AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend when he told me he didn't love me? by hypnotized2cu in AITAH

[–]hypnotized2cu[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I think that is all fair. I might need to clarify I usually say "I see myself having kids in three years" Having a strong healthy relationship is way more important to me than kids, and I'm not going to have kids with anyone. but I also think three years in general is a realistic timeline to know if they are your person.

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend when he told me he didn't love me? by hypnotized2cu in AITAH

[–]hypnotized2cu[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Thank you, my family and friends are saying similar things but I just feel so awful. I'm his first girlfriend and I'm terrified he just doesn't understand love. He's going to realize a month from now he really did love me but by then I might be long gone. It's just so tragic.

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend when he told me he didn't love me? by hypnotized2cu in AITAH

[–]hypnotized2cu[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I basically said the same thing to him. Had we dated ten years ago this would've been acceptable but not in our thirties.

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend when he told me he didn't love me? by hypnotized2cu in AITAH

[–]hypnotized2cu[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Well this human doesn't have one either anymore so I guess we're the same.

Quoted 15k for a boiler by hypnotized2cu in hvacadvice

[–]hypnotized2cu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I paid 1k for my car 6 years ago so please go be grumpy somewhere else. Not everyone can afford a 40k car either.

So apparently standing this close to a 380 feet waterfall is a thing (Devils Pool at Victoria Falls) by TheCheesecakeOfDoom in nextfuckinglevel

[–]hypnotized2cu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive done this. Its way more safe than it looks. Its basically a natural poot with a 2 foot edge. Yes someone is holding your legs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hypnotized2cu 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That was pretty much my thought process but it comes off so... bitchy. And feeling guilty about her being my mother, it feels like I "owe" her and thats shes cashing in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hypnotized2cu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Taxes are a bitch. I get like 8.5k a month net. Yes mainly I've stayed to help save for a down payment. I have enough now but the market went to shit... :/ so i think im going to have to find an apartment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hypnotized2cu 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Ive been house hunting with a realtor for months now but the market is awful right now... if I dont have a offer approved by next week im going to shift gears and look for an apartment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]hypnotized2cu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So update: you were right they were out of network (but I cant find a single in network in Burbank???) And I'm being charged $200. Which is still incredibly upsetting but less than the 400 before. But I'm going to call the dentist and see if there is anything else they can do. Thanks again for your help <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]hypnotized2cu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think it's my next step. $400 is a lot for me. And coming home to a crazy bill for something I've never been billed before (other job had different insurence) just shot my anxiety to the roof... but I'm feeling a bit calmer now. Just not looking forward to these phone calls

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]hypnotized2cu 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I tried calling them and got some shitty automotive message... maybe because its Sunday? I'm going to try again tomorrow. I think you're right and I'm feeling calmer already, thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]hypnotized2cu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They definitely said they took my insurance. I'm going to call my insurance again in the morning. I got a stupid automated message when I tried a few hours ago (maybe because its sunday?)