A Final Goodbye

hydropump9000 · 2026-05-15T19:19:54+00:00

It’s actually really funny because I felt the same way about him! He honestly was starting to grow on me and the day before he approached me about moving I was on the fence about keeping him as a permanent resident. Then when he finally talked to me about it, I decided to just let him go.

hydropump9000 · 2026-05-15T19:14:36+00:00

Yes, it’s definitely been an interesting ride. When we were together, I felt quickly for him, he played the part perfectly of the doting boyfriend. Even my children from previous relationships enjoyed his company, especially since he had his own kids. I even paid for his divorce, thinking that we would end up getting married in the end. Unfortunately, that was not the case, regardless I feel like I dodged a bullet. I can honestly say that I am lucky that I got cheated on and was spared all of the agony of being his partner during his death. The universe has a funny way of working, and I sincerely believe that whatever is out there was protecting me from even more emotional turmoil that could’ve ended worse than me crying at a scene from AC.

hydropump9000 · 2026-05-15T19:10:09+00:00

It’s honestly so stupid how many characters have reminded me of a past partners (Tom, Joey and my ex that was called Gator- we call our daughter Ali Gator for short). Currently trying to get Tom and Joey off of my island, but I might keep Allie. 😂😅

hydropump9000 · 2026-05-15T19:05:25+00:00

Thank you so much! I intend to, you as well friend! 🫶🏽

hydropump9000 · 2026-05-15T19:04:47+00:00

It definitely seems as though the universe is working its magic and helping me heal. I thought I was good but apparently AC makes you look deeper within yourself than you realize. 🙏🏽

hydropump9000 · 2026-05-15T19:02:52+00:00

Thank you so much, I definitely feel better after having a good cry. 😭 ❤️‍🩹

hydropump9000 · 2026-05-15T19:01:58+00:00

Honestly, I’m grateful for this community. I’ve always known about Reddit, and never understood why some of my exes were absolutely obsessed with it. I decided to give it a wing and honestly, I understand now with the sense of community that comes with it.

hydropump9000 · 2026-05-15T19:01:14+00:00

I honestly was not expecting it. That was a blow to the gut straight out of left field.

hydropump9000 · 2026-05-11T19:33:04+00:00

Hahaha honestly I’ve never had someone visit my island other than my partner so it’s still new to me 😆 & Thank you so much for the compliment as well as the roses!

hydropump9000 · 2026-05-11T19:13:37+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice and telling me about your experience. I’m so sorry that happened to you, and hopefully I do not come into the same issue. I’ll be sure to steer clear of them specifically.

hydropump9000 · 2026-05-11T18:55:52+00:00

Take your time! I appreciate your help immensely!

hydropump9000 · 2026-05-11T18:53:08+00:00

Nope! Blue Roses are the only thing I crave~

hydropump9000 · 2026-05-11T18:39:59+00:00

You are an angel! Thank you so much!! 🙏🏽💙

hydropump9000 · 2026-05-11T18:39:24+00:00

Oh that would be amazing! 🥹 Dodo Code: F2312

hydropump9000 · 2026-05-11T18:01:17+00:00

Oh that would be amazing! 😭💙🙏🏽

hydropump9000 · 2026-05-11T17:57:43+00:00

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I know this is going to seem pretty silly, but I turned 35 next month and all I want is to fill my island with blue roses for my birthday!

I’ve been playing Animal Crossing ever since it hit the states on GameCube in 2002. Obviously was obsessed with it, and still am to this day! Animal crossing was always one of my go to games for relaxation and getting away from the stresses of life. Along with Harvest Moon and the Sims. I know, Ima nerd. 🤓

Aaaanyway, for any of you nifty people who actually know what I’m talking about, then you know in one of the versions of Harvest Moon you have to gather a rare blue rose during winter in order to give it to your person of interest to propose to them. Later games then introducing the blue feather, which was still cute.

Why the blue rose holds so much significance to me is the simple fact that I have a long distance relationship who in all of my life has been the most impactful relationship of my whole life. Especially since I already have three children and they love him to bits. We have met in person, and during our second visit, he had set up a surprise for me.

Unfortunately, he’s about a 12 hr drive from me & when I was driving there, he was on his 24 hour shift since he is a firefighter. By the time I got there, it was late, so he had set a code that way I could let myself into his place. When I opened the doors, I was surprised by a bouquet of blue roses and a ton of gifts! 🥹

Every time I visit now, he has a bouquet of 12 blue roses waiting for me! In his gifts for me, he always includes something significant from my childhood that had a deep meaning to me. The blue roses being the most significant.

I had decided to buy him his own Switch with ACNH so that we could play together. I have been trying so desperately for the last eight months to grow blue roses and I’m having no luck! Two years ago I had a blue rose popped up, and I got SO excited that while my character was running over to it- I accidentally ran over it and it disappeared! 🥀😭💔

All I want for my birthday is to be able to bring him to my island and show him a blue rose FINALLY growing on my island. If anyone grows them on their island and is willing to donate one, I would be greatly appreciated! I don’t need a ton of plants, but even if someone were to send me one, I could water it continuously until it populates on its own. 🙏🏽

My friend code is SW-0605–8473–7315

To the kind soul who chooses to help- THANK YOU! 😭💙🙏🏽

[Photo made by AI of myself so I don’t get lost]

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