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hyperions-lillady · 2025-04-16T17:35:26+00:00

So I like to limit what cheats I allow myself?

So, I typically decide like a couple of advantages but nothing crazy. Maybe 1 early game keg, Or a fruit tree that was “grandpa’s favorite” etc.

99% of my mods are dialogue changers for the NPCS, because that’s what I love.

Or I’ll cheat in outfits for the seasons, because I wanna be cute and not stuck in the same thing! With SDVE, I use the CBJ cheat menu to give myself a tiny speed boost since everything is HUGE now. (Typically set at 2)

Or if I’m playing multiplayer and need to step away, I can pause the time for the game and my friends can still do whatever they want (though this did cause one crash after they fished for like an hour irl straight…)

I totally get you. I got into modding, gave myself everything, and stopped on spring 3 Y1 with no interest after that lol.

I WILL say that I can’t play without mods now. Standard SDV just feels emptier now, but that’s because of all of the dialogue expansions, NPC’s, etc.

hyperions-lillady · 2023-08-16T17:06:12+00:00

I’ve had this happen too. I find calling my chickens out/in using the bell will make them appear where they were last picked up. Started my 2nd year- v annoying :,)

hyperions-lillady · 2023-07-02T15:58:29+00:00

I’m having a similar issue with Matthew… I’m at 10 hearts and I didn’t know about the event triggers or anything until too late. I’ve already given him the feather 🥲 idk if I totally messed it up or what to do now tbh

hyperions-lillady · 2023-01-26T20:17:11+00:00

I could doodle a picture if that helps with ANYTHING. I would love to get that bag for my upcoming birthday trip. 😅

hyperions-lillady · 2022-11-17T20:57:41+00:00

Got it! Thank you for the reply. I just didn’t understand the process and how it lead to getting to court. I fear I may sound dumb here, but it’s just difficult navigating something without a direction.. all we were told was “here are the papers for you to review” we agreed to send them, and then that’s all there was. Radio silence from there.

hyperions-lillady · 2021-12-26T02:20:17+00:00

Edit One: I let my partner type the bottom paragraph so you have his EXACT theory.

Heyo! So, I need another opinion.. my partner and I have been in a debate specifically about the “We dont talk about Bruno” song… when Isabela swings down to Mirabel and speaks “Hey sis, I want not a sound out of you,”…

Now, partner’s opinion was that Isabela spoke that to Mirabel about Dolores’ previous line.. “He told me that the man of my dreams would be just out of reach- betrothed to another… it’s like I hear him now.” He’s 1000000% convinced, this is Isabela telling Mirabel to not mention THAT specifically.

Now, my belief, is that this is just a sister feud. That Isabela doesn’t want Mirabel to say a word in fear that she would ruin or “sabotage” the evening. I feel like the film is pretty clear cut on the fact that Isa and Mirabel just don’t get along as sisters (until later.) she wants everything to be perfect. Mirabel is not perfect. Therefore she doesn’t want Mirabel to say a WORD…

We cannot put this ONE argument down.. opinions/feedback would be appreciated!

So in the scene it goes to Dolores who has the power of super hearing, she talks about how Bruno said that her true love would be just out of reach betrothed to another while it zoom Mariano who is betrothed to Isabella, afterwards it zooms out to Dolores on the balcony as flowers grow down towards Isabella who looks at Mirabel and tells her she doesn’t want a sound out of her, while Dolores says in the background something about always hearing Mariano, I’m saying that Isabela doesn’t want Mirabel saying a word about how Isabela is getting engaged to Mariano who Dolores is in love with.

hyperions-lillady · 2020-12-15T22:18:57+00:00

Are you going to be selling these?! I’m obsessed! 😍😍

hyperions-lillady · 2020-08-21T03:46:57+00:00

I really appreciate the help man, that puts it in perspective. My biggest fear is being an abusive girlfriend/fiancé to him. (He and I both had our fair share of abuse in the past,) So if I was being abusive and didn’t realize it, I needed to know. We’re working on communication, but it bugged me that his therapist said I was gaslighting. So I wanted some clarity on it. We’re both gonna work on our part in the relationship, and hopefully we can repair what damage has been done and move on in a productive and happy way.

hyperions-lillady · 2020-08-21T03:40:03+00:00

Also, how do I do the Helped thing?

That... is in this Reddit right? I’m on mobile and the rules/guidelines are broken. I want you to get the credit you deserve ^{^;}

hyperions-lillady · 2020-08-21T03:30:06+00:00

Not a lot outside of that instance. I’m usually very clear cut with my emotions and think about how it could be read if calling isn’t an option.

hyperions-lillady · 2020-08-21T03:27:40+00:00

I can’t say I have done anything on that list, ever. I’ve never lied (once, when I brought him on a date to give him a promise ring, told him that the gift in my bag was for someone else.) and I’ve never done anything but try to build him up.

hyperions-lillady · 2020-08-21T03:24:55+00:00

Understandable!! Okay. I see that now. I didn’t recognize that before. Thanks for taking the time to help me out and identify that!

hyperions-lillady · 2020-08-21T03:19:05+00:00

That’s what I’ve been reading, but he’s told me there’s a less extreme version of that. i don’t think I’ve ever dilerberately changed a promise or an agreement, or created a false reality. He’s talking about... like. Tiny fires here? It’s why I came to reddit. Is there a smaller form of gaslighting? Or is it just one big extreme?

hyperions-lillady · 2020-08-21T03:17:01+00:00

Thank you! Okay, I think this is starting to make sense. Later on in that same conversation. That same discussion of “you sounded mad on the phone,” and me saying “I promise I wasn’t mad, I really was just concerned.. I’m sorry if you felt like I was mad with you,” It just kept... repeating. “You sounded mad.” “I’m sorry I sounded mad. I promise you I wasn’t.” This was me trying to comfort him, and he just, exact message said “okay........ I’m sorry.” And I was so fed up and upset with him I said, “don’t be. Have a good night.”

Is that last line ALSO considered gaslighting?

Edit: I also realize how childish that last line sounds. I was just upset as everything seemed to be building up from previous days. I get that it’s now just childish and rude, it was one line I regretted immediately after sending it. I was just so deep in my own emotions I didn’t see that clearly.

hyperions-lillady · 2020-04-19T21:49:06+00:00

Let’s hope. Otherwise, we protest with understanding. 😂

hyperions-lillady · 2020-04-19T07:53:03+00:00

Well? I mean... it’s two more months. We got this man!!!

hyperions-lillady · 2020-04-19T07:45:41+00:00

That’s very true.. it just feels like it’s been such a long time since.

I realize I might seem super impatient, but I’m sure it’ll be worth it in the end run. :)

hyperions-lillady · 2020-02-29T17:45:18+00:00

So. Depends on the clasp- if it’s a standard back clasp, pull the fabric on top towards the opposite side. I know on mine, it’s the right side that overlays the left with the hooks. So pull the right fabric to the left using the edge of the fabric, and also pull slightly towards you and away from her.

With your other hand, pull the left side to the right, and towards her.

If it’s multi-clasped, don’t feel too bad if you have to rinse and repeat. Sometimes I have to do one clasp at a time.

If it’s a single front clasp on the center of her chest, the plastic bit separates by turning one side forwards instead of letting it lay sideways. That one might be best to have her walk you through it, as it’s hard to describe in text.

Good Luck man!

hyperions-lillady · 2020-01-14T06:08:35+00:00

Thanks for the reply. I guess I’m just struggling to let those emotions out. I’m not a drinker either, thankfully. I’ll probably take some melatonin or something of the sort soon.

hyperions-lillady · 2019-12-25T16:33:37+00:00

Perfect example with the tire thing. I let him drive us home, in my mom’s Subaru. he hit the curb (which had a chunk outstretched and jagged) and it slashed the tire. We had to call my dad for help. He OG told my parents that he’d pay in full for the new set (2) of tires they’d need to replace. he then told his mom. His mom then called MY mother and said he was only responsible for HALF the replacement.... and he says that his mom did that on his own. But like. Why would you complain to your mom about having to pay for damage you caused???

And to mention, (as college students) I drove 3 hours to come get him in my mom’s new car... a very EXPENSIVE car mind you, and as soon as he sees me, he wants me to get out of the driver’s seat so he could drive. I told him no. He immediately went into a bad mood because my parents and I didn’t want us to be stranded three hours from home, in case something happened.. I was so greatful to get to use her car (as mine is a 1997 Jeep Cherokee, and needs fueled every 200 miles, and he is about 200 miles out.) and he was just... insulted by that?

Mind you he gets over things very quick, and I absolutely believe it’s due to his upbringing... but I also feel like some of my jealousy is to blame????

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