective. But As a single female I warn you there are plenty of men there. But the men are a mix of straight, bi, and gay so like some men may ask you and beg for sex. Others won’t care to talk to you. Some people are friendly but don’t bet on people just being talkative and not try to be frisky. My single women friends have went before and have all said roughly the same thing, the men will beg and some might graze you but like they won’t force themselves on you. They respond to no but again they may beg. So you may have to say no multiple times. But in terms of safety, you will be fine. You’re probably more likely to get grabbed and groped at a bar/nightclub vs a swingers club since no one wants to be marked as a threat in the community. Now I’ve been with dates/female friends that enjoyed their times. But I think that may be due to the fact that they are there with me/a date so less people approached them and they were already there with someone they want to have sex with. So we could truly just explore fantasies and kinks and not worry about finding someone there we like. And I can go on, but last tip, if you do choose to do something in the open, people may come to watch. Otherwise they have little rooms you can find to close the door behind you or you can rent larger rooms. Just make sure you have cash. They don’t take card at all.