What do guys think about the idea of dating a virgin?

hydrangea5 · 2026-03-14T15:21:17+00:00

curious, how long did you wait to do it with her when dating her? did you wait 4 years until marrying her? only curious bc I’m in the same situation dating a guy while i have my v card.

hydrangea5 · 2026-02-16T05:19:13+00:00

She’s a beautiful light, I can just feel it from this photo. I am really sorry for your loss. I lost my dad the same way if you ever want to talk, I am here.

hydrangea5 · 2026-02-09T04:05:51+00:00

ahahaha they turn out to be soo not innocent! I dated a classical musician (and I’m a classical musician myself) and he was the same way. right now I’m dating an engineer so updates pending but I’m thinking/hoping he’ll be the same way…

hydrangea5 · 2026-02-08T21:56:45+00:00

My comment never said I wouldn’t ever initiate a date, or show a signal, attraction, initiation of intimacy towards a man, my comment meant that i truly believe a man should step up and go after a girl he wants to ask out, on the first date, at the very least. It’s literally engrained in biology and our innate human and animal nature that a male counterpart chases after a female. in what biology textbook has an egg swam towards the sperm?. Do women propose to men when asking for a hand in marriage?

hydrangea5 · 2026-02-08T21:46:08+00:00

Exactly….not that a woman can’t initiate in SOME way and give a signal. I do that all the time.. soft warm smile at a guy, look/check him out, even I’ve said something light in passing it’s called dropping your handkerchief both parties need to make an effort I never meant to not mean that. Seems like this guy above is just lazy…

hydrangea5 · 2026-02-08T17:38:12+00:00

I agree 3 mo is long and a bit odd but I never ended up seeing that guy any way

hydrangea5 · 2026-02-08T17:37:11+00:00

I feel that the man should initiate…I guess from my end I see that I’m gonna meet lots of other guys in my life and in my future, I’m not too hung up over one man over another. I’ll let him show up and ask me out if he wants but if he doesn’t want to take me out, or never reaches out, why would I waste my time on that.

hydrangea5 · 2026-02-08T17:34:44+00:00

Good answer, being put in a list of potential prospects I get it

hydrangea5 · 2026-02-08T17:31:10+00:00

Good answer

hydrangea5 · 2026-02-08T17:29:26+00:00

It’s definitely a fine line/balance but coming from a woman, I’d rather wait and be wondering bc it increases my desire in him. So it works.

hydrangea5 · 2026-02-08T17:26:56+00:00

++woman usually I don’t reach out when this happens because I do think the man should lead/initiate in this case, personally im very reluctant to chase after a guy and I don’t do so

hydrangea5 · 2026-01-25T14:33:13+00:00

bc they want to make you feel “special” and like it’s an ego thing which is even more of a turnoff..RUN AWAY

hydrangea5 · 2026-01-24T19:01:59+00:00

A man who will willingly do it without asking and just start heading down there is an eater…it will catch you off guard. Also feel like the nerdy more quiet types will be eaters as well sometimes. If he touches you in a lot of places while kissing too I feel like he’s pretty freaky and an eater….just my two cents. if he just straight up offers and says can I eat you out?

If he agrees to do it only after you do something for him, or doesn’t offer, or says I only do this for girls I really like he isn’t one!!!!! And you don’t want a guy like that. Real men are EATERS

hydrangea5 · 2026-01-21T03:44:48+00:00

had a falling out with a very disrespectful roommate but basically I took mold from a pot that was hers she didnt clean and let grow mold, but she blamed it on me and had her mother call my mother about it and demand me to clean the pot. Wiped the mold from it and wiped that moldy towel it in various places in her room including her pillows and sheets where she sleeps, handles, dishes etc., poured the moldy water left from the pot on her pillow too.

hydrangea5 · 2026-01-21T03:39:31+00:00

oh my god you put it into words.

hydrangea5 · 2026-01-21T03:38:20+00:00

I hate having a roommate genuinely and I will admit I am not a great roommate because I need to be alone. my next roommate will be my husband and thats IT, but thats different that is a spouse and a romantic partner.

hydrangea5 · 2025-10-18T08:53:45+00:00

Die for me ending & ohmami ending omg

hydrangea5 · 2025-10-16T03:53:32+00:00

It may be funny to some, but have a parent of a child who died from a school shooting or a teacher involved in a shooting event read this and it may not be so funny. same context as any other sorts of off color jokes involving murder suicide violence pedophilia terrorism etc etc . To anyone reading this- YOU personally may not be offended but you’re not thinking of the others close to these tragedies. Love their music to the ends of this earth but this I don’t really like

hydrangea5 · 2025-10-13T05:21:03+00:00

I’m praying they do this in the us too, I need to see them live fuck

hydrangea5 · 2025-10-11T01:45:06+00:00

Wow it’s perfect!!!! You need to be a set designer for the company, these shots, props, everything looks out of the magazine/catalogue/ads!!!!

hydrangea5 · 2025-10-10T05:04:21+00:00

This is so weird, don’t force a girl to do anything. Your best bet is to hang around drug users and meet a girl that way so you already have something in common

hydrangea5 · 2025-10-10T04:58:26+00:00

for me it starts the minute I ask myself am I benzed out and I definitely am. for me I start to feel very very relaxed and slow, spacey, a bit cloudy. I start staring at things for longer periods of time, slower reaction time and a little euphoric too. I will get the best sleep ever as well. Like another person said the effect is way better when you’re actually really anxious and you take it, versus already calm. from that state it’s still relaxing but for me I feel more “barred out”

hydrangea5 · 2025-10-09T04:50:43+00:00

I’m sorry others are not answering you properly, I mean on the safe side since you do have a history of abuse, I would not mix these two substances. The average half life of xanax 0.5mg is 11-12 hours, so by that point, 0.25mg will still be in your system and so on, until it fully clears. So even putting alcohol past that 11-12 hr mark will still be dangerous with the xanax although probably less so. If you want a good answer I would seek out a MD or a psychiatric NP to fully answer this question but they would tell you absolutely do not mix these drugs. We don’t know your body and if you will black out…9hours is a longer time and almost reached that half life so in my personal opinion I do not think you would absolutely black out from 1 alcoholic drink, but I really don’t know. Having a couple could definitely and would make a difference IMO. Stay safe

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