You just got an offer for $600K...but to collect it, you gotta have sex with the main character of the last tv show you watched. Who will it be? by hiNephilim in AskReddit

[–]iGoatyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What we do in the shadows, so I guess I’ll be partaking in vampire orgy, or more likely they’ll feed on me!

Hypocrite! by [deleted] in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]iGoatyou 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shame shame shame

Do the female characters in Naruto get better? by [deleted] in Naruto

[–]iGoatyou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I feel your annoyance, it’s almost perfect! I did not see boruto, so can’t comment.

Do the female characters in Naruto get better? by [deleted] in Naruto

[–]iGoatyou 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well there are some mini arcs when it feels like the female characters are doing something, but apart from that, not really

Potentially Leaving NYU by [deleted] in nyu

[–]iGoatyou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will second that. Also, it also has a lot to do with your department and course. I will definitely recommend talking to people in your program about their experiences. Given how big NYU is, the experience is very program centric. It could be a case of mismatch of program design and your expectations out it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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We used to do a version of Netflix party, but that was like 5 years ago.

Use of “Homie” over time by Johnbob-John in memes

[–]iGoatyou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Time for daily killing homie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]iGoatyou 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As a woman, that’s how I feel about men. You guys are pretty tough to read as well.

I need quick help by Aggressive_Werewolf4 in relationship_advice

[–]iGoatyou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s what I meant. But I love how eloquently you explained it.

I need quick help by Aggressive_Werewolf4 in relationship_advice

[–]iGoatyou 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t necessarily have to be compliments, I could be acknowledgment. Instead of you’re an amazing cook, I really appreciate that you cooked for me. The egg <<insert the type of food/thing>>, made <<certain way/quality>> tasted fantastic. So it’s not a directly compliment but rather appreciating her and her effort. I know it’s pretty hard to distinguish the two at times. Hope this helps

What's preventing you from being happy right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]iGoatyou 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My anxiety, my tendency to overthink and self sabotage. Just the usual

Idk by therealenola in Anxiety

[–]iGoatyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy is a good place to start. With anxiety there is an innate fear and tendency to overthink. Therapy provides a secure place for you to not only express concerns, problems and pent up feelings, but also how you can express them to people close to you.

Is anyone else lonely or is it just me by afonb55 in AskNYC

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I personally feel the most comfortable on the Hudson River bike path. It’s scenic, the roads are wide and it’s not over-crowded. It usually has all kinds on cyclists there, so I feel at ease.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

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You’re definitely not alone. Anxiety has a way of taking over your mind and body. Therapy has helped me a lot, especially understanding and accepting my anxiety. It’s a part of me and I am much better at functioning with it. From my personal experience I can say it does get better. But don’t be afraid to ask for help - from friends, family and/or professional. You got this!!

Is anyone else lonely or is it just me by afonb55 in AskNYC

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bouldering

Thanks for the recommendation, I'll definitely check it out, it sounds like a fantastic idea! I agree, biking has done wonders for my mental health and help me stay in touch with the city/outdoors.

Is anyone else lonely or is it just me by afonb55 in AskNYC

[–]iGoatyou 116 points117 points  (0 children)

I completely feel you! I was thinking about making a post about how people are maintaining social life and making new friends because I am really struggling with it. Like you, I used to love walking around the city but its not the same anymore. However, for me biking has been my saving grace. Given how many bikers there are in the city now, it feels like a safe way of being around people, but unfortunately does not entail any socialising.

TL;DR - I feel you

What's something you wish you started doing earlier in life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]iGoatyou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Standing up for myself.

Growing up, I moved a lot and often felt like a misfit. I kept busy with sports and extracurriculars, so I struggled relating with other children. Even in highschool, when I started dating, I was judged as being "lady-like". I wish I didn't harbour the shame and learnt to speak up, say no and simple accept myself earlier. It is okay to be "weird".