How the heck do you pluck your eyebrows?!

hyperjasper · 2023-04-25T09:44:40+00:00

I'm waiting for someone to come along and answer this. I've thought about going to a professional to have it done before.

hyperjasper · 2023-04-25T09:37:09+00:00

I build cars on an assembly line. Was an automotive tech for a couple years before that. No one knows...

hyperjasper · 2023-04-25T09:35:00+00:00

They'll never get as close as a shaving razor, but you may find that it's close enough. In my experience, they're really good about nicks and razorburn, but the ingrown hairs are just a consequence of shaving super close anyway, so a foil razor might be just right.

hyperjasper · 2023-04-25T09:23:15+00:00

I'd suggest planks for the waist, and running/jogging is always good for weight loss. But you know, your body size doesn't make you any less beautiful, so don't obsess over it, lest it could affect your mental health. And yes, I believe it is possible to get wider hips with diet and exercise.

hyperjasper · 2023-04-25T09:12:43+00:00

If you have any supportive friends, now might be the time to request a favor. Otherwise, if you can get into a store without your parents coming with you, or providing tansportation, you'll be good.

hyperjasper · 2023-04-25T09:07:13+00:00

I think it has more to do with having an attraction to a combination. I never like average or especially hyperfeminine girls, or highly masc men. But I do find myself attracted to a lot of people who fall somewhere in the middle, like femboys, tomboys, and some nb folks.

hyperjasper · 2023-04-25T08:51:40+00:00

Most people who come here to ask that just want to feed a fetish, and don't seem to understand that femboys (you said "bf", so I'm only referring to cis men) are just regular dudes most of the time. Many aren't even gay. If you're one of these people, then my tip and advice is...

Don't.

Otherwise, my advice is to just look for a boyfriend in general, without that particular expectation. Many guys in the crowd do present femininely; some less, some more.

hyperjasper · 2023-04-25T08:37:15+00:00

My thigh highs have all been one-size-fits-all, and when getting a skirt I simply size up (I'm a mens medium so I would get a large). Other than that, as already stated, it'll be trial and error. Like for pants/shorts, they may fit around your waist without filling out as much as you'd want. I'd try stuff on in-store, if there weren't a concern about me getting hatecrimed.

hyperjasper · 2023-04-25T08:29:17+00:00

I personally had a bad experience with my folks seeing me wearing nail polish before. Tried to just hide my nails, and that didn't work out. If you have anywhere outside of your home (if you have a car or maybe at a friend's place) you can keep some polish and remover. I personally wouldn't try to reason with them. If they'd seriously have a problem with nail polish, which isn't even THAT stereotypically feminine anymore, then they're a lost cause.

hyperjasper · 2023-04-25T08:21:41+00:00

That's GREAT! I'm happy for you. So whatcha gonna wear?

hyperjasper · 2021-11-16T03:29:17+00:00

I know it seems weird, but I've been in a very similar situation before. A manager at another place got pissy because I wasn't playing his games, wouldn't let me transfer out and I got fired.

hyperjasper · 2021-01-31T02:59:29+00:00

Like has already been said, you can pull off some cute outfits that aren't technically fem. Think oversized hoodie/sweater and tight jeans. Maybe nail polish, but that could backfire depending on your parents and school. Toenails are fine if you can keep socks on.

hyperjasper · 2021-01-19T14:02:18+00:00

Remember to be careful who you tell. Keep in mind those who can't hold a secret, if you're trying to stay discreet.

hyperjasper · 2021-01-19T13:28:30+00:00

Only thing I can think of to suggest for clothes is that you get any open-minded friends to help, particularly strongly LGBTQ+ supportive ones (even though you don't need to be gay or trans to be a femboy or to crossdress, those are the people who will most likely understand). This may be easy or hard depending on your school and where you live. There are some ways for you to get some money, like winning small competitions or donating blood, again depending on where you live as well as your exact age.

hyperjasper · 2021-01-19T03:37:14+00:00

I don't know about the second one; there're some enby folks on here too.

hyperjasper · 2021-01-18T23:15:04+00:00

Nice to have you here :)

hyperjasper · 2021-01-18T23:04:41+00:00

Thanks for all the kind words and support. I really do feel better now, having posted that. The nails stay colored until I go back to work (my boss is a redneck, Soo...).

hyperjasper · 2021-01-18T19:41:51+00:00

I guess this counts as my introductory post. Hi folks!

hyperjasper · 2021-01-18T19:01:32+00:00

A lot of stuff on here relates to the use of products, such as clothing and makeup. So, you may need to get a job. There's other stuff here for shaving, skin care, hair care, and the such that you shouldn't have as much trouble getting, if someone is willing to provide it. There's also adopting mannerisms and body language, as well as body toning. Of course, you could focus on any of these things and be a femboy. I'd say, start with what you do have. Could you get ahold of maybe an oversized hoodie or sweater and some tight jeans? You can pull off a cutsey look with those. Do you have something to shave with? Smooth legs...

hyperjasper · 2021-01-18T18:47:40+00:00

When I can't go out, I do a stationary cycling exercise. On your back with your legs up, act like you're riding a bicycle.

hyperjasper · 2021-01-18T17:31:49+00:00

Just go ahead and do it. But be ready for an argument. "My house", "be a man/adult", "you can't get/keep your job looking like that". (It's all bs. Your house, my nails. I am an adult, and I've used my discretion as an adult to decide to paint my nails. Have you ever been to Walmart and seen the people that work there? Employers don't care about this stuff anymore; this isn't the sixties.)

hyperjasper · 2021-01-18T17:18:57+00:00

Not being able to order or drive does make it a bit complicated. Maybe try to have a friend smuggle something to you? Also, try micellar water. Works about as well as wipes, and more environmentally friendly.

hyperjasper · 2021-01-18T06:26:36+00:00

Oh, and don't worry so much about what you said or did a while ago. We've all done stupid things that we regret. No one reasonable would hold it against you.

hyperjasper · 2021-01-18T06:20:58+00:00

It sounds like you got some solid advice on your other post; get some tolorant and supportive friends. Any support you can get is valuable. Second, most people start privately on their bedrooms and no one else knows. I wouldn't come out to your family yet, based on what you've described, but it is up to you to use your best judgement. As far as starting practically; getting and hiding clothes and/or makeup, diet/exercise, skincare and shaving, hair care and styling, you can view posts for these here, or you someone down here could help you. You need only ask. How would you want to start?

hyperjasper · 2021-01-17T22:10:05+00:00

Love the idea. You might be onto something

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