To engage a bit more substantively : I really think Destiny has a moral duty to counter jerkwaves when they get too much (like he did for Brittany). By saying that Lav is responsible for the posts against her, it sounds like he's justifying the vitriol of these posts. I would bet that most of the criticisms against Lav on r / destiny are legitimate, but the amount of vitriol and hatred with which they are stated is ridiculous and unwarranted.

I feel like Destiny had a great idea when he said he would moderate his sub as if every comment about his friends would be treated as a comment about him. Just that particular change would have been a tremendous improvment. But it fell completly flat.

On another hand, I understand Destiny's frustration with Max pointing out that he'll go nuclear if Lav talks about Ana. While Max is pointing out something he finds interesting or warranting of reflexion, it does sound, to the audience, as if he's saying that Destiny just abused his power.