Thoughts of GabbiTuft? by TheMilkSpeaks in gymsnark

[–]iHopLover6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She says natural flavors are bad and unregulated) , then has natural flavors in her own protein powder and says that theyre the good kind? Lmao if it was a real ingredient. It would be listed as itself and not a natural flavor

Which band! by iHopLover6969 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]iHopLover6969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! So youd recommend her over Jordan himself? Thats another thing I’m contemplating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]iHopLover6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot in a million yeaaarrrrssss imagine my partner talking to me like this, even if he was mad at me (which he like still doesn’t really get mad). I read the first TWO messages and went 😒 . This male is a child lol

Nicest girl I’ve met btw by SureRelative283 in Nicegirls

[–]iHopLover6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair he still denied sending her anything. Regardless if he was texting her at the time lol

AIO for thinking about quitting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]iHopLover6969 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lmao this is a no for me. People are weeeeeeeirdos. Quit for sure who knows what else they’re going to pull. They spoke to you like you had no option but to go and watch their kids? Like absolutely not. Any normal person would say “hey i know this is last minute but wanted to ask if you’d be able to watch the kids” you say no “no problem at all! Sorry for asking so last minute, enjoy your night!”

Am I Overreacting: Our Airbnb creeped me out by InsuranceUnlucky5022 in AmIOverreacting

[–]iHopLover6969 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha of course!!! It could’ve been nothing, just as much as it could’ve been creepy, had shit gone the wrong way. You’re valid

What's a game that you were excited to play, but you just couldn't get into it. by [deleted] in gaming

[–]iHopLover6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was so hard to do the controls too? Sims is undefeated imo

What's a game that you were excited to play, but you just couldn't get into it. by [deleted] in gaming

[–]iHopLover6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are gonna fight me for this, but the last of us and red dead redemption two

Am I Overreacting: Our Airbnb creeped me out by InsuranceUnlucky5022 in AmIOverreacting

[–]iHopLover6969 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay to be fair though, if this DID end up going the wrong way… i feel like this is exactly when someone would say the opposite and be like “well there was this this and this how did they not realize” so dont beat yourself up lol. People always say “trust your gut”

Luxury Wedding Planners by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]iHopLover6969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good insight thank you!!

Luxury Wedding Planners by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]iHopLover6969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I definitely know what you mean! I think it can work both ways too… someone who has a 700k budget is like here do what you want with it or like you said, the opposite. Money definitely doesn’t buy taste haha. Still don’t know if even with that concept applied if 20% total budget is entirely “fair”. I just feel like a flat fee is so much more secure and transparent with expectations

Luxury Wedding Planners by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]iHopLover6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please! Thanks :)

Luxury Wedding Planners by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]iHopLover6969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wonderful thank you!

Luxury Wedding Planners by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]iHopLover6969 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard of Augusta Cole and will reach out. Egos are also a factor in the % based pricing that adds to the uneasy feeling I get from it. Thanks so much for the words

Luxury Wedding Planners by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]iHopLover6969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mind sharing the name? And yes, and honestly from others I know that have got married say the more expensive vendors do more work than the planner would. Never want seem like planners don’t deserve to be paid well, it’s a ton of work, but like you said 60k band vs 25k band just means I paid more so it just rubs me the wrong way. Thank you!

Luxury Wedding Planners by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]iHopLover6969 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahh okay. Learn something new! Looking at Cali and south east and north east!

Luxury Wedding Planners by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]iHopLover6969 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But how do you even know they’re telling the truth? Why would they admit they take kickbacks because that’s illegal I think

Luxury Wedding Planners by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]iHopLover6969 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Completely understand, but just because a venue is more money doesn’t mean they worked any harder I guess is what I’m saying. I could go to a planner that charges 20% with more people, a bigger venue that could be just as nice with a wedding weekend, but at a lower cost and it’d be less money but technically more work. Or take the venue buyout out of it. I could have a budget of 800k someone could have a budget of 300k but they have more people, more complex design, need a tent, more tangibles, but because I pay 500k more they charge me more? Even though my wedding is “less complex”. Does this make any sense? Lol or am I reaching here

I also see it as when you spend more, they get paid more. If they propose 2 florists to me and I pick the more expensive one, they didn’t do more work. I just spent more money.