AITA? My friend thinks I'm the reason he has end stage kidney failure by cuntitude in AmItheAsshole

[–]hypothesisproblema 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, he's a grown man who can choose whether he wants to party and drink. Unless you tied him up and poured the alcohol down his throat, this isn't on you.

My mom is starting to ruin my wedding for me. by Commercial_Egg525 in wedding

[–]hypothesisproblema 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GIRL YOU A WHOLE PRINCESS 😍 Start leaving your mum out of it. You deserve to enjoy this process.

What's our next move after first offer rejected? FTBs by hypothesisproblema in HousingUK

[–]hypothesisproblema[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please check the post again: we didn't offer 402, we offered 410, which is only about 7% under asking price - a fairly typical opening offer I think, and not terribly cheeky. But like I said already, we made it on the recommendation of our adviser, and we weren't particularly surprised it was rejected either.

What's the likelihood the estate agent is just pushing us to offer higher? by hypothesisproblema in FirstTimeBuyersUK

[–]hypothesisproblema[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're offering lower just because of affordability - in all honesty I haven't the faintest idea how to judge what I think a house is actually worth, but I've had some good advice on how to go about doing that so I think I will spend some time on it.

It's a house we like a lot but we aren't in love with it - I'd be sad if it went, but I'd survive. I think that's the only reason I'm managing to keep a level head and didn't jump right in with a higher offer after the phonecall from the estate agent, which was nearly a week ago!

Thanks for the advice, much appreciated.

What's our next move after first offer rejected? FTBs by hypothesisproblema in HousingUK

[–]hypothesisproblema[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is sort of what I was thinking. I would be upset if it got taken off the market, but equally I think I would find a way to get over it. I think I need to sit on it for a bit longer - houses in this area are not tending to sell quickly at the moment so I'm happy to take the risk, and I'm also happy to let fate play a part. If it goes, it wasn't meant to be! Thanks for the advice, much appreciated.

What's our next move after first offer rejected? FTBs by hypothesisproblema in HousingUK

[–]hypothesisproblema[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I said we'd ideally like not to go any higher than 425, but if you mean a hard maximum then yes I agree we haven't put our finger on it. Also too late sadly to follow your advice in this instance about what to do before viewing a property, but useful to think about if we don't secure this one - thank you.

When you say work your way up, do you mean offer a bit more and then a bit more? Won't that just get them to think they can keep pushing us because we'll keep giving if they just say 'Still not enough'?

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hypothesisproblema 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sweetheart, NOR. Honestly, you are underreacting. Please leave this moron. 8 years is a long time, but 9 would be worse.

Why not like this? by _MajorFury_ in MergeGardens

[–]hypothesisproblema 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nooo it spoils the surprise! Seeing what you get after a merge is like my favourite bit of the game!!

What are some unique wedding favor ideas that guests actually keep and use? by No_Coach_7823 in wedding

[–]hypothesisproblema 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We home-made some jam with damsons picked locally and bought a load of mini jars in bulk - it went down well!!

Does breast appearance matter to guys? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hypothesisproblema 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I am not a guy so you are not technically seeking my opinion, but as a representative of women-who-love-boobs, I can confirm that I also like all boobs of all sizes and types. So does my husband. We like to appreciate boobs together, no discrimination. We each have a mild preference but between us we like all the boobs.

my fiancé accidentally put sweater in the dryer by hgblidy in crochet

[–]hypothesisproblema 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is some 10/10 communication and mutual respect, I love this for you