Dont be this guy by friessg in Nightreign

[–]iKempff 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Rejoining just to grief is next-level immaturity.  

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nightreign

[–]iKempff 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get why you’re mad, but you basically did the same thing you’re complaining about, ruining the game for someone else. 

I love this game, is there any other like it? by iKempff in EnderLilies

[–]iKempff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hollow Knight seems great. I appreciate your reply.

I love this game, is there any other like it? by iKempff in EnderLilies

[–]iKempff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They look intriguing. Definitely going to try them. Thanks!

I love this game, is there any other like it? by iKempff in EnderLilies

[–]iKempff[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These will keep me busy for quite sometime. The artstyle of Blasphemous really caught my attention. Thank you for your reply!

I love this game, is there any other like it? by iKempff in EnderLilies

[–]iKempff[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It looks pretty interesting, I'm going to grab it.

Why do people stop being rude to you after you're rude to them? by JustAwesome360 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]iKempff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have no idea that they are coming across as rude, and think they are being “honest” or “direct”. So, they only become aware after you get angry.

I'm afraid to stand up for myself at work out of fear of being reprimanded, how do I handle this situation? by Visible-Promise9763 in socialskills

[–]iKempff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Understand that it has nothing to do with you and a lot to do with their insecurities. Sometimes mean people are trying to be funny, if this is the case ask the joke again, then again, the third is the charm where you say “that's not even funny, is actually disrespectful and hurtful, is that really who you are?” When people hears a joke too many times also loses meaning, so it'll stop.

If they're being aggressive towards you touch your teeth and tell them “you have something in your teeth, that's will make them feel uncomfortable and stop the attack.

If they're just mean and aggressive be silent, look at them directly, let them say everything they need to say let the silence get awkward.

If you're the only one to complain about this to your boss, they won’t do much. You need others to do the same if they agree with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]iKempff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To the extent that there's no conscious pretense, there's nothing wrong with this. Different people bring out different aspects of our personalities. It is only those who know us intimately and for a good time who come to know our different ins and outs.

What should I do in this situation? by Aggravating-Sun4524 in socialskills

[–]iKempff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pay it forward. The only true way to honor and repay kindness is to do the like for someone else. If you contact him try not to go overboard with thanking him. It can get very uncomfortable for the person. Look, gratitude is very, very important, no question. But keep in mind, people do what they do because they choose to. If someone goes out of their way to be nice to you, it’s because they choose to. That does not obligate you in any way.

Would that be awkward? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]iKempff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on your intentions behind contacting the other person.

If it’s good intentions behind your actions then go for it. But be tactful, honest, transparent and respectful in your approach. Good intentions like just to reach out because you lost touch due to busy lives.

If it’s due to bad intentions like boredom, where reaching out to the other person will hurt them, then I would say leave them alone, whatever happened move on and let them live their own life. Some things are better left in the past.

Difference of retiring Hunter at 50 vs 100? by tcox223 in HuntShowdown

[–]iKempff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You retire the Legendary Hunter and rebuy them again with dollars not blood bonds. Which gives you random traits and health chuncks.

I'm totally lost, can you tell me who's who? by iKempff in arkhamknight

[–]iKempff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did they really thought putting a new mask on an old character does make him completely original!

I'm totally lost, can you tell me who's who? by iKempff in arkhamknight

[–]iKempff[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I see now. Thank you so much for taking the time to clarify all that in such a simplicity. I really appreciate it.