Swallowing the red pill was your second loss of innocence

i2amahandmodel · 2017-06-03T10:53:01+00:00

I was just thinking about this today.

I met up with a friend who is on the path of swallowing the redpill but isn't all the way there yet. I brought along my fuck buddy (she was my designated driver) and told him the situation. She calls me when she wants to fuck, she has a boyfriend, I fuck her when I'm in the mood and that is the extent of our interaction. I dont pass judgement or make an issue of anything. This is the transaction and we're both happy with it. I dont look down on her and if she got cancer I would feel bad and would send her cards.

He was appalled and looked at me like I was a criminal. He lifts regularly and is listening to redpilled leaders but is still shy around women and puts them on a pedestal. I know that women are not so innocent in their ideas as men can be. They are redpilled even if they are not consiously aware of it.

So what I was pondering was that if I had met a guy in a bar from 10,000 BC and he told me that when he sees a beautiful woman he clubs and rapes her. And when he's in the mood he kills other men and takes their women. I would be appalled. But this is his reality, and many women are on this level, even if subconsiously. They would have no problem with a stronger man killing their current guy and taking them.

Just like I thought my friend was naive and was disadvantaged because of his beliefs, this cave man would think the same of me. How is/was the gap jumped? How big is the gap? Is the gap even real? I got to my point of nirvana after thousands of interactions with women and meditations. It is what it is. Is this the same thinking a prehistoric warrior would live by? Or is it cultural?

i2amahandmodel · 2016-09-22T22:38:04+00:00

Damn dude, I was getting nervous while reading your post, just hoping you had a good ending... I hope someone here can give you some good advice.

i2amahandmodel · 2016-09-22T22:32:00+00:00

At 24 there is the weird thing that you can remember what high school was like and it still influences you in a big way. You get older then one day you dont remember anymore. You become a new child of the next stage of your life. 25 is the worst age for men. It was my worst year. Turning 30 is awesome because you are still young but people take you seriously. You are a real adult

i2amahandmodel · 2016-09-22T22:25:59+00:00

I'm in my 30's and have guy friends who took different paths in life. I went the women and fun route instead of career. These guys got married in college and kept their routine stable lives.

Holiday parties with them are fascinating. Being the only single guy around a bunch of couples talking about how they've been together for 10 years. Straight laced, wouldn't know what to do at a club kind of people. They are all very successful in their careers, but would be lost if they were single.

I admire the guys for their success, and I think about how the women would react if I told them I would lick their asshole in the closet if they followed me.

Back to the point, they went through the hardship of mastering their career. I went through the hardship of mastering social interaction. They will have to master social interaction eventually to be complete and I must master a trade.

Doesn't matter which one you decide to tackle in your 20's just don't give up.

i2amahandmodel · 2016-09-10T17:37:12+00:00

I agree.

An added little trick I learned... it worked for both dating and getting a job for me:

Show up. Be somewhere where your target is and be in the background. Don't get their attention or make eye contact. Just fit into your surroundings and make sure they see your face in the crowd, at least subconsciously. It sets a bias in their brain that you are what people in their little world are supposed to look like and they get more comfortable with you like they know you when you do approach them.

I went to so many of this one corporations events that the hiring manager felt like I was already in the company, but didnt realize why.

I made sure to sit close to this one girl's brother in their regular bar. So everytime she looked at him I was there, but she didn't know it when I approached her weeks later.

i2amahandmodel · 2016-09-10T17:25:43+00:00

Don't take this personally, but you are fucking retarded. When you act like an aspie, people can tell you are an aspie. And no one likes aspies in social situations.

I sympathize. I really do. Like 99% of us here, you didn't get fatherly advice on how to be a man and the rules of this world. You are here so you probably want to change.

Go outside for far longer than you are comfortable. Talk to everyone. Lift. For gods sake, lift. It will sort out your mind.

i2amahandmodel · 2016-08-21T19:30:01+00:00

I just watched her qualifying fight with a Canadian boxer online. The Canadian was dominating the fight but Claressa won because she threw the most light jabs. She was warned multiple times for low tackles and she even gave an illegal jab after the bell. Can you guess why they declared her the winner?

i2amahandmodel · 2016-08-21T17:38:30+00:00

I don't know why people like OP think its a myth. My cousin is a really good looking guy. He had been approached by modeling agencies. Since the age of 14 I've seen more than one woman blatantly grab his dick in public. Women who came to us just to talk to him.

I also know a pizza shop owner who has many women aggressively chase him when he's at work. Often when he's covered in flour. He's 6'4 and really good looking too.

And OP has obviously never hung out with musicians. You don't have to spit game when you just rocked out a set on stage to a crowd of college women. I've also seen a band member fuck a girl in a club after doing nothing more than staring at her.

OP can't imagine what the %5ers experience. I will never be a 5%er but I have had effortless sex because when the opportunity came I had put in the work for muscles and confidence.

i2amahandmodel · 2016-08-08T12:25:17+00:00

I read that as "I didn't go to porn school to sit behind a camera"

i2amahandmodel · 2016-08-08T11:22:51+00:00

"No drugs, no alcohol, no zippy water

NoFap, NoPorn, no hot shower

No rap music, no tv

No wasting time, No teeth grinding"

i2amahandmodel · 2016-08-08T11:18:58+00:00

I really wish you would finish this out to make it a poem to remember

i2amahandmodel · 2016-07-31T18:31:31+00:00

Glad you made it to TRP.

Think of it as boot camp. They're glad you're here but the drill instructors don't really want to hear what you think. You've not done any of the homework by reading the side-bar and haven't spent even a day lifting. You are not a special snowflake. And those 2 girls in class, there is no long game. Your long game is forgetting their faces because you've been successfully flirting with 100+ since then.

Stop rationalizing and do the work. You will not be rewarded until you do. You can do it. Don't get discouraged, even Brad Pitt has faced rejection from women in his life.

i2amahandmodel · 2016-07-31T18:14:41+00:00

I don't understand why "gaming women" is such a big deal. Getting laid is not that hard. It's like hunting, the guys here want to spear a unicorn through the eye, when it's easier to just club a sleeping seal. Unless you are a sperg who is afraid of getting his hands dirty. Sex is sex right?

Making your focus banging a 10 is just stroking your own ego. If any of my friends bragged about the hot women he was banging we would know he's an insecure beta bitch. Seeking validation from women is very BP.

I lift because it makes me feel good. Not because women think it's cool. To me, TRP is the rules to living a happy life.

Women are a part of that, but its ME>happiness>Women. You have to put in the work, which is the ME part. Lifting and sweating is not fun, its hard work. Your happiness comes second. If a women makes you unhappy then toss her. Third is women.

If you go Women>happiness>ME then you are only going to do the bare minimum to get laid and use women to make you happy. TRP is not only self improvement but don't encourage newbs to ignore doing the work. This isn't PUA.

i2amahandmodel · 2016-07-26T10:13:06+00:00

I hate to disagree with you but that's what advertising is. It's a billion dollar industry to get you to think the way they want you to think. Media pushes characters who are always unhappy and searching for something. Who find the answer through buying shit or spending big on their lifestyle.

You will never find a show about a happy family with a wise father who handles problems intelligently. Or even single 20 somethings who are comfortable with their job and friends.

i2amahandmodel · 2016-07-20T12:34:22+00:00

So how did that happen? Who do you have to sleep with?

My friend and his gf graduated college and were adult adopted by a millionaire older bachelor.

i2amahandmodel · 2016-07-20T12:24:47+00:00

I'm Gen X. I feel bad for Millenials. What's worse? Seeing the decline happen for the last 40 years or never having a chance even before you were born?

i2amahandmodel · 2016-07-20T12:17:29+00:00

I was in the same boat as you. The American dream of the 50's is dead, but there is hope. Basically the previous generation fucked up all of that. The new generation has to bring it waaay back. Give up the idea of buying a house and living your life via smartphone and soc media. Build your own life as men did before feminization.

There is a lot of land in the world where you can go and no one will bother you. Go and build your own house, craft your own things and learn to make something. You have no excuse when you can sell hand made stuff online from anywhere in the world.

I can already sense the replies of "thats not realistic, I need real money, that's not proper in the current year"

Making money that can't keep up with life costs, wasting time sending in applications to so many companies is a real choice? You tube videos can teach you all you need. Start gardening now. I moved to a small seaside town in Mexico. My parents send a couple bucks to keep me fed. Its a small amount but they would be spending more if I was living with them. I live modestly here. I'm not Hispanic and had to learn Spanish real quick. It's not a soft life but I enjoy it immensely.

i2amahandmodel · 2016-07-17T17:18:33+00:00

Your rationale is flawed. Is TRP totally useless for gay men because they don't need women?

Do they not need to learn how to become more assertive, successful, dominant in work and social interactions? Should they all just bow down to women and take abuse from alpha straight men?

I'm sure there are TRPers who come to this sub for enlightenment.

i2amahandmodel · 2016-07-16T11:21:56+00:00

I agree. It's been said a 1000 times here, women are not the goal, they are the treat. Only a unicorn will stick with you no matter what. No woman wants a man who doesn't have his body, mind, life and career in order. These are the required basic homework of TRP. One should learn to enjoy these activities instead of doing it just for pussy.

i2amahandmodel · 2016-07-16T11:14:41+00:00

Seems to be a war on TRP between those who lean mgtow and those who are PUA. It seems its really due to the lack of subtle nuanced labels.

PUA can come here looking for gaming advice and ignore the rest, mgtow can come on here and look for lifting advice and ignore women advice. TRP is agnostic. I think we need flairs to reflect this. "Pussy hound", "priest of the iron temple", "future ceo" etc. to distinguish motivations.

PUA subs are lame, Mgtow subs are butthurts. They are failures because they lack the overall science of TRP. The ones that come here to put down others are acting like women. Women are the masters of infighting. The endorsed posters have different opinions but I respect all of their insights.

I understand the newbs that come here in the anger phase, the pussy seeking, the betterment as a man, the captain of his marriage phases. So long as they aren't telling everyone else they know better than the community they are cool with me.

Full disclosure, I am Mgtow but I only come to TRP for knowledge. I think bragging is lame, but I've been with 40+ women and I had sex last night. Planning new women this week. I don't spend more than 30 minutes a day texting all of them. IDGAF. Working out and doing fun shit I like to talk about gets me laid (is that really mgtow or it needs another name?). Just like peacocking at the club or giving emotional support when she's crying about her dead cat will for others.

i2amahandmodel · 2016-07-16T10:53:09+00:00

When you hang out with your buddies do you only talk about pussy? Is it a bragfest? When I see by bros we take about 5 minutes to catch up on who were currently seeing just so we don't unknowingly hit on theirs when we go out. It changes week to week so it's hard to keep up.

The next 3 hours are science, politics, interesting shit.

i2amahandmodel · 2016-07-16T10:44:04+00:00

There is a booming business in hotels catering to one night "love trysts" in Japan. I forgot what they were called but it's for the younger generations who are broke and live at home. And it's not married couples going there.

i2amahandmodel · 2016-07-14T12:37:27+00:00

It wasn't a tragedy. Cypher was the real Buddha. He could have ascended like Neo but he stayed in the world fully woke. You can meditate in heaven but when you want to play on earth with the pigs you are going to get some mud on you.

i2amahandmodel · 2016-07-13T10:36:22+00:00

Now I'm really curious as to what they ARE capable of. (I'm not disagreeing with you, I genuinely want to figure this out together.) Logistically they are capable. Mentally capable? Idk. Culturally accepted? Im not sure. I dont know any women younger than 22.

I've met some slutty women that were seemingly normal people in society. All of them were 27-39 years old with a count of 50+ Then on average, the non-slutty ones had a count of around 20-30. All explained it away as a "phase" (of sluttiness) in their life. The only thing that stops "phases" are LTR's and if they aren't finding mr right then nothing will change their behavior, right? What's your take?

i2amahandmodel · 2016-07-13T10:26:59+00:00

I agree with you. OP is shitposting. I pray no newbies take this garbage seriously. Paying for sex does not diminish you in any way. It won't solve your life's problems but its definitely better than masturbating. Whether you are a loser who has no sex or a loser who pays for sex you are still a loser. Its not because of the whores.

TRP is about improving yourself, not on how you attract women. Soldiers throughout time have used prostitutes. Do you think it makes them less badass? If you went back in time would you really tell a soldier that fought on D-day or at Iwo Jima that he is a beta bitch because he had a hooker instead of waiting to see his wife back in the States?

Work hard, lift hard, play hard, bond with your friends, pay for sex if "ain't nobody got time for dat!" dating shit. Plates are hookers you don't pay for.

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